I'm technically not in an official relationship, so at the moment I'm going on dates with 3 different girls. All of them call me and want to hang out all the time and on a few ocassions I've slept with them. I know that sounds bad, but like I said, I'm not an official couple with any of them, but my best friend tells me that what I'm doing isn't right, so I wanted some opinions.
2007-07-06 04:26:54 · 13 answers · asked by Johnny Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's rite... pick one and dump the other 2
2007-07-06 04:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok - I have one question that will answer this whole problem -- do they KNOW that you are basically a playa? If they know you have other women you go out with "friends w/benefits" situations, then no you're not wrong. If you are misleading them into believing that you're there for each one exclusively when they want to be with you - and they think you're not with anyone else . .then yeah, you're being cruddy. The whole idea of having people around you that respect you even though they may not agree with what you're doing, is honesty. These girls may not say they like that you're seeing other girls, but they can say "he was honest with me, so there would be no misunderstandings." That's the key in all relationships, be straight with people.
2007-07-06 04:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one it's not being a sexually responsible person. Yeah it's wrong. You are playing with the emotions of three different women. For one are you honest with them about the fact,it isn't an official relationship? Because if you aren't then,they don't know they aren't in a committed relationship,or official one for that matter. You should break it off with all three of them,because just imagine if the one you choose to be official with,knows you were sleeping with her and two other women at the same time?
2007-07-06 04:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
human beings are merciless . We on occasion say and do issues that later we remorseful approximately . on occasion we've a confusing time dealing with our very own flaws and lash out at others . Please forgive the idiots and carry your head severe and you're able to even see a brighter destiny . attempt to discover a help group on your section perhaps with some help you could discover what your searching for . stable success my pal on your adventure by way of existence....
2016-11-08 07:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing isn't right. I know you are probably enjoying yourself but this is not fair to the other 3 girls, and you wouldnt want them all to find out about it right? You need to think about the three girls and which one you like the most, whose personality, character and ways you like and love. You just love to be around the girl, that's who you need to keep this up with and drop the other girls and not lead them on. Women get attached very easily and you don't want to deal with a woman's scorn. Make the right decision babe.
Good luck!
2007-07-06 04:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Myanna513 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as you haven't given any of them the impression that you are in a committed relationship with them, then there is no problem. If they are all aware you are seeing other people, there is no reason you should feel like what you are doing is wrong.
2007-07-06 04:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by hotchic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look if ur not sure don't do it, keep ur options open and pleeeeeeeeeeeeease use protection with all of them, even if they tell u they're on birth control. Anyways,don't feel pressure by ur friends or these girls. the only person u need to worry about is u so DO U MAN!! and when u feel ready to be a one woman -man, then do it. like i said before if ur not sure don't do it!!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-07-06 04:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by la nena loca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess my only question based on your other question is what does your wife think about this? Do you have an open relationship or is she out of the picture now?
2007-07-09 02:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on if your ready for a relationship, itfso then you need to pick one, if not then you need to be straight forward w/them and tell them that your not ready for a relationship w/ anyone in particular and if they want to move on then let them if not then keep it up.
2007-07-06 04:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ricki F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If all three girls are aware that you're seeing others, especially having sex with the others, and are ok with it, you're in the clear. If any of them believe you are exclusive, you are deceiving them and need to come clean.
2007-07-06 04:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not right cuz i bet if u ask the girls at least one of them will say that u are in a relationship.......and one of them might be w/other guys.......but u really need to talk to them and pick one.......just one!
2007-07-06 04:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋