Family & Relationships - 6 July 2007

She has moved in with him and has been sleeping with him since the age of 15 years old. Everyone thinks this is wrong. Why?

2007-07-06 04:14:13 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My little boy is three months old and I will be going back to work this next week. I feel absolutely terrible, I'm a teacher and feel that I'm cheating my son, spending more time with other children than I do with him.

I already feel bad about the fact that I was unable to nurse him and now this...I want him to be smart, well adjusted and above all, happy, and I hope that I'm doing the right thing.

Has anyone else been through this? Did you have any guilt? If so, how did you deal with it?

2007-07-06 04:13:06 · 4 answers · asked by chicka_buggie84 3 in Family

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Actually she just requested the skirt, but i figured Id get her the outfit. Her office is just outside NYC.. so the fashions are very liberal, but I dont know about those boots the models wearing. I think she prefers the taller knee high boots with even longer heels. I dont know if knee boots whould go with the outfit though? Or should i just get her basic stiletto pumps?? Differnt color to contrast the black tights? Dont mean to sound obsessive but shes really into fashion, and this stuff aint cheap..lol! I want to do it right, and actually shop for her instead of buying gift cirtificates! Plus, its her 30th Bday, and I think she is feeling as though she is getting old.. so I really want to get her something she can strut around in and look and real really sexy, and maybe have some fun on her lunch break! LOL.. kidding!!

2007-07-06 04:11:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-06 04:05:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have always been a very close family, even with the inlaws.
However, my sister and brother in law have always been very anal about their stuff-Cars, homes, clothes etc. Currently, I am building a house, and need a place to stay for 2 weeks, and my brother in law has treated me so bad now, I don't feel comfortable staying there. He basically doesn't want me stay. It is very hurtful to me because they have stayed with me for 6 months when their house was build, and with my parents for 5 months when they were awaiting their first house. He told my sister that I don't live the lifestyle they live, and may leave cups around his house. (Please). My house is neat and clean, but I am just not as particular as them. Also they have taken care of our 84 old mother while I had my house on the market. They both agree to this, but I know they are not use to having anyone in their 6,000 sq ft house but them. I don't know how to interact with him anymore. After this, my tolerance is gone.

2007-07-06 03:58:03 · 8 answers · asked by jr 3 in Family

whom are living plush with their mothers. I have never missed a payment and dont intend to. However, I am currently married again and she has 2 boys of her own and doesn't recieve much support from her ex. We are living from pay check to paycheck (Barely). Is this fair to me and my family to have to live like this, especially being in the military. Which disqualifies me for most financial assistance by the way.

Please respond.

2007-07-06 03:57:14 · 17 answers · asked by Johnny L 1 in Family

there's this guy i like and he's older then me: \
im 15 he's 19 but its ok with my mom so i'm good..lol
well I can't really tell if he likes me or not.he kinda confuses me but the more he does the more I feel the need to try and figure it out.I've been to the movies with him at least twice and i met him at my friends house.so i've hung out with him atleast 7 times all together..it started out as he asked me to go with him to his car to listen to a song that he liked and i did since then we've talked on the phone and msn everyday(more on msn tho) I'm trying to tell if he likes me or not but 1 minute he's all sweet and everything and the next he's just like w/e ok.
When I'm around him I freeze up idk what to say and Idk what to do either.I've never done that with neone else, just him.but when we do touch hold hands or w/e i feel this feeling that says give it some more time he likes you and everyone else says he does too.what do I do? do I give it some more time?
he knows i like him.

2007-07-06 03:55:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been living together for 4 yrs. Since about our 2nd year, we've been talking about getting married. Not "if" but "when" we get married. Although we both have decent jobs, he's reluctant to spend his savings on a ring when there are more practical things to spend money on (like a house, but I won't buy until we are married or at least engaged).

So my mom gave us her engagement ring and wedding band from my dad (they're divorced) to help us save money (re-setting her diamonds will save a lot of $$) That was 2 or 3 yrs ago. We've been to several jewelry stores. He knows what I'd like. We went to Florida when I turned 30 last year. I thought the proposal was going to come. Nothing. Last summer he asked when I'd like to get married. I said "next fall" (meaning fall, 2007). Still nothing. Every vacation we take, every holiday, I hope it comes, but no. He doesn't want me to propose. He doesn't want to set a date either. I'm getting resentful. I love him but I want to plan my life already!

2007-07-06 03:54:11 · 43 answers · asked by yreviewer 2 in Weddings

We are an Indian family and we have a serious problem with our eldest brother's wife. They have been married for one year on 1 March. Not only is she refusing to make food for her husband or take care of her baby boy (born in January), but also she is becoming verbally abusive towards her in-laws (Bahiyaa and bhabhi are living with us).
Last week matters have gone worse, and she hit her husband on the chest, in consequence to which he suffered from a minor hear-attack.
The girls family are also threatening our family.
Although we are a traditional family, we do not see any option for the safety of our family.
I would like to know if it is possible to file a divorce and how long it would take, as well as whether we would have to pay this lady compensation, considering that the harm is coming from her side.
ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERERS PLEASE

2007-07-06 03:52:04 · 12 answers · asked by Parvati 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone advise me on the best website where we can order our wedding favours? I have had bad luck so far with a certain company and I would appreciate advice from experienced people! Thank you.

2007-07-06 03:50:38 · 9 answers · asked by tsiou 1 in Weddings

i like a guy and don't know how to find out if he is married without him knowing i like him i want to find out like a matter of fact way.

2007-07-06 03:49:23 · 25 answers · asked by cocopuff 2 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone.

im looking for totally unique, crazy wedding favors that dont typically come to mind.. any ideas?

2007-07-06 03:44:35 · 10 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

when we are in bars, coffee shops etc she stares at the most attractive man she can find - sometimes smiles at them too. I dont want to be a control freak but her reasoning is that she is trying to be aware of what is going on around her in order to protect me from any volatile situations and i cannot help thinking that she is taking the p*ss. This has caused friction between us butr she says i must trust her and that she loves me. Am I not to be bothered by all of this?

2007-07-06 03:44:31 · 20 answers · asked by mick271602 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for a month and a half. Things have been very complicated and based on circumstances we will probably never end up together anyways. We have decided to be friends w/benefits seeing each other about once a week with the option to see other people if the interest comes up. Has anyone done this and had it work? I am concerened about emotional implications but I do care about him so much and do not want to lose him. He is the one with all the complications, no drivers license, two kids, divorced, etc. I have been driving to see him so I pretty much have control over this thing, does anyone have an opinion or done the friends w/benefits thing and what were the final results or is it still going on? Thanks so much!!

2007-07-06 03:42:07 · 28 answers · asked by prettykitty0829 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have children together. For the past few years we have had major problems. We have gone to only one session of counseling and I felt it really helped and wanted to continue. This was months ago and everytime I ask him when are we going back he simple says, "he's not the soul bearing type of person. He does not like people asking him questions repeatedly. Then he says, he does not feel it is that serious, we have other things going on in our lives". My thing is, if he feels like this, then he is not serious about working out our problems. We have tried it our way: just talking it out, but it results in bigger fights. I really don't know where else to turn or what else to do. I am even at the point to where I don't feel love for him anymore. I don't think I can give what I am not getting. Am I wrong? What is there left to do?

2007-07-06 03:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by destinyawaits 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vL7Jo_1Z3Y8
Actually, it moves me to tears.
This goes out to all the youngsters,teens,middle age and senior folks.......Have a happy day, friends.

2007-07-06 03:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two stepchildren who I consider my own. I married their father last year and we have established a very good relationship over the past year. The lost their mother o ovarian cancer when they were young and they were so grateful to finally have a mom in their lives. My 12 year old has a problem with treating the family nicely when her father has disciplined her. She usually calls me Mom (her birth mother passed away 7 years ago) but when she gets mad at me, she calls me by my first name. I am getting to the point where I hate being around her and I feel guilty about it. How can I dettach myself from her when she is this way and still love her at the same time?

2007-07-06 03:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i always wanted to know what guys find so facinating about girls?

2007-07-06 03:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-06 03:39:27 · 5 answers · asked by KH 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend purchased a beach house about a month and a half ago. I only get to see him on weekends and he assured me that his parents would not be staying with us every weekend. Well, guess what? They've been there every weekend because "they're helping with the house". By the way, the house was in move-in condition when purchased and the only thing that needed to be fixed was 1 toilet. I asked him if we could have this weekend to ourselves and he said that he didn't know how his parents would take it. These people do not like to relax and have fun and, so far, we've only made it to the beach once. I get to clean and watch the neighbors pass by the house with their beach gear. Plus, when we did go to the beach they couldn't believe that I spent $2.00 on a hotdog at the food shack when "there's a pack of hotdogs at home". UGH! Any advice...PS: I'm thinking about ending this relationship.

2007-07-06 03:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by whenwillthelambsstopscreaming 2 in Family

I am a young African American 20 year old, who grew up in the suburbs. I often wonder do some of the Caucasian females that date me have racist agendas do they view me as some weird prise, or have they bought into some racist stereotypes. the reason i ask this i dated a girl not to long ago who thought i was into hip hop and wear a bandan and was your typical sterotypical black guy, but when i pulled out my guns and roses album or my andrea bocelli, she were suprised that i didint speak ebonix to, ok back to my question can someone still be a rascist and be in an interracial relationship

2007-07-06 03:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by dean 1 in Singles & Dating

how can u b sure that uvr found ur soul mate? and how do u know that u love sum1,

2007-07-06 03:30:43 · 19 answers · asked by lilstar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Cyber Friends...

Well, I would like to have some cyber friends from different countries... No matter if they are men or women.

I'm 25 years old, female, from Puerto Rico but living in USA

Hope to receive some messages...
icy.breeze@msn.com

2007-07-06 03:30:01 · 9 answers · asked by ιcч.вяєєzє 1 in Friends

Ok, So today my friend wants me to go camping w/ her and her family. well....
Her mom's bf is a pot smoker
Her mom is controlling
Her brother is abusive
and her brother's friend is annoying.

I don't know if i should go or not, my dad says i should b/c of the experience and my mom's says i shouldn't because in order to have fun camping you would have to go w/ the right people.

should i go or not?

(and yes i have slept over at her house be4 and it was NOT fun)

2007-07-06 03:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does it hurt the first time? I am 14, amd he is 17. What can I expect? Will it be very painful? I am not sure if I am going to though, sometimes he wants to have sex with me, but sometimes he tells me he wants to wait so he does not hurt me....
What does he want? What can you expet the first time you have sex?

2007-07-06 03:24:28 · 19 answers · asked by Klava♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

After years of husband having issues with porn and he agreed he would not watch anymore you found out he had been watching for the last year. He said in counseling that he didn't need it and knowing how I felt he wouldn't have to watch it again. Before I hear from everyone who sees nothing wrong with it this isn't about wether porn is ok but rather about someone blatantly disrespecting your wishes.So with that said would you be upset? Believe me I am not a prude by no means but the porn issue goes way beyond just watching every once in a while.

2007-07-06 03:24:03 · 24 answers · asked by confused one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a lil bit afraid of tellin u my problem on here so please jus i.m me ok miracle_teague2002

2007-07-06 03:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i fall in love with someone?? i was in love with my first boyfriend who i was with for 4 years,he treated me badly then i got with someone who treated me wonderful,bought me presents all the time and was kind.I'm still with that person and now have a 4 year old daughter.Hes so in love with me and i dont feel the same.Everything bugs me about him,ive tried splitting with him but he doesnt go away.Obviously he wants to see his daughter.She loves her dad,but,i feel i have to suffer in silence.I feel as though my daughter is better off without me as i dont wanna take her away from her daddy but,i feel like getting on the next plane to as far as i can get?? I was 18 when i had my daughter,although never change her,just wish i waited.Me and her dad are more like friends and always have been.I dont know where to go or what to do..we are totally different people.please help me.

2007-07-06 03:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by tess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been intimate with the same guy for the past 2 years but he will not call me his girlfriend. He doesn't date anyone else and is always with me and very sweet to me, but says that he "is not ready for a relationship". In his culture (Bermuda) they don't say "girlfriend and boyfriend" unless the couple is nearly engaged, but we are living in America. What do you think of this? Would it be wrong if I dated other men while I'm seeing him?

2007-07-06 03:17:47 · 5 answers · asked by Behappy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just going to come out and say it. I will be 20 years old, October 8th, 07. And I am single. But latley I have been going on a few casual dates with guys and getting to know them. But its like everytime I go on a date with a guy or talk to one of my guy friends. All they seem to think is about is sex or "experimenting" And there is more to me then just sex. I mean I like to have fun, laugh, watch good movies, write peotry, hang out with my friends.

I am not into these little high school games. I want a real relationship, with a guy who is loving, caring, smart, kind, romantic, honest.

check out my myspace, and add me if you have myspace.
www.myspace.com/crysup

Darleen

2007-07-06 03:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating