i like a guy and don't know how to find out if he is married without him knowing i like him i want to find out like a matter of fact way.
2007-07-06 03:49:23 · 25 answers · asked by cocopuff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can ask one of his friends.
2007-07-06 03:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume that he's not married just because he doesn't have a ring. Plenty of married people don't wear rings for all kinds of reasons... Some jobs don't allow it, others may not fit anymore but they haven't had it resized, etc.
Talk to him, now you don't need to come out and ask straight out. Ask him what he does for fun? And other similar questions which will give you more of a clue... Who does he hang out with? Perhaps then you will be able to ask a mutual friend.
2007-07-09 19:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ring isn't a gurantee that a guy is married. members of a certain religion i know which is the seventh day adventist don't wear jewelries for the simple life they want to show the world. (that's part of their doctrine!) even married adventists don't have wedding rings.
the best way? contact the national statistic office or whatever office your government has to check on the status of the guy.
subjectively speaking, why marry when you can live in? living in gives you the freedom to leave the relationship if it doesn't go right along the way.
ciao!!!
2007-07-08 03:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by zheriamor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So sad but true. This is a day and age where married men don't wear their wedding ring.
Why?
I don't know but SHAME, SHAME, SHAME on you men who perpetrate a fraud.
Any-who if the obvious sign isn't there (the ring), you can ask but don't expect an honest answer because people lie (especially men), when the truth will do. So if asking doesn't help, just observe closely and it will be revealed to you.
2007-07-06 11:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I liked this guy at work and he seemed interested in me too. He's always wave, talk and look at me everytime I was around or would pass him, we'd ask questions about each other. Well I asked him if he would give me a ride after work to pick my car up from the dealership. He said yes, then I asked him if he went to watch fireworks on the 4th he said yeah he took his fiance' down to watch them!!!!!!!! Shock me! Never once has he seemed to have a girl or said anything about her. SO just ask him questions, Just ask him if he is married or seeing anyone.
2007-07-06 10:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look for the ring on his finger for starters. And then if you like him, make some comments to him about being taken or married and see what he says.
2007-07-06 10:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by tiff705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not usually that easy to determine the marital status of a man especially if he's a good player.1)ask him questions about himself(of course he won't tell u the truth if he's lying,but if he tries to omit some details,BEWARE!)2)find out where he lives and then pay him a surprise visit.3)when next he comes to ur place,lovingly detain him and watch his reaction(is he angry,indifferent or panicky?) 4)without his knowledge,make friends with his workmates and friends.5)watch out for anything about him that u're not comfortable with. GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-06 11:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by ojelarinaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
besides the ring thing, I would ask him if he wants to hang out and in the convo ask if he wants to invite his gf or wife to come along for a group outing....that would be his chance to tell you. That way you are just being friendly but still getting it from him.
2007-07-06 10:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by happydema 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just casually bring it up in a conversation or ask one of his friends. Even if you just flat out ask him it doesn't necessarily mean you like him. Take the chance. Life's too short to wonder.
2007-07-06 10:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Danni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him a question about what he is up to. like.... What are you doing this weekend? ........ oh really who are you going with.......... something like that try a couple types of questions like that he will eventually let you know whats up.
I would recommend just asking him though. him knowing you like him isnt going to hurt anyone even if he married. and if hes not then you have a shot.
2007-07-06 10:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, jeez. A married guy should be wearing a ring, m'kay? But to be sure about everything, ask one of his friends or something. If he tells you he's single but you find out otherwise, he's not worth it.
2007-07-06 10:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋