Okay i am getting a divorce after 4 yrs of marriage because of my husbands anger managment issues that turned into physical abuse it was only once but he dislocated my some of fingers and bruised my face.I have a 5 yr old daughter from a prior realationship who never really got along with my husband.My daughters real father has only seen her a few times as a baby but sends her presents and money .She in return sends him her artwork and at present i am setting it up so they can meet and slowly be introduced.However her father and i will be meeting in person a few times before that to talk since he has agreed to help me out money wise for a few months and he wants to work on communication relationship ect with me.Last time i went to see my daughters father we ended up having sex i was married but seperated at the time.Very confused and afraid it might happen again?I do not want to make an emotional mess?
2007-07-06 04:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it gets to the point where things are moving back in that direction, you need to stop. I know. It's not always easy. But you're going through a lot right now. Sleeping with him will only complicate things.
2007-07-06 05:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there still an emotional attachment, or just the attachment of him being her father? If no emotional attachment, then why not? Have at it. If you still feel something for him, why not take your daughter with you? Or go to a public place. Really, it's you. You WANT to have sex with him again, and you make it possible. Stop lying to yourself. You want this man.
2007-07-06 05:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knows now that you are an easy lay because you have done it before while being separated from your husband. And now going through a divorce makes you very vulnerable and he will take advantage of you. So instead of meeting him in person, discuss things with him on the phone, or email him.
2007-07-06 05:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe with every ex there will be an emotional and physical attraction to that person, so if you would rather not be intimately connected with him anymore, I would have to say, you should stay in a public place when alone, and do not let him or yourself talk you into going somewhere a little more discreet and quiet.
2007-07-06 05:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by badunkadunkhunter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him no! Its that simple. Tell him you want to make sure things are going to work out. You have to do whats right for your children...they come first. If this works out great but if it doesnt and your sleeping with him it will be much harder to deal with in the long run. Keep your head up and take it slowly. Good LUck
2007-07-06 05:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by koooolbabe_20000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's very simple, dont have sex with him. Realize its just a physical attraction that does not need to be acted upon. You see attractive people everyday and you wouldnt go ******* every one of them would you? Same principle. He is an ex for a reason.
2007-07-06 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK write it off as an experience and move on forget him b-4 you get the sh-t beat out of you again
2007-07-06 05:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use the aspirin method. Put an aspirin between your knees.
2007-07-06 05:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this might sound difficult but the best way to not have sex is too.... are you ready?.......not have sex, yes just dont have sex,
2007-07-06 05:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you mind having sex with him? if you felt the desire to have sex with him its okay so what was your question.
2007-07-06 05:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋