Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

One night a local bartender asked for my number so i gave it to him and left to go to a freinds house he found out i was there and came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor. I later found out he has a girlfriend so i backed off.Now i have been talking to a freind of his,at first he was upset with his freind,but he seems to have accepted it now. Nothing is serious between his friend and i yet, but i still have a thing for him more than his friend, should i continue in hopes that i will grow feelings for his freind or would it always be awkward?

2007-05-07 07:00:51 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

CHILDREN ARE TO BE SEEN AND NOT HEARD?DAILY?mine did,I haven't shut up since.

2007-05-07 06:52:13 · 4 answers · asked by FYIIM1KO 5 in Family

It was my choice to save myself for the man I marry and I don't regret that, I know I'm doing the right thing. But I am quite scared about the pain and I would want to avoid it as much as I could. Is there any possiblity? Is it going to hurt much?

2007-05-07 06:51:37 · 33 answers · asked by dana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I ended a 20 year relationship to be with someone who professed such love for me. As soon as I ended this relationship they lost interest in about a month. We had been seeing each other, cause I thought my current long term relationship was over. She also was living with someone else. I just don't understand when we were sneaking around must of been more exciting for her, than to really settle down. I haven't spoken to her since, and was very fortuanate to get back into my past relationship. I will never stray again. I just wonder whats up with that kinda thinking, and yes I know it takes two to tangle. I just wonder if this person is mental, or potentially dangerous, like anti-social. And possibly enjoys breaking up marriages, cost people much unneeded expense, and heartache. I really learned my lesson, kinda like fatal attraction.

2007-05-07 06:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by thejanitorsez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can showing someone you love them and only them by showing all love and affection including all attention in full affect then totally leaving them alone as in cutting all love affection attention for the reason to reason there reasons and sift out what they want and need be a good way of persuasion or just a way of proving chemistry between two IF THEY MEET AGAIN..?

2007-05-07 06:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im eleven years old, im pretty, smart, and nice, but im really shy. I recently moved to a new school where i say about 3 words a day and have no friends. How can i make friends? the best day-by-day, step-by-step answer gets best answer. thx

2007-05-07 06:43:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Friends

After spending 8 hrs trying to find a light colored dress for my sons wedding, i ended up buying a black & cream colored, very elegant, pretty dress which is all i could find. It's prom season, so most stores were picked over. My mother in law thought it was gorgeous and looked great on me (i'm very busty so not an easy find) so i bought it. Now FDIL says No she does not want me wearing it as the bridal party is black & fuschia, and she says cream is the brides color (altho her gown is white). I want to do whats right but cannot find anything else, unless i order by mail?! it's only 3 1/2 weeks away, help. thank you.

2007-05-07 06:43:07 · 21 answers · asked by denvrgal64 1 in Weddings

This is a serious question not a riddle!

2007-05-07 06:42:04 · 46 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I could make it work in this section, too, i suppose. My husband had an affair and his whore invited him to her online photo gallery that I was able to get into, and lets just say I have posted some interesting comments and I hope and pray she gets them. Anyway, married and divorced people take pictures, too, dont they? So, onto my ?.....

If your 'friend' invites you to share pics with them and you post a comment, does your 'friend' have to log into the Kodak Gallery account to read the comment, or does the Kodak website send her an email letting you know what the comment is or does Kodak send your 'friend' an alert email, like letting you know a 'friend' has posted a new comment to your pics? How does that work? Will the email she gets just say something like: "You have a new comment posted, log into the gallery to read it...or will Kodak actually send her an email telling her what the comment is?

2007-05-07 06:40:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hello, i need some advice how to brake the ice? i mean when im with a girl somewhere...simply dont know what to say, and i think that i look completely silly and boring to her :S

2007-05-07 06:40:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need help a while back i started talking to this girl (34)(lee)
im 33 . any how she hasnt been returning my emails
or calling me. its been a week since she called me
& i really instrested in her
i asked her to be my girlfriend & she has not sent me a
reply yet

should i wait longer or give it up
or what?

2007-05-07 06:40:29 · 3 answers · asked by joelinn1974 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 06:38:34 · 5 answers · asked by cuteness 4 in Singles & Dating

The older(10yrs) of the two was born to me (meaning that i'm not the sperm doner but i'm the only father she's ever known). The youngest(4yrs) is our child togerther. I've not pushed the issue but with the child that's younger and not in regular school she's refusing to let her visit. I love both my kids and don't won't them involved in a ugly custody battle. What should I do?

2007-05-07 06:34:30 · 8 answers · asked by misterlvj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

here's a situation i never thought i would find myself in. my wife recently told me she would like to leave me. we have been together for 7 years and married for 4. she enjoys going to strip clubs with her girlfriends (seriously for her birthday recently she had her party there.)

i am very committed to her, i have provided her with a vehicle, a house, basically anything she needs (within reason - i won't buy diamonds just on a whim). i am there for her emotionally and to help her in any way she needs.

now having said that - i am not the only guy i know in the 35-40 age frame experiencing similar circumstances. i know of 7 other guys (at least) experiencing similar life changes.

i wonder if growing in the 80s we actually listened to our mothers, sisters etc and realized that women need attention and care. maybe this is a crazy conclusion, but when i hear women saying where are the men seeking commitment - i am wondering if this is what they want...

2007-05-07 06:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by william o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together almost 4 years and living together almost 1. Things have been a little rocky at times since living with each other, but I think it is us just getting used to living with each other. He feels we fight too much (like once a month). We were about to break up when he decided instead of breaking up, I move out for 3-6 months and we work on our selves and our relationship. In 3-6 months we reassess and decide whether we are going to break up for good, or get married. I don't think things are half as bad as he does and really would like to get married and start a family together. He just thinks things should be effortless and we should never argue. I tell him-such relationships do not exist. thingsw really have gotten better since we decided I will move out 3 weeks ago. Things have done a 180. I have actually started to look forward to being on my own again, and am getting excited. I am scared I may like it too much, like I did before I moved in can this work

2007-05-07 06:32:04 · 11 answers · asked by Jaime S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and I are really good friends. She's great and has always been there for me. But, I'm wondering what the mother/daughter, mother/son relationship is like for others?

2007-05-07 06:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by socmum16 ♪ 5 in Family

I would say deep water, the back of my boyfriends car , or his bed, or hot tub

2007-05-07 06:28:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend asked me to be her bridesmaid before I got my dream job and of course I said yes. I've been asked to go away to give a few presentations and I'll be gone during her wedding. I want to be there for her but I also care about my career (I worked long and hard to get where I am) and if I don't go, I'm worried they might not think I'm serious about my position. I thought about flying home on the day of her wedding but I can't afford 2 plane tickets plus I have to attend meetings and prepare stuff.
I don't want to lose a friend over this but I also want to do well at my new job.
What should I do??? Please give me some advice...

2007-05-07 06:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im doing a paper for my english class and i need some quick ideas. What do women really want?? and not just from a guy, in general or from life. . .

2007-05-07 06:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by MIX208 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help.a guy kept on inviting me so i kept him as a contact but he meant nothing to me.my boyfriend of 4 years asked to see my contacts,and to avoid any trouble,i deleted the guy,little knowing that my boyfriend had seen my contacts-this guy too before.now he thinks i cheated on him and is upset at why i lied about not knowing ths guy.i told my boyfriend the truth,i didnt cheat,etc but he is leaving me.plz help,im falling apart,i hav no family here,am writing exams,i gave my bf evrything but he is leaving.

2007-05-07 06:23:52 · 77 answers · asked by Cosmo girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend have been close for 3 years. He's the one i can talk to about everything and i'm the only girl that can "open him up" (pretty lucky to have that considering the fact he's the "shy boy" private-person type). He's liked me all this time and just recently i started to develop feelings for him. We care for each other deeply but decided that if the right time came, it would just happen - no rush. Recently, we just lost someone we knew - he was very close to him. I know i'm not being a pushover and i don't wanna annoy him so i would (now and then) call and txt to see how he's doing.

It's been a week since we last "talked" - it was only for 2 minutes and he said he was gonna call but never did. He's the shy guy type and i know he's waiting for me to call him but it's hard for me to because i'm not the agressive type - i don't wanna bug BUT i do want to be a good friend. how can i be there for him if i'm having issues myself? Why doesn't he call me? Should i cal him?

2007-05-07 06:21:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, tell me what color and some details please :)

2007-05-07 06:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by LionessB 3 in Weddings

2007-05-07 06:17:09 · 89 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had sex with this gurl several times to many to count, but the catch is she has a man and a child I find myself in love with her and I don't think I could ever stop having sex with her what do I do?

2007-05-07 06:17:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married in two weeks and needs a song for her and her dad to dance to..... she doenst want it to be to long or to mushy (her dad and her dont have the best relationship). Any ideas?

2007-05-07 06:14:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I come from a pretty family, where I'm the ugly duckling becuase of my nose. Everybody else has straight or ski jump noses, wheras I have a bent nose with a hump,not same-sized nostrils, and tip bump. I think I would look so much better after a nose job and feel better, but my family thinks its a waste of money and superfical. I'm trying to save money but even my friends(all with small ski jump noses BTW) think I could use the money on something better. How can I show them that they don't know what it's like to have a big bent nose and that You only live once and I would sure like to live with a nose I love!?

2007-05-07 06:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by hotcute36candme 1 in Family

2007-05-07 06:09:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Grandfather is pretty well off and has EVERYTHING. So what should I get him for fathers day? I have already done pictures and albums of me and my hubby and 3 kids. He lives at the oppisite end of the state so I have to beable to send it. I want it to be special and just not some card.
Any ideas are appriciated!!
Oh and I am not rich, actually I am a full time student and kinda strapped for money. So nothing over like $50.

2007-05-07 06:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by Megz 2 in Family

2007-05-07 06:07:01 · 7 answers · asked by Alison S 1 in Singles & Dating

how does it feel to be a teenager

2007-05-07 06:02:37 · 53 answers · asked by amna s 1 in Family