Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

does anyone know what first base second base and third base are??

2007-05-07 10:01:55 · 7 answers · asked by iheartearl 2 in Friends

Ok, here is the problem. My sister has a son who is 12 years old. He never has had any sort of contact with his dad, and his moms life has been chaotic to say the least. Anyways, he has never had a real male role model in his life, except for his grandpa. My sister is on her 3rd man who is also the father of her 3rd child. Her boyfriend, is a real dick. He treats his son well but treats the 12 year old like CRAP. So anyways, this 12 year old has behavioural problems, was diagnosed with ADHD etc. He is like this because his mom will stick by whatever her stupid boyfriend says/does. She is a crappy parent to him. A few months ago she decided that she no longer wants to deal with her son and sent him to live with my parents, who are 65 and 58 years old. They of course took him in, but they are exhausted from taking care of him, plus they both work full time. Do you think it is wrong of me to tell my sister to get her act together and take her kid home on the weekends?Thanks

2007-05-07 09:58:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need to mail out my rehearsal dinner invitiations for my june wedding, how early do I do this?

2007-05-07 09:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica E 1 in Weddings

6mths after your divorce is final a good thing or is it bad?

2007-05-07 09:55:24 · 33 answers · asked by Dareisha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a person goes out all the time and leaves their significant other at home with the kids....should they charge to babysit?? I know the kids are the responsibility of both parties, but he/she would have to pay someone to do it if they weren't there, so why shouldn't the one at home be compensated somehow?

2007-05-07 09:54:08 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have an ongoing issue about online usage but in our last arguement he told me that he "gave up" on me. How should i take that? He busted me..busting him with his online activities.

2007-05-07 09:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by lori p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

actually she wants 2.5 carat diamond engagement ring from Tiffany & Co which is valued approximately $55,000. she is definitely worth every dime but that is something i cannot afford right now.... is expensive engagement ring that important to a girl?

2007-05-07 09:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of 16 years is making me crazy with his selfishness and jealousy. He's jealous of every minute and every penny that I spend on our kids - which really isn't a lot. If I buy something for the kids, I have to buy something for him. the kids need braces, but he won't hear of spending that type of money on them. As far as college goes, he says the kids can take care of themselves. Anytime anything happens with me or the kids the focus turns to how this will affect HIM. I' m so sick and tired of hearing how he wants to get away from the kids - he keeps insisting that we need a vacation. The kids do all the chores and household cleaning and laundry. I pitch in when I can, but I think it's wrong to essentially use them as servants. I did all the chores when I was a kid, but I know that HE didn't. He's big (400 lbs+) and scarey and termpermental and seems to enjoy getting upset. We spend our lives trying to make sure that we don't provoke him. What can I do?

2007-05-07 09:49:03 · 17 answers · asked by Zinnia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay heres the deal. He tape a girl leaning over and showing her butt. This hurt so bad. Were on break but should it be over? Hes done this to me 4 times now. I am afriad to lose him but i cant be hurt forever. So what do i do??

2007-05-07 09:47:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here are the good and bad things about my girlfriend. the bad things really are big problems for me.. do you think i can change her or that she will change in time? (shes 19 years old, im 18.) ive only been with her for a couple of months but shes prepared to move a long way to be with me, so i think i should be kind of sure it would work before she moves.

good stuff:

- shes loving, caring, affectionate
- shes in love with me
- shes passionate
- shes funny and great to be around
- shes beautiful and has an incredible body
- when were together we have sex a lot

bad stuff:

- she is ordinary and so is her style - shes not that unique
- she is narrow minded (she doesnt like any truck drivers cos one of her friends said all truck drivers cheat on their wives.. sort of ridiculous.. also she doesnt like gays)
- she isnt that talented at anything
- she doesnt need a career which involves helping people

2007-05-07 09:44:24 · 28 answers · asked by john9999999 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 09:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by Cherry O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in 3 weeks and would love some suggestions for a song / track to played while we are signing the register. It is a civil ceremony so it has to be non religious..

2007-05-07 09:38:54 · 26 answers · asked by marc 2 in Weddings

if she says she'll NEVER do tricks again

2007-05-07 09:37:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some people believe that the place where u meet somebody definitely define if the relationship will work or not... is that true???

2007-05-07 09:36:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got married about a month ago and i havnt got my certificate yet. i need it so i can start getting covered under my husbands insurance. im 8 mos preg and dont have any health care insurance right now. i need to know if they send you one when they get the paper work from the minister, or do you have to send in the money for a copy to recieve one?

2007-05-07 09:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Gina B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if your kissing a guy.
where do you put your hands
and how long and whats the
best way to kisss

2007-05-07 09:32:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a 14yrs relationship and we never got married? I felt after we had our son he would want to marry me. Two more kids came and still we didn't get married.

2007-05-07 09:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by lilmomma4ya1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love this guy and he feels the same way. we were talking about having sex and i want to but im scared. becasuse im very self concious about my body. I need help from people that can give me some advice on how to relax to do it. Im ready, but im just self concious about my body and im embarrase to show my body in front of him. i need advice on how to calm down and help me.!!

2007-05-07 09:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by &~TOAST~& 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any ideas please?

2007-05-07 09:21:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would you data pakistani guy or a woman ???? what are your views on them??? i have bought this topic up because i have just watched a programme about seggregation on bbc one.

2007-05-07 09:20:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend (since 2nd grade- almost 20 year friendship) is getting married. I am hosting a big shower for her and I want to make a photo slide show for her. What song should I use as the background music?

We are both girls in our late 20s. Thanks for your suggestions!

2007-05-07 09:13:19 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2 in Weddings

are you living happily ever after?

2007-05-07 09:11:32 · 21 answers · asked by don 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Just want some opinions. Also, how many years difference does everyone think is too many?

Thanks!

2007-05-07 09:11:21 · 18 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i are going through some tuff times. he is curently on the other side of the world and befor he left our relationship was on the rocks, now i'm talking to him about divorce. We have a 3 month old daughter that he has never been able to meet, due to his job. he couldnt even be there for her birth. i'm worried that due to his lack of involvment in her life thus far he may not be to keen on the idea of taking an active role in her life if we do decide to seperate legaly. also seeing as we are sperated i have started dating a really nice guy who doesnt mind that i'm a mom, and he and my daughter seems to get along very well. Is it right of me to let there relationship grow knowing things might get comlicated between me and my soon to be ex?

2007-05-07 09:09:42 · 23 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. my life is horrible. i have this problem. i have this boyfriend his name is drew. we have been going out for about 9 months. but everyone is telling me they think we should break up cus i deserve better. even my friends mom told me that. but 3 days ago i broke up with him and asked another guy out. he said yes and then drew just asked me back out yesterday and i said yes, and i dont know what i should do. go with drew or the other guy. cus my friends dont like drew and neither does my family but i love him. please help!

2007-05-07 09:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friends were saying that most guys dont buy drinks anymore. they say all guys want is to have one night stands. is that true?

2007-05-07 09:07:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law past away about 3 years ago and my wife is tired of always going to my mom's house for Mother's Day. She decided this year that she wants to do something different and that includes not going to my mom's house on Mother's Day. I was thinking of having mom over the day before so I can spend it with my wife on Sunday. What do you guys think?

2007-05-07 09:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by P Dilla 2 in Family

2007-05-07 09:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my ex best friend is trying to be friends with me. I mean we're cool and everything but she wants us to be like we used to be. I don't really trust her that much anymore and i dont know what to say to her.

2007-05-07 09:04:40 · 16 answers · asked by (M)Azing 4 in Friends

I came home from work last nite after a physically exhausting day and he was cooking me supper which consist of steak, dressing, gravy, mashed potato's and sweet potato's.
There is no hope for him as a chef, so I was polite, ate it and told him I needed to go home, shower and take a hour long nap. I had to go back to work that nite at midnite.
Within 20 minutes, he was showered, drove to my house and crawled in my bed. He wanted sex, so I caved and I faked my way thru it and asked him if he wanted to nap with me for an hour and he said "no, because he would be up all nite"
He drinks so much the sex cannot be spontaneous. He has to plan it around his "coctails" which consist of about 10 drinks mixed with Vodka. He drinks an increadible amount, but no one can tell because he functions quite well except in bed.
I am sick of this. How do I tell him to knock it off? Is it worth it to put up with the misery for the good times and his financial worth?

2007-05-07 09:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating