I was in a 14yrs relationship and we never got married? I felt after we had our son he would want to marry me. Two more kids came and still we didn't get married.
2007-05-07 09:29:48 · 14 answers · asked by lilmomma4ya1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what would he gain if he married you? he has all he need. children and a woman who would never leave.
2007-05-07 09:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who the hell gives a damn what he wants? What do you want? That's the question.
What are you waiting for this guy to decide what your going to do in your life? If you want to get married, then make sure that is the way things go. If he doesn't want to get married, but he doesn't want to leave you, then you better find out why, because he's hiding something?
Don't let anybody make major decisions in your life. You have to work together. If he doesn't want to marry you, he's getting what he wants, but if you want to marry him, your not.
If he can't make you happy 100%, he shouldn't be able to be with you, especially after a 14 year relationship with children!
2007-05-07 09:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just not the marrying kind. Some men are eternal bachelors. If he doesn't get married then he has an easy inexpensive way out.
2007-05-07 09:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever discuss with him whether marriage was on the radar? Or like every woman you assumed? Not everyone is going to get married. Less and less people are doing it. And if it has not happened by know, it probably wont.
2007-05-07 09:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you get married it will turn to s**t, so be happy your still in a good relationship.
2007-05-07 09:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by mcktiger05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suppose to get married first, then have the kids after the ceremony.
2007-05-07 09:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to make my woman my wife because I
wanted to prove to her how much I love her, re-
spect her, be responsible to her, and to protect
her as a husband should., and last but not least
show her that she is the only one for me by not
cheating on her.
2007-05-07 15:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage proposal should have come before the kids. Now, he's got no reason to take the extra step. He's got the home, the kids and the woman without taking vows.
2007-05-07 09:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
if you had wanted to get married you should have done that. you don't have kids to get a man to marry you. why didn't you ask him why he didn't marry you? i told my husband i wanted to marry him.
2007-05-07 09:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by adelaide 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threes absolutely no point to marriage....i think its just a throwback to the religious times.
2007-05-07 09:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋