Married people?

No I have a selfish ungrateful rude husband who I am planning to divorce.

2007-05-07 12:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋

Things in the universe or “space-time” we live in can not co-exist unless they are balanced.

So living happily ever after is not possible as most people see it because they think you would never ever fight and that everything would be like in a kid’s movie.

But as a good matrimony, with some good times, some fights, some laughing, some screaming, and some understanding, yes, I am living happily ever after. I would never change anything from my life, except to make a little more money or win a lottery… lol

And this is not just from me, but from my wife, because we have discussed it, and we know we might not have done 100% good with each other, but we both agree we love each other, we sacrifice for each other, and more important, we understand each other and try to be better all the time.

2007-05-07 17:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Definately not!

The main problem is that when 1 or both partners isn't real in the beginning and plays a role instead of being themselves...

And then you finally meet the true person after your wedding...

The person slowly starts to become mean, they don't give you anything (not even a card) for the birth of your first child, your anniversary, your birthday, and your first mother's day in succession. The person sulks, refuses to help with the baby or the home. Ridicules you and makes you cry. If you complain he twists your arm in front of the baby. Is this really the man I married?

And to top it off, that person decides not to hold down a job, and to have an affair with your supposed best friend...

But at this point when all becomes clear, you have a 1 year old, and you are just struggling to make it through your day with no partner, just a human stumbling block that makes it harder to get by.

You are trying to take care of your baby on your own, do all of the housework, and somehow make ends meet on your part time job.

You want a divorce, but you are tired, broke, don't have the energy or money to get it done. Meanwhile, there is no other recourse or accountability to hold the other party to. Not legal to beat the **** out of him for being a lying cheating ******. No way to force him to change... and you know that even once you get a divorce you are stuck with him for life anyway because now you have a kid together, which means dealing with him forever.

I think marriage could be happy and productive with a decent partner.

But for me, MARRIAGE IS NOT A FAIRY TALE, or even tollerable.

2007-05-07 16:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Heather L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Well, happily here for the first 17 years; hope the rest go as well!

2007-05-07 16:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I don't think you live happily ever after but one thing is for sure i couldn't be happier right now at this moment and that's what matters.

2007-05-07 16:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by cutebunny1122 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋

i don't believe there's a relationship without it's problems here and there but that's life..nothing in life comes easy we have always have to work hard towards accomplishing things if you know in your heart that this person is the one for you i'm pretty sure you won't give up at the first sight of a problem...now if this about you and you not being happy being married not to this person but just in general well then you should just let go you would only be hurting them and yourself if you choose to stay together...

2007-05-07 16:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sussy U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

yes i am been married to my husband 3 years but in love for 6 years and have two wonderful children together .. ages 5 and 1

2007-05-07 16:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Yes, but I think that I am an exception to the rule, as I have an"open relationship" with my husband. This allows us some freedom and helps spice things up with us. I know that not all people could handle this type of relationship and I feel grateful that I was able to find someone like minded.

2007-05-07 16:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋

Yes we are very happy but I know we will have our good and bad times everyone does its just how it works. But right now we just moved into a great house and are extremely happy. Why do you ask?

2007-05-07 16:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Hmm...Not right now..but if you work hard at anything in the long run its all worth it..We maybe 60 before we get there but once there we will be happy.

2007-05-07 16:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋

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