6mths after your divorce is final a good thing or is it bad?
2007-05-07 09:55:24 · 33 answers · asked by Dareisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been seperated from my 1st husband nearly over a year.
2007-05-07 10:16:23 · update #1
I've never been divorced before since I'm still on my first marriage....but I do think you should wait a bit longer before jumping back in.
Everybody and every situation is different though, so it could still work out.
2007-05-07 10:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. IF you have been working on your devorce for a very long time (Ive known them to go on for years and years) and in that time you found someone then, yes celebrateing a new marriage that soon is fine. If you were with this person for a short time, just got a divorce that was quick and are now getting married again it just looks like desparation. People only jump into another relationship like this when they have bad self esteem or just dont care about the vows themselves. Marriages are not expendable items they are ment to last (I realize that some do not for good reasons so I am not against divorce... but I am against divorce for the wrong reasons). Jumping into another relationship that fast just shows that some people dont take the time to get to know who they are promising to spend the rest of their lives with before the jump into marriage. If you dont want another divorce on your hands just think about your life and see if this is the right thing for you to do.
2007-05-07 10:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Joy Brown, a leading relationship expert, has a rule when it comes to divorced people. She believes you should never get involved in a serious relationship until the divorce has been final for 1 year.
She is adamant about this because many problems stem from these premature relationships. People just aren't ready yet. You should wait.
Also, people will assume you were having an affair before the divorce.
2007-05-07 10:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Contessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my opinion.....it's a bad thing.....6 months is hardly enough time to have gotten over the divorce let alone figure out what you did to cause a divorce (you were 50 percent responsible) get to know yourself and know what you want for the long haul....not just for the next couple of years...
2007-05-07 10:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been waiting a year AFTER the divorce to even date. Then think about dating and another marriage should be way far away in your thoughts...
2007-05-07 10:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the person. The situation and the persons attitude in life should determine the length. There can not be a single right answer other than that.
2007-05-07 10:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TOO SOON.
This is probably the reason you got divorce.
The affair in you marriage.
Give yourself some time to find out what you really want in life.
If this is who you were cheating with in your marriage remember what goes around comes around.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-05-07 10:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a bond for the whole life u need to wait for other few months not for the divorce but to understand tour partner
2007-05-07 10:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by robina s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right answer for this question. It depends on the individuals and the circumstances. Marriage and divorce are very complicated and extremely personal.
2007-05-07 10:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait. Make sure this is what you want.......for some reason or the other the first marriage didn't work so at least give this one a chance.. I would wait a yr and make sure he is what you want in a man and in a marriage
2007-05-07 09:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋