I've had sex with this gurl several times to many to count, but the catch is she has a man and a child I find myself in love with her and I don't think I could ever stop having sex with her what do I do?
2007-05-07 06:17:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had sex with this gurl several times to many to count, but the catch is she has a man and a child I find myself in love with her and I don't think I could ever stop having sex with her what do I do? He isn't her husband!
2007-05-07 06:43:41 · update #1
What's your question?
2007-05-07 06:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by RobbinATL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is still in the closet? Obviously if you are a woman and she is a woman and you are having sex, she must have some questions about her sexuality. But that aside, she's married and has a family. What you are doing with her is really wrong for that reason. (There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian but adultery is a horrible thing to do.) If she wants to leave her husband and plans to get a divorce, then let her leave him first and the 2 of you can continue your relationship. Otherwise, you need to step back and let her figure out her life and feelings on her own. Right now, you're just adding to the problem and if you actually care about this person, you need to step back so she can do right by her family.
2007-05-07 13:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a man and has obviously had sex with a man (resulting in a child) so one has to assume she is either bisexual or experimenting. Has she indicated that the sexual relationship is over? If not, then you don't have to worry about stopping having sex with her. If you're in love with her, letting her know might either scare her away or make the sex that much better... hard to say.
2007-05-07 13:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one else to have sex with. How could you be in love with a liar and cheater? If she cheats with you on her man then you know she will treat you worse than she treats him. Get your own relationship and leave the loser alone.
2007-05-07 13:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's cheating (unless her "man" is aware of her behavior) and you are an accessory to it, which means you condone cheating and believe it to be okay to be done to you as well.
If you think so little of yourself, and relationships in general, that you're okay with having sex with anyone (no matter what their relationship status) then knock yerself out. What goes around, comes around...karma will get its balance.
2007-05-07 13:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...your nic shows male..."Mr. M.." sooooo.....ummm...'..the catch is she has a man and a child..' How does that make her lesbian? Sounds to me like it just makes you a contributor to cheating and basically a..umm..sl**. Not to mention illogical...what, she won't leave the other guy for you so she must be gay?? Duhhhh..
2007-05-07 13:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question...
OIC...well, I guess if you love her, let her know how you feel. A relationship is a mutual decision, not one sided. If she has an attraction to you as strong as your attraction for her, she will probably choose you over the man. I doubt that she will choose you over the child, though.
Good luck! I wish you the greatest happiness.
2007-05-07 13:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by K. F 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She may be bi-sexual. There are plenty of available lesbians that you can fall for, despite how you feel now. Being a home-wrecker will never get you what you want. Think about it.
2007-05-07 13:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well follow your heart but you should know that youll always be in the background like monica said ur just the sideline ho find someone else
2007-05-07 13:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by smiley girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Cheating is cheating no matter what sexuality a person is. Do you really want to be the one blamed for the destruction of her relationship?
2007-05-07 13:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanne M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel like if you were her boyfriend or her child...I would cut off the relationship b/c it's not right...nobody really wants to be the other woman...
2007-05-07 13:20:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋