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2007-05-07 06:42:04 · 46 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and is this advantagious to men only?
2007-05-07 06:47:42 · update #1
With your f...buddy ,your just getting f'd and your friend with benefits ,they're his benefits not yours ,so I would say your getting fucked either way!!!
2007-05-07 06:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend w/benefit (fwb) relationship is a loosely held friendship, based on commonalities. The biggest commonality is sex and having the same sexual interests and habits. In a fwb situation, you can hang out as friends, the way platonic friends would, but it's understood that sex is expected most of the time ya'll hang out- not all the time. Most of the time, this type of relationship will feel like a committed relationship because of the time you spend together. Be careful! In this type of relationship, it's easy to lose sight of the actual relationship and put more in there (emotion wise) than what's actually there.
A cut-buddy is someone you get together with, just to have sex. You don't hang out or talk on the phone or spend to much 'get to know each other' quality time. These types of relationships often develop from fwb situations where the people involved realized that they didn't have as much in common as they thought and end up simply having sex whenever they come across each other with no additional contact. Usually, the relationship develops because either one or both of the people involved recognized that they have good sex together and want to keep the energy going.
With either situation, its with a person you trust to be clean, safe, and as freaky as you are. There should be no expectation of emotional attachment and/or committment. Neither situation is an actual caring, committed relationship. At any time, it can stop without warning because its based on sex. In a fwb relationship, you can still remain friends after the sexual interest has died down. In being a cut-buddy, once the sex stops, there's no other need to hook up. From what I've seen, people in relationships looking for side action (same sex, side action) go for the fwb situation. There's more discretion involved- with the outward appearance being that of plantonic friends. On the other hand, a lot of single people I know (especially guys) have cut-buddies. Whenever they get the need, they make a phone call to invite someone over, get off, and then send the person home. I guess I know more men who choose cut-buddy relationships than women. A lot of women still buy into the mentality that if they approach a man about sex, it makes her a whore. I think thats why a lot of women try to turn cut-buddy situations into a fwb situation. An emotional connection should have no place in a cut-buddy siuation and a lot of women are emotion driven.
In regards to it being adventageous, either a man or a woman can get a benefit or be harmed from that type of relationship. Men get the most benefit because they're more comfortable with their sexual freedom. Because men are always after pu*** rather than women always being after di**, it's easier for a woman to get laid. A woman would have the option to choose which type of relationship she wants to be in- whether a fwb or cut-buddy relationship (again, if she isn't emotion driven). Societal restraints are what keeps women from taking advantage of this type of sexual freedom. Without that, women would benefit the most.
2007-05-07 07:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend with benefits is a friend who you hang out with and when you two are in the need, you have sex with them. A friend with benefits is almost like a boyfriend/girlfriend, except you don't go on date or anytihng like that. You can do other things with them, and then, if you want, have sex.
An F buddy is just someone you call. Its like a booty call, these are people who you just call for sex. They are almost like a hooker/gigalo, you call them for sex, then you leave. Except you don't pay.
The F buddy is more of a "sl*t", they will date other people and have sex with other people, but a friend with benefits will date others, however you are pretty much their only other person they have sex with.
Its almost is not limited to one sex. I know women who have or had both, and men that do the same.
2007-05-07 06:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it lightly a f*** buddy is a person that you rarely hang out with and when you do all you are doing is having sex. A friend with benefits is a great friend and you share a special bond with and you get to make out and have sex when you feel like it. They are really about the same but there is a little difference.
2007-05-07 06:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A F### buddy you hit and quit. You dont normally hang out with them, you dont spend any more time around them than is nominally required to get it on.
A friend with benefits is someone you actually enjoy spending time with, and have sex with, without entering into a relationship. Frequently, friends with benefits will have tried the whole relationship thing, didnt like the outcome, so they just take a step back.
2007-05-07 06:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by J K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me a f*** buddy is someone you drunkenly call at 2 a.m. for a booty call. A friend with benefits is someone who you are good friends with, never talk sex or netsex, but sometimes you actually make the arrangement and put some thought into it, and then you go back to being friends like nothing happened.
At least that's how I define it.
2007-05-07 06:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some, there is none..."friend with benefits" is just a cleaner way to say it.
However, I've always looked at it as a "friend with benefits" is a friend that I have sex with...an actual friend (as in sex isn't the only reason we ever see each other), whereas a phuque buddy is someone that you see for sex only, and that's it...ya don't tend to socialize at all, or see each other any time other than when that physical desire is to be met.
2007-05-07 06:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely there is a difference
F-buddy is someone that gets together with you ONLY for sex. You don't hang out, you don't get dinner, you don't watch movies, you don't have the same friends. You just have sex.
Friends with benefits are people that you hang out with, don't date, but trust enough to get together once in a while and have discrete sex without worrying about strings.
2007-05-07 06:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is probably not much difference, but the longer the relationship lasts, the more it may turn into love. I hated to say that, but its true. This is why some girls stay with the relationship even though its a fu*k buddy one.
2007-05-07 06:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by dd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are basically the same, other than you may be more "friends" with a friend with benefits while a **** buddy is just that, not really a friendship type relationship.
2007-05-07 06:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by ganjagoddess2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "F***" buddy doesn't necessarily have to be a friend that you would hang out with on a regular basis.
Usually a friend with benefits is a true friend that you spend time with other than in the sack.
2007-05-07 06:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by gysgtwife96 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋