2007-05-07 06:17:09 · 89 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Physical contact does not accompany an argument. Scratches and bruises come from fights. Perhaps a suggestion is to have the police mediate the next "argument" and take the physically abusive one to jail.
2007-05-07 06:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you can tell by how many answers you have received, this is not normal activity in a healthy relationship. If you love him that much, I would suggest trying couple counseling. Make sure that you get help and someone knows what is happening. A lot of times there are special counseling facilities for women that are abused by their partners. Either make it better or break away from the abusive partner.
2007-05-07 06:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't normal to inflict physical damage on each other no make how serious the argument. Or to have it inflicted on you if it's only you. You have to converse even if it is an argument. Keep in mind sometimes you have to agree to disagree. If you continue to suffer injuries when you argue, you need to seek help. There should never be a reason for a man to beat a woman.
2007-05-07 06:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by johnkmayer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your partner is abusing you---plain and simple... GET AWAY from that relationship.... if you are married to it---DIVORCE it----they don't change no matter HOW much they may PROMISE.... some people just have violent, aggressive behaviors INGRAINED in them so deep and NOTHING you can do will change that....if you have CHILDREN, I'd take them and leave ...doesn't matter if you are male being beaten up by a female or female getting it from a male... it will NOT stop until you leave FOR GOOD....if you DO have children and they are wittnessing these battles, you are teaching them 1. that it's OK to be violent and 2. that the violence is something you must put up with-----WELL IT IS NOT!!!!!
2007-05-07 06:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have disagreements in any relationship from time to time, but it is not normal to get scratches and bruises over them. If you can't compromise and work it out with out beating each other up than it is time to seek counseling or move on to new partners.
2007-05-07 06:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.) If you guys are having huge arguments then you need to get out of the relationship.
2.) If your partner hits, scratches, leaves brusies, ect.. then you need to get out of the relationship, IMMEDIATELY.
You need to think about it as "What if one day it ends up becoming more than just scratches and bruises?"
2007-05-07 06:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, arguments involve words. Words don't cause scratches and bruises. Fighting causes scratches and bruises and is not normal.
2007-05-07 06:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not. It is abusive is what it is. You need to tell that person to either leave the room or something instead of scratching and bruising you. No women deserves that your partner needs to learn how to control his anger.
2007-05-07 06:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Patti c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Physical aggression from either partner is not acceptable. Sounds like you do not know how to disagree without getting into big arguments. Work on the root cause.
2007-05-07 06:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may be normal for people who are physical when they argue. If someone trying to argue with me, touched me in a way to leave scratches or bruises, they'd best be watching out for the cops to come get them.
2007-05-07 06:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋