Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

I was 19, not married, and it wasn't my parent's mistake. I did what I felt in my heart was right. I gave him a chance for a good like that at that time I couldn't have given him.
He is 34 this year. Born in 2/13/1973. I feel like I need to find him for nothing else than to let him know about some family health issues that could affect him. Like a family history of cardiac problem that includes grandparents and mother.
I sometimes wonder how he's doing. Then there's that little voice in the back of my head saying "Maybe he doens't want to know you" That's ok too.

2007-05-01 02:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by snibbett53 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out Friday night for a birthday party at a NYC club for a co-worker. All the guys from my job went ... 3 of them are married and I couldn't believe my eyes!! They were ALL over females at the club while their wives sat home with their kids. Why??? Why do men cheat??? I mean it wasn't like they just talked to these girls or even danced .... they were kissing, dancing dirty, touching eachother place where they shouldn't have. Honestly, it made me sick ... why get married and cheat?? Stay single and do whatever, whoever you want!! Why?? Can anyone tell me ......

2007-05-01 02:50:46 · 23 answers · asked by MLN 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering when people started to feel better about going through a divorce with a cheating spouse.

2007-05-01 02:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by prouddad13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when she left me, she would talk to me on a weekly basis, about what seamed to be like hopeful talk about us, never telling me she was engaged to another man, 6 months later she married him, he is 20 years older. and after I found out she was remarried (because of a bill that was sent to my house with her new name on it) she throws a restraining order on me, I did nothing! I'm speech less. confused, Lots of pain here. any help?

2007-05-01 02:49:15 · 15 answers · asked by fstmx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an intelligent and mature person. I don't often get girlie "crushes" or anything like that. Having said this I am attractive, confident, and picky and find myself intellectually and emotionally fascinated with one of my university tutors. I have not told him, as we continue to work together, but as I'm gradutaing in a few months time I do plan to either tell him via Email and/or ask him out. He is an intelligent, slightly reserved person do you think he will find this silly or inappropriate behaviour? And which method (confession/asking out) would most guys prefer? I worry he'll find me overwhelming because we're so different in persona.

2007-05-01 02:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by SiSi 2 in Singles & Dating

I really love my husband, but a lot of times that we go out or we are somewhere he stares at a women's butt. He said is normal that guys do that. It doesn't mean that he means to do that on purpose but he says that it is normal that a guy looks at someone butt. It really hurts me a lot. Is it normal? Should I get jelous?

2007-05-01 02:45:39 · 25 answers · asked by Yaira C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where I live in Essex (England, UK)...I regularly see black men with white girlfriends. Perhaps I'm envious of them or perhaps I'm just curious but, is the rumour really true? You know...the rumour about them being 'bigger' in the trouser dept than white men?

Also to white women who date or have dated black men...was this the main reason why you chose to go out with them?

2007-05-01 02:45:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know the general consensus is that I shouldn't marry this guy, but, what I am interested is in anyone who has a story to share, a positive story, about jumping into marriage.

2007-05-01 02:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This is so stupid. I am 27 years old and have been married for 7 years. I have 2 kids and am generally happy in life. About 6 years ago, I got a tattoo on my back (just a small one of a sun) which is very concealable. Then last year I got one on my inner ankle. I am very proud of my tattoos, and they are very meaningful to me....point of the matter is, I'm freaking 27 years old and am fully aware of any consequences that can occur with getting a tattoo. My little sis (age 23) gets one last week on her foot. She broadcasts it all over her myspace page and I guess my dad gets on sees her tat and my little comment underneath it about how we could show Dad our tats together..now my Dad and stepmom are really ticked. I've kept my tats hidden from them the whole time. I really don't care what they think considering I am an adult, but I don't like to fight with them about something that is really none of their business. What do I tell them? I have to face them Sat.

2007-05-01 02:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by Whitney S 2 in Family

Is it wrong for me to ask her out to get to know her more? Should I even bother since she works there and I might just end up making it uncomfortable for her?

2007-05-01 02:41:22 · 14 answers · asked by jermz408 1 in Singles & Dating

& Is there a diffrence between the two?

2007-05-01 02:39:28 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone agree with the phrase"absence makes the heart grow fonder?" please tell me your experiences..or do you think that its the opposite?

2007-05-01 02:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you ladies think a guy is sexy if a guy is hairy or waxed or shaved? In other words, what one do you think you'll be turned on the most.

2007-05-01 02:38:23 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Singles & Dating

She says she doesn't want to. But shes also bi and has sex with girls but not me.... I'm confused. her haveing with girls doesn't bother me. But why won't she with me??? i Know she likes me Intimately but, why won't she sleep with me?

2007-05-01 02:37:06 · 32 answers · asked by ninja-juggalo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 02:35:38 · 4 answers · asked by .BAd biTCh<;♥_ 1 in Friends

I've been married for nearly 2 years. I have an ex boyfriend whose mom still sends me "how are you doing" emails. They're not a big deal - and I usually hear from her once every 6 months. This has been going on for the last 5 years, since my relationship with her son ended. At first I was fine with it...and would write back and let her know how me and my husband were doing. She would always write about her son, letting me know what was new in his life. About 6 months ago he got married as well. I have since asked her if it's OK that we continue emailing - feeling a little strange now that we're both married. She said she wondered about that too so she asked her son and he was fine with it. What does that mean exactly? One of my friends said he still has feelings for me. We dated for nearly 2 years and he wanted to marry me, I turned him down because I didn't feel he was the one. Less then a year later I met my now husband. Thoughts??

2007-05-01 02:35:33 · 18 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce

and I can't handle him pleasing another woman. It seems that it is always in his mind and that's what he always want. I know that he loves me, but I don't understand him. We've only been married for 3 years and he is always presuring me> When we are making love, he says that he fantasies about groups and swingers. if we plan to go out to a regular place he doesn't want to but if I it is with swingers or meet people for swing, he is always ready to go....I'm very confused about him....I don't need another man to have sex with, but it seems that he needs more than one woman......

2007-05-01 02:32:32 · 20 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 02:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 02:30:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Love a married woman, I know .... Wrong. But too late for that scenerio to be different. We have a great time when were together. We are together even when were not. I know how? Believe me we are close 24/7. She has a miserable man for a husband and the family of 4 kids is losing out on their childhood because she stays and is waiting for him to make the move and leave. Since she don't want to be labeled the failure by her calling it quits. She tells me not to wait for her. I know she thinks of everyone else before she thinks about herself so I don't put much into her telling me not to waste my life on her. You see it's like treading water in the middle of the ocean ,, waiting for a ship to come by and rescue you. If I settled for someone else I would always be sad that the person I loved most wasn't with me and make me unhappy my whole balance of life or wait and when she's finally put her family thru enough to leave him be there waiting. Pain now or pain later?

2007-05-01 02:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by dan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You would want to shoo* her to, if you knew what she did!

2007-05-01 02:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its a good chance they are t/s,underage,a criminal nut case,or have AIDS.

2007-05-01 02:28:27 · 5 answers · asked by adonis 1 in Singles & Dating

We've only been together for less than a month but yet i've fallen so deeply for him. Last night i was with him and things got so heated up between the two of us but i wasn't ready to give in to it just yet. He asked me what was wrong and i explained that i do no want to get hurt by involving my emotions and he understood, but 'til when.The chemistry between us is so strong and whenever we get close to each other we can't resist each other, it's the best feeling in the world. I like him so much but i doubt that once we do it he'll still feel the same way about me. PLEASE HELP!

2007-05-01 02:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by MsKuewt 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got back in touch with mine and I'm supposed to see him again this summer. Kinda nervous about seeing him again actually.

2007-05-01 02:25:18 · 7 answers · asked by Cujo 5 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend treats me like i have cheated on him a million times. i never have. but he is really jealous and controlling. he even tells me what family members to talk to. i am not ALLOWED to talk to any guys and if i do i am a whore. he has a really bad temper . but usually takes it out on someone else . Brothers , mother. he cusses alot and i find him lying to me. i feel so sad at times. he even tries to controll my thoughts he asks me who i am thinking about all the time and when i say no one he says youre lying . and if i get off the phone to do something and dont call back right away and tell him everything i did including bathing or so on i am accused of doing something wrong. he asks me all the time are you doing something wrong. its driving me crazy.

2007-05-01 02:24:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NO CRUEL,MEAN OR RUDE ANSWERS PLZ!

2007-05-01 02:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend married another guy, the whole thing was just devastating, I am in an utter depression, just feel so sad. We were together 3 years, "brokeup" and she married another guy that she had been "dating" for 6 months. he proposed to her and she accepted. She knows I am doing bad, feeling depressed, just devastated.
She has been married for 2 months and has emailed my parents (dad,mom) MANY TIMES and STILL tries to justify her decision. Says things like "I never thought your son would do it. I never thought he could feel that way about me. I had so much going on and made the best decision for me at the time." Even said, "I cant get divorced, husband hasnt given me reason to." She also sent like 2 4 page emails, trying to justify why she married someone else. NEVER does she mention the word love or loving this guy. She says that she wants me to be happy, and to accept this. Does she really want this? Why does she contact them SO MUCH?What should I do? I still love her so much.

2007-05-01 02:15:35 · 16 answers · asked by horace2311 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that I found condoms in his truck. I am trying to deal with the fact that as I am working on my self-esteem, but nothing seems to affect him, he is still not complimenting me. I am trying to be patient and hold on, but he is not making this easy!! I have lost quite a bit of weight, cut my hair and started wearing makeup again. I even got a compliment from a guy yesterday at work about how cute my hair is and how good I am looking. Why can't my husband say something? I know in the back of my mind I am doing all this to make myself feel better, but a compliment every now and then from my husband would be nice. What more can I do? Am I doing too much? Do I expect too much?

2007-05-01 02:10:02 · 15 answers · asked by raininonsunday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend brought me this sweater for my birthday. As much as i appreciate this gift its a NIGHTMARE!!!!! The colours are all wrong for me ( Yellow and Green ! ) and the neckline is wayyyy to high! I cannot not wear this sweater, but my boyfriend has tickets to a outdoor concert and he wants me to wear that sweater so i dont catch a cold. What do i do ?

2007-05-01 02:08:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 10 years and all along i have been the working parent,the sports enthusist,the school work inforcer,the disiplinarian,dentist ,doctors,bathing even vacationing solo w/the kids.my 9 year old recently had an evening questioning why his father doesnt/wont be there.all along i thought i could be both and stay with him for their sake? was i wrong all along?

2007-05-01 02:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by **RUBY*** 3 in Marriage & Divorce