Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

I only found out because his friends girlfriend told me about the boys nite out. He told everyone I knew and he got in trouble. I am 5 months preg. I feel very unattractive and this just puts the icing on the cake. It's not like he is the best husband to begin with. I haven't talked to him since I found out four days ago. I am always the one to bring up the problem and try to fix things and I am sick of it. Has anyone been in this situation?

2007-05-01 04:06:45 · 45 answers · asked by Annie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 18 and my guy is 28 this year. he's ten years older then me.
he's the sweetest and so understanding.not like what everyone thinks how normally older guys are...he never forces me or asks me to sleep with him.
he respects my privacy and only does naughty stuff if i want to.
up till now we've been together for almost 3 years and...we have not slept together.
what do you guys think bout our relationship? will it last? he's my first love..

2007-05-01 04:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by choc addict 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a work mate who said that she is still awaiting her decree absolute to come through from her estranged husband.

She had an engagement party on Saturday.

Do you think this is morally or ethically right?

2007-05-01 04:04:27 · 50 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we have dated for 2 years and she was 150 when we met now she is 195 and im not attracted to her anymore but i love her for who she is on the inside. have tried the gym, working out, walking, encouraging her, everything. im almost ready to dump her. what do i do?

2007-05-01 04:04:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5 years now and have a 3 yr old son together name Jordan. I’m a chef and decided to get back to work and open my own restaurant 6 months after my son was born. My husband’s a lawyer so he works regular 9-5 days. On an average weekday, my husband leaves for work around 8.30am and gets back 5.30 pm while I leave for work around 7pm and get back somewhere between midnight and 1am.I keep a spotlessly clean house, have a gourmet dinner on the table by the time he gets home and spend pretty much all day with our son until I have to leave for work. Last night we had a massive argument about my restaurant, which turned out to be a huge success. He told me he couldn’t do this anymore and unless something changed in regard to my working hours he wants out. Why should I have to give up all my dreams just because I have a husband and a child? Does working when I can more than afford not to make me a bad mother and wife?

2007-05-01 04:03:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and that he looks for a girl who he can rely on emotionally and is strong? Can a girl really prop a guy's emotions up without getting tired? I'm tired-working in a high stress job, suffer from insomnia, brother is heavily reliant on me to take care of him even though he is 24 (money wise especially), and grandma has bladder control problems. Somehow, I feel that I need someone stronger-who I can lean on and just rest. I don't want to have to worry about his insecurities and issues. I want someone to worry about me for a change. Am I being too hard on him? Ofcourse he's sweet and sensitive, but he's waffly and weak as well-and I feel the pressure of that-to be sensitive to him when all I want to do is take a break. Does it makes sense to turn blind eye to everything around me and just focus on being able to sleep each night?

2007-05-01 04:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by BKYW 1 in Singles & Dating

My sons wedding is in 11 days. We have had to pay for most of the wedding because the brides family isn't able. The bride and groom have also contributed but food and such we have had to buy. Anyway the bride started a new job and would like to invite 25 people she now works with. That would mean more food, cake, favors, tablecloths, drinks and so on. I need some opinions on this. I say if they weren't good enough friends to invite when you did the invitations then they should not be invited last minute.

2007-05-01 04:00:09 · 16 answers · asked by jimsusierickard 1 in Weddings

how is it that if my period is late those months we have sex... he´s not the one for me? ... thats crazy

2007-05-01 03:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

heres the thing i have been susupecting my hubby has been lying to me alot lately about where he says hes going and were he actually goes. so i started watching his pay-check stubs to see if he was actually at work as long as he says he is, now he says he is working 10 hours days 4 days a week and then he goes in on friday for extra overtime. but in the last 4 months there were 3 weeks that he didnt reach his 40 hours but was going for those 4 10 hour days and then he says he was "working that friday. so last night i comfronted him about it i said if u r working 40 plus hours a week how come 3 weeks in the last 4 months u didnt reach your 40 hurs. well, thats when he admitted that one day he did leave work early and went a played video games at a friends house. but he doesnt know why those other weeks he didnt reach his 40 hour mark. well, like i said i confronted him and he got very defensive about it and said i dont have to tell u when i leave work early and what i am doing,

2007-05-01 03:57:42 · 38 answers · asked by greengrass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

...is it just normal for a guy to sometimes fantasize about having fmf threesome even if he's in a relationship? isn't that a complete disrespect for a relationship?

2007-05-01 03:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have a long distance relationship... so its not really every month we get to see together and have intimate moments, but in the months we do, next time my period comes its late, but in the months we dont see eachother my period is just on time! I wonder if anyone else has that same thing and if u know why is that... thanks

2007-05-01 03:43:34 · 5 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

Why must this arrogant pig continue to trash his ex...???Hey Alec..we'll buy your book if you promise to move to Canada as you threatened....GROW UP!!!!! Just the thing to bring your daughter closer...

2007-05-01 03:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by sharpneedleinahaystack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What things do you most look for in a girl? This could include physical preferances (Nothing STUPID), character traits, religious denomination, etc.

Thank you for your opinion.

2007-05-01 03:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 03:35:06 · 18 answers · asked by shyguytwin 1 in Singles & Dating

come after getting a vasectomy?

2007-05-01 03:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you really think it is possible to fall in love after meeting online. I met a girl online and we talk on phone at least a couple hours a day for past month. We met three months ago. I really feel that I have fallen in love with her. I have seen pictures and she is beautiful but I really like the fact that it's more of a true emotional/non-physical feeling since all we can do is talk for now. She is coming to see me in a little less thank 2 weeks! Every day feels like an eternity right now.

2007-05-01 03:30:49 · 9 answers · asked by styler 2 in Singles & Dating

Do any of you REALLY and HONESTLY think you could kick a guy's a s s? Now, we're talkin about a normal guy that is in decent shape. I see alot of responses about how if their man "tried" to spank you with a hairbrush, or bbq spatula, you'd "ram it down his throat" or the like. Do you honestly think that if you were outta line, you could prevent your man from giving you a spanking? (regardless if you decided to stay or leave the relationship)

2007-05-01 03:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in communication with this individual for some time now, assuming I am chatting with a female, (in the Ukraine) It has come down to a request for assistance with a travel VISA to come here for a visit... $270.00. I need to know if I am being played for a SUCKER by some dude and his sister or something... Any way you can help me find out if this person is GENUINE. I need to know before I make a terrible blunder!!!
Thank You for your time... -Willoughby

2007-05-01 03:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by weebee1 1 in Singles & Dating

sort of like the Suicide hotline but on the internet instead of the phone?

2007-05-01 03:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by ohhxkatie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

man and woman meet in their childhood - stay friends through school - same man and woman live together for period of time - man has 'legal issues' and disappears - few years later they find each other again - both are contently married but not necessarily happy - they live a great distance from one another - they spend next few years talking on phone and email, rehashing old times - man says he loves the woman and will wait, no matter how long, for the day they can be together again - says the woman makes him feel things he hasnt felt in a long time - says there's nothing he wouldnt do for her, all she has to do is ask -
Are they cheating on their spouses even if there isnt an actual relationship, there's no physical contact - only words exchanged when there are no witnesses?

2007-05-01 03:20:11 · 17 answers · asked by mizryLayne 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-01 03:17:07 · 27 answers · asked by renee r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 03:17:05 · 16 answers · asked by bumoh_123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 03:16:40 · 10 answers · asked by diva 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 03:16:33 · 4 answers · asked by lsgenco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when me and my husband got together i new he was still talking to his ex girlfreind from highschool. i didnt think any thing of it at the time, he told her that he was seeing me and then we got married he told her that too. she still e-mails him he clam's up and down that he never talks to her or calls her but on his phone i noticed that he called her(she didnt pick up though) and on his e-mail he has writen her also it s nuthin lovey dovey or any thin but i know she is still in love with him. he clams that he will never leave me for her cause she cheated on him with hi brother and then got pregnat and then gave it up for an abortion. i just dont know why her wants to talk to her and why is he lyin to me and what sould i do?

2007-05-01 03:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 1 year is a great guy. The problem is that when we go to his parents house (cookout, birthday celebration) 9 times out of 10 he will go in the house (we are usually outside) and either watch tv, play solitaire on the computer or take a nap. He leaves me out there with his family and I think it's extremely rude. Am I being overly sensitive or do I have a legitimate grip??

2007-05-01 03:13:42 · 37 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter asked him to stop calling her, and now my husband's told him to stop and told his parents to make him stop calling but he keeps calling. I am putting a block on our home phone and changing her cell phone number. Is there anything else I can do?

2007-05-01 03:11:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can you tell if your Friends With Benefits is starting to develope feelings for you but is afraid to let you know? Have you ever fallen for your fwb, what did you do?

2007-05-01 03:10:25 · 2 answers · asked by Svetlana 2 in Singles & Dating

i think so

2007-05-01 03:06:34 · 15 answers · asked by <3BOW E3'S.. londons fine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 03:02:32 · 2 answers · asked by Noykha 1 in Singles & Dating