i'm 18 and my guy is 28 this year. he's ten years older then me.
he's the sweetest and so understanding.not like what everyone thinks how normally older guys are...he never forces me or asks me to sleep with him.
he respects my privacy and only does naughty stuff if i want to.
up till now we've been together for almost 3 years and...we have not slept together.
what do you guys think bout our relationship? will it last? he's my first love..
2007-05-01 04:06:20 · 21 answers · asked by choc addict 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you so much for your opinion guys. I really appreciate them. i'll hang on to him as long as i can go.
2007-05-01 04:30:10 · update #1
10 years difference is ok. Good luck.
2007-05-01 04:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yeah, 10 years is a big age gap, but if he respects you, then i really don't see a problem. i mean i'm not sure if things could work out, but thats just because you started dating each other when you were 15, if my math is correct and i'm sure i won't be the first or only person to tell you this, but people do change.
sure, this relationship will last for awhile, but i'm not too sure it will be forever.
good luck with it though, and i hope you get what you want =)
2007-05-01 04:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by rachael =) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a little ruff around the rigiz. 10 years? i'v been in a relationship w/ a younger woman for a year n a half now. she was 19 and i was 24. and yeah at first it was a little...different. i know-i know. women mature faster but not by that much. we did fight uite a bit and its funny after being w/ older women and then having a relatioship w/ a younger woman you can tell the difference by far. but to say least. we've grown together remarbly and she is by far the best, most compasionate, caring, and mature woman i have ever met. we're getting married in june. 10 years is alot though. if he's cool and you just wanna hang out, thats fine, but dont get attached and dont get mad when you cant go out w/ him and the boys on saturday night.
2007-05-01 04:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by timmy78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age is only a number. Men mature slower than women anyway. You know what you want and if he has already been with you for 3 years, then obviousily there is a connection. You are both at different points in your life, but as long as you can still have a converstion and know that there is something there, I am sure that it will be fine.
2007-05-01 04:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*I support ya :)
*I was 20 when I started seeing a guy who was 29, now I am 21 and he's 30....same difference....and I love him to death.
....were more friends with benefits though, were not actually officially dating...although we had some pretty big dramatics in the past, not bad...but they brought us a little closer together.
**I think your relationship will last however long you want it to, just as long as there is minimal arguements and tension, and you two both aim to please in the bedroom...you should be fine.
*Anyways I don't think your age gap is too big...and I think you two will do just fine :):)
2007-05-01 04:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being 18 you still have a lot of growing to do, emotionally. It's hard to say if it will work. My mom and dad are 9 years apart and have been for almost 50 years.
2007-05-01 04:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
big age difference may sound weird to a lot of people. but big age difference could be good. I mean, the guy is pretty mature and advance in his years. he'll know how to treat you and protect you. some people say the bigger the age difference, the better they'll be to you. it's not too big. and you two sound perfect for each other.
2007-05-01 04:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by k0nglish_dreamer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're over 18, so age shouldn't matter. Sounds like you have a good solid relationship. Stay with him if you're happy and if anyone is giving you guff over your age difference, shame on them! They are just jealous that they don't have what you two have. Ignore them because it's YOUR life, not theirs! Be happy!
2007-05-01 04:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by Beach Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, y'all age gap is not to big. I think it nice to have a guy who respect your wishes. I believe it will last but if it don't, there are more guys out there who wants to be with you.
2007-05-01 04:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Queen Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds good --- it sounds like he really cares for you and 10 years is not a huge gap in the future --- at the moment it seems to be but you are working it out --- best wishes
2007-05-01 04:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 19 and i'm "friends"/ friends with a guy that is almost 40...he doesn't act 40 and i don't act 19 and that's probably the reason why we're so in sync when it comes to a lot of things...if he treats you like you want to be treated i say keep on rocking!!!!!
2007-05-01 04:14:56 · answer #11 · answered by milanj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋