...is it just normal for a guy to sometimes fantasize about having fmf threesome even if he's in a relationship? isn't that a complete disrespect for a relationship?
2007-05-01 03:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of men fantasize about this. Not all.
Aso to the question about it disrespecting the relationship, I don't think so. I think that if you don't want to have a threesome, you should have the courage and confidence to say so, and if he does one one, he should have the courage and confidence to say so. It's been said a thousand times, relationships are built on communication. If he's hiding a secret fantasy, that's not communication. If you know what he's thinking, even if you don't want to do it, then you can at least talk about why and what you do want to do.
For example, my wife wants me to go shoping with her and her friends. But I don't enjoy shoping. Is it disrespecting our relationship for her to ask me to go shoping with her and her friends? Or how about this: is it disrespecing our relationship for her to find Sean Conery attractive and tell me so? Or how about this: is it disrespecting our relationship for her to ask me to do the kinds of things she fantasizes about, like make love in the rain, even though I have no interest in them? Amazing how often it goes from "disrespecting the relationship" to "perfectly natural" when the shoe is on the other foot.
2007-05-02 03:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, he is just trying to keep things heated. This is quite common, in fact, if you check with your girlfriends, you might just find out that they have similar fantasies either with 2 guys or 2 girls. Its all about keeping the passion and heat in a relationship alive. Try it, it can be a whole lot of fun!
2007-05-01 04:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do straight men fantasize about threesomes? Men simply fantasize. It's common across the board.
2016-05-18 00:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not disrespecting a relationship as it is just a fantasy. It is no different to you looking at any male actor and going phwoar!!! As long as it is never sought after to happen for real then there is no harm.
2007-05-01 04:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are not "disrespect" - they are fantasies. Women have fantasies too, and I'm sure some of them involve Brad Pitt or George Clooney -- is that disrespect?
2007-05-01 04:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a fantasy is not acting on the fantasy --- he is not disrespecting his lady nor the relationship --- if he acts out the fantasy then yes he is disrespecting and endangering the relationship
2007-05-01 04:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really lots of people have dreams like that it is what makes a human a human but what you real need to do is redirect the situation to your sex life make it more i guess funnier
2007-05-01 04:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by jay d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just harmless fantasy.
But in case you want to make it reality, that's two girls and one guy, not the other way around. ;-)
2007-05-01 04:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by SoothingDave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it depends on the guy.
2007-05-01 04:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by bret_hues2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...Nothing like being with one sexy, attractive, etc...woman...
2007-05-01 04:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋