Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

No canopy or Gazebo available.. just out in the sun.

2007-05-01 05:50:40 · 20 answers · asked by jeaniesfloral 4 in Weddings

I really like this lad but i am 2 embarrassed 2 ask him out! Woyt should i do ask him or not?

2007-05-01 05:49:19 · 14 answers · asked by xxprincess mexx 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf told me dat she nids space coz shes strting to hav filngs 4 her long tym crush agen.i gave her the space she wanted.but i decided to broke up with her lstnyt coz i felt that she doesnt love me anymore coz shes not talking to me coz as she said she needs space.and thats so hard for me and i cnt take it anymore.but erlier today me and my mom went to their haus shes stil sleeping we arrive and b4 we left she came out of the room just to say bye.after weve left i realize that i stil wana talk to her so i stayed.i asked her what now?and we talked about wat went wrong.but it seems dat she wont accept any of her mistakes.dts fine wit me im willing 2 understand her.and she told me dat she was hanging out wit friends and the guy wen i texted her lstnyt & bcoz i broke up wit her she stayed w/da guy the whole nyt til sun rise n da guy comforted her. i told her 2 give me another chnce,but she said not 2nyt n went to da guys plce agen.wat shud i do?& wat hapend bitween the 2 of them lstnyt???

2007-05-01 05:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Marco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok is it bad when you are in a relationship and you are like loud and ur a jelsons and get mad fast type of person??/ i mean that shows u that u care right?

2007-05-01 05:47:19 · 36 answers · asked by ghetto mami loves her rainbows 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm with my bf for half a year. He was with her for 4 years. I get soooooo jealous all the time....heartaches every time when I think of them being together before. I even hate her so much... I always wanna know more about her. I cant stop bugging my bf....I always ask things like "oh ic so you did this to her before right?" or sth like "oh so you treated her very good right?"...... if I find out that he treated her well I got sooo jealous......and I get soooo upset when I find out he does sth to me but he also did it to her last time. You know what I mean? the feeling really sucks... or things get even worse when I find out he did sth to her but he has not done it to me!!!!!!!!! arghhhhhhhh the jealousy is killing meeeeeeeeeeeeee

2007-05-01 05:47:16 · 25 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

My future MIL is shopping around for dresses, for our July wedding. She found a dress she likes that is $950. My wedding gown only costs $375 and very simple!! Our wedding is very simple. Do you think it is appropriate for her to get such a expenssive dress? Also, on top of that, my fiancés name is on her mortgage and she barely can pay the bills, let alone afford a $950 dress. She even told us when we first got engaged not to ask her for any help (money), because she can't afford to help. (Which is fine.) My fiancé tried to confront her, but she through a fit and said "I need to do things that make me happy. The bride got to pick whatever dress she wanted".

She doesn't support or marriage at all and doesn't like me. She asks my fiance things like, "Oh no she's preganant isn't she. That's why your marrying her!!??" (I'm not even pregnant)! I feel like she is going to get this dress not to make a scene. What do you think? Any advice?

2007-05-01 05:46:56 · 17 answers · asked by mlsherratt 3 in Weddings

this guy really likes me and keeps asking me out I don't really know if i want to go out with him but i don't want (if I do) to make him think that I just pity him what do i do??

2007-05-01 05:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by leader of the pack 1 in Singles & Dating

What would happen?

2007-05-01 05:45:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of one month has a prep/surfer type of vibe. im more of a punk/alternative. he told me he didnt like the way i dress and things im into. should i change to his style and things he is in to?

2007-05-01 05:43:12 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you consider it disrespectful if a man looks at porn behind your back ?

2007-05-01 05:43:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So what with a broken heart? Insomnia, less eating, no wish to be a life. Is true, you can go to doctor then he will give you pills for sleeping, for eating and will tell you the life must go on. But I'm 3 months in this condition. No positive thought in my mind. I'm going dipper in my depression.
I'm trying to smile when i'm with a friends, i'm trying to look happy at my work, that makes me more sad, acting happiness and crying in the heart.
I feel that i can't love again. I can't live without love, a lot of people can. I can't be with somebody that i don't love.
I hate myself every day more and more. Because i knew that i'm making a mestake and the end will be like this.
But the butterflies in the stomach made this, then love finished the rest-mind, body and heart conection.
.....can somebody help me?

2007-05-01 05:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf broke up wit me over the weekend and he is havin problems gettin a motor for his car that actually works so now he is really depressed and says nothin is going right for him and i want to cheer him up but dont know how i dont have the money to get his car fixed so any help plz i really appreciate it. i love and care about him so much that it hurts everytme he gets like this

2007-05-01 05:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Singles & Dating

I don’t want to have a party reception right after the ceremony where’s as my soon to be husband does. I grew up in religious house hold and my parents don’t drink or party. Plus a portion of my guest is church goers and they also don’t drink or party. So I was thinking of having a nice quiet reception at the church where we’re gonna have the wedding ceremony and then having an after party at a club or something.

2007-05-01 05:41:34 · 23 answers · asked by always_sweet_b 2 in Weddings

They Are In Same Political Club. When We Go Out & She Is Very Touchy Feely (WHISPERS IN HIS EAR WHILE HOLDING HIS ARM, not necessary) When We Are Listening To Speeches I Look Across the Room, There They Are- BUTT BUDDIES, even at my own home. (he will soon be the head of group & start meeting monthly at her office) Last dinner we went to he introduced me as his wife (BEEN MARRIED 28 YEARS) someone made the comment that they thought she was his wife. Calls her on his cell & talks longer than he does with me (10-20 MINUTES) tels me it's a work phone & shouldn't get personal calls He has lied to me about being on the phone with her TOLD HIM I DONT LIKE RELATIONSHIP TO CALL HER AT NIGHT FROM HOME. HE REFUSES-SAYS HE DOESN'T TALK TO HER THAT OFTEN I'M JUST JEALOUS & REFUSES TO DISCUSS WITH ME. SAYS WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE THAT (IT'S A 2 WAY STREET & NOT ALL HER) I found out her office is 2 blocks from his & he says he just found that out He works construction she sells insurance

2007-05-01 05:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by Sue C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 05:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by DS 4 in Friends

This has been going on for years! He's really great at cheating. Surely she must know right? She's extremely naive and they've been together now for 11 years. She's thinking about having another child with him. The truth needs to come out before she continues to waste her life on this LOSER! I've thought about sending an anonymous letter with dates of when he has had women at their house or calling her family about it and then have them approach it with her. She trusts her family enough to leave him. Need advice please...

2007-05-01 05:33:32 · 25 answers · asked by Scout 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 05:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by dmurphy1525 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does a particular profession have a higher divorce rate? Do professions with overnight shifts play a part in affairs? Spending more time at work with people of the opposite sex and temptation play a role? Or is it the individual???

2007-05-01 05:31:13 · 24 answers · asked by JC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 05:30:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my wife's friends (a friend, not a very close friend) recently came to stay for a week. She made a terrible house guest, offering no help with meals etc, eating our fridge empty, leaving her things all over the house and spending most of her time reading her emails. We're a pretty easy-going couple but this woman really tested our patience. Anyway, she left and we've seen her since at a few parties etc and she keeps raving about how good a stay she had and how she'd love to come back to see us again. My wife has swerved the issue a few times but this friend is getting more and more direct in her requests to come and stay. How do we avoid this but keep her as a friend? I know the obvious answer is if she was a good enough friend you could tell her but a) she's not a very close friend and is quite headstrong so may take the truth badly and b) even if we were to tell her/lay down rules, each act in isolation sounds very petty to complain about....help!

2007-05-01 05:27:51 · 15 answers · asked by NB99 2 in Friends

I am trying to prove a minor point to this very arrogant, cocky guy. Who thinks he is the best looking! and if you call that you MUST still like him, as he says " Im a good looking guy"! very arrogant and a commitment phobie.. I want to show him that I am no longer interested even though I am still in the process of getting over him - its hard. But I dont want to give this guy the satisfaction as he is very arrogant! His birthday is soon, and I am not gonna bother to call as he will think I am still hung up on him! What should I do? as he is too full of himself?

2007-05-01 05:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

during the 8 years the man has moved in with another woman, had 2 children brought a house, can't spend the night, never see you on holidays, time is always limited or rushed, you can only call his cell phone he turns that off after a certain time.

he doesnt even meet you financial needs. what is there to stay for ?

2007-05-01 05:27:23 · 26 answers · asked by creation 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-01 05:27:14 · 17 answers · asked by khurrami 1 in Weddings

Okay I have been engaged to a man for 2 yrs now. We both have children who live with us. Our issues stem from fighting over our kids mostly. Just 3 days ago I was told to get out of HIS house with my messed up son. This was the last straw for me. I said I would leave. He finally gets home several hours later and tells me he over reacted and he didnt mean to say it that he was just angry. If this were the 1st time i might buy it but its not. I am always reminded that this is his home not mine and how my son is a mence and his is an angel. I am still so angry but hes been trying to work things out with me since he said this. He has been acting so different with me and being so kind its not even like him. I am afraid to let my gaurd down again just to have him fly off the handle with me. I feel as if I dont care anymore at times. I know I love him but i think he may have pushed me to far this time. How do I know if this can ever be repaired?? Is it time i need?? Is it worth it?? Help!!

2007-05-01 05:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 05:24:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I live in south florida. We enjoy caribbean like weather year round with beautiful beaches, palm trees and stupid drinks with umbrellas in them. So we want something different! Yet VERY romantic. I'm originally from NYC so scratch that idea. And we're really don't want to have to travel 10 hours to go anywhere. We'll save that for another trip. Where, preferably in North America are amazing, VERY romantic, honeymoon spots that we can enjoy.

Also, and resources would be helpful too that we can research or contact.

Thanks!

2007-05-01 05:24:00 · 18 answers · asked by Grisham 3 in Weddings

Apparently internet predators to minors is her "cause" and she participated in a sting to be aired on America's Most Wanted. She actually posed as a teenage girl to lure the men in to the house where cops were waiting. But she refuses to testify and gives no reason. 11 perverts that she helped capture will go free because her "cause" is apprently not that important to her. Not anybody I'd want my girls to look up to. Just like a women. Commit until it get's inconvieniant then bail.

2007-05-01 05:23:34 · 7 answers · asked by father of 4 husband of 1 3 in Family

I would like to plan my own wedding and I don't want to hire an expensive wedding planner, I would rather do it myself but I need some help.

2007-05-01 05:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Tee 1 in Weddings

2007-05-01 05:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Queen B 2 in Friends

Hands on life practise. It's really great that i get so much support and help. How to have better finances, communications, relationships..

2007-05-01 05:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce