my ex bf broke up wit me over the weekend and he is havin problems gettin a motor for his car that actually works so now he is really depressed and says nothin is going right for him and i want to cheer him up but dont know how i dont have the money to get his car fixed so any help plz i really appreciate it. i love and care about him so much that it hurts everytme he gets like this
2007-05-01 05:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does care more about me then the car he just doesnt trust the van cuz it keeps breakin down and he would be devastated if it broke down with me in it
2007-05-01 06:00:32 · update #1
PLEASE!!! If he really cared about you he's not gonna dump you over a broke down car...wake up!!! smack the *#*# out of him and tell him your gonna find someone who can treat you better!!
2007-05-09 05:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by special1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to break up with you everytime he is depressed, then that's going to really make you hurt in the long run. You can try to move on but I know that's not the easiest thing to do. Let him know if he is going to do this every time then it's over. You can do better or else you'll just end up being hurt.
2007-05-01 12:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to deal with a man who bases his happiness on his car motor. You deserve better. Drop the thud and find a stud.
2007-05-09 12:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's depressed give him a blade for his birthday! just kidding don't ever do that!
You could make him feel beter if you didin't care about the stupid van breaking down with you in it. i just think you sound like a brat. If you love him, i think you can walk, or evern help him push the van if he need it.
Best of luck!!!
2007-05-09 01:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by blah... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression, real depression, is not something that's solved by having someone cheer you up. It typically requires therapy and/or medication. It's a real illness and needs to be treated as such.
2007-05-01 12:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life and not sit around waiting for him to get his act together. There are more fish in the sea.
2007-05-01 12:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to him...call him or come over unannounced and handle your business....i.e. take off a trench coat and reveal lingerie...give him something to make him forget his troubles.
2007-05-09 11:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space. he depressed for a reason and need some air
2007-05-09 12:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd slap him, real hard!
2007-05-01 12:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋