ok is it bad when you are in a relationship and you are like loud and ur a jelsons and get mad fast type of person??/ i mean that shows u that u care right?
2007-05-01 05:47:19 · 36 answers · asked by ghetto mami loves her rainbows 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being jealous is something that is completely natural in a relationship... to a point. if it's excessive, then it can be harmful for the relationship. As for being mad fast.. that depends on what exactly you mean by being mad fast... and what are you mad over? People get mad in relationships over stupid things sometimes but if it's something that happens all the time and something that is stupid, then yes, it would be bad.
2007-05-01 05:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are showing a lot of jealosy and are getting mad really quickly, then yes, that is bad. It shows that you don't trust the person that you are with. Being a little annoyed every once in a while isn't bad when you see your main squeeze checking out the butt on a passing girl in the mall, but making a huge scene about it just proves that you are insecure, and not ready for a real relationship.
If you are finding that you are always overly jealous, or overreacting a lot, maybe you just need to take some time and decide what you are looking for in the relationship, because I guarantee that your boyfriend doesn't really want a screaming crying girlfriend...he wants someone that he can count on, and that will trust him and give him some room to be himself.
2007-05-01 05:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does show that you care, but also how does the other person feel. They feel like they can't do anything with out you getting mad or jealous. Try and relax a little with your partner is talking with someone else. it's OK to be a little jealous, that's normal. Just be care full. If your partner thinks you don't trust him then, there is where the problems will start. It's hard but can definitely be worked on.
2007-05-01 05:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most sane people would tend to avoid a relationship with someone possessing a volatile personality. That kind of personality does not show you care, but shows your a nutjob.
2007-05-01 05:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying that it "shows you care" is a person's way of rationalizing a negative action. Truth is, you shouldn't be getting overly jealous and if you are then that means you have very little trust in the person. I personally can't stand it when my girfriend gets jelous over something so stupid. it definetly aint sexy!
2007-05-01 05:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dose not show that you really care. If you really care you would have understanding for the one that you care for. With understanding and being honest would show that you care more. For being loud and jelsons can scare the one you care about away from you.
2007-05-01 05:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Barry T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesnt show that you care its the total opposite it shows that you are insecure..and you dont trust the person. if u really care about them you both will have a mutual understanding about what and what not will be tolerated in the relationship getting mad isnt going to get the relationship anywhere.and the whole jealous thing thats normal everyone wants their significant other to theirselves...
2007-05-01 05:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might show that you care but it might make them think that you are obsessive too. No one likes to be in a relationship with someone that is obsessive. There are times when getting jealous is sweet but not all the time.
2007-05-01 05:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many different ways to show someone that you care about them. Getting jealous and mad are probably a few of the worst ways to do it. You may need to re evaluate your own needs and wants.
2007-05-01 05:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by soulsearcherofthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it shows that you don't trust the other person and are a border-line lunatic.
Think about how you would feel if he was that way with you... Would you enjoy if he yelled at you for minor issues, if he was jealous of your friends and guys that talk to you? Would you think that he was sweet or that he was irrational and insecure?
2007-05-01 05:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋