Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

i feel very bad for what i did,i confessed to my husband(my best friend)he is very upset!i feel am a bad person, did the act with affection!am too embaressed to meet any body,am also too afraid to talk to any body now!am so ashamed.

2007-05-01 02:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by lady h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to have sex for the first time without feeling pain??

2007-05-01 02:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by ducket_head 1 in Singles & Dating

My 18 yr old daughter is constantly telling lies. For instance, I allowed her (then 15) to live with her sister about 15 miles away and attend a different school. Before long, she made new friends but when I invited them to stay over, they all declined as if they were afraid to.
Heres why. She had told them that her step-father had attempted to rape her and that i refused to believe it and i was siding with him. In all fairness, he did make a comment once that was out of line but THATS ALL!
She denies ever saying it.
Then one day her boyfriend called to yell at me about not making sure that she gets her medication after her chemotherapy!?! For what?
Now she is in Tenn. and says she is expecting a child Aug 1. From what she's has said on the phone, ie; Dr. appts, nausia, etc. I believed. Her # has been disconnected. She said she moved in with her b-friends parents. I just learned theirs no baby and she never moved.
There must be a reason. What do I do to stop this?

2007-05-01 02:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by LaLoni P 1 in Family

my boyfriend and i recently broke up, my parents just got divorced, we're moving out of ouy house because w/out our dad we can't afford to keep it(the life-support doesn't pay enough to keep it ). We're gonna have to sell our car too and i'm just really stressed out with school and life and everything! someone help!!

2007-05-01 01:59:24 · 19 answers · asked by Lolly ♥ 3 in Family

i live with my boyfriend in his house,i want to move out, but have no money for a rent depostit,am working though,it just getting the money up front,bank will not give me a loan..

2007-05-01 01:57:59 · 24 answers · asked by patti p 1 in Family

PlEAsE i reaLlY nEEd it!!!! dO yOu KnoW whERe IS kEmUeL deLa cruZ???

2007-05-01 01:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How ca i express love to my friends, workmates and family

2007-05-01 01:56:13 · 5 answers · asked by Sammie 1 in Singles & Dating

im in a award pradicament and kinda carnbt tell someone the truth it will rip them apart to find out do i keep it to my self or tell them?

2007-05-01 01:55:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In islam it is allowed to marry with cousions ,but in other religons it is not allwed.Doctors say that the child which gave birth often are mentally retarted,and can have other problems.can any one explain.

2007-05-01 01:52:24 · 17 answers · asked by niaz b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so my husband and i have been having problems for a year. We've been begging each other for more from eachother and neither of us has given in...not because we don't want to but that we are waiting for the other to give in first...I know childish. I guess the problem has come that my husband told me he gave up on me being better so he started going out every wednesday after work and now has started going out on the weekend too. I told him I have a problem with the weekend because that is our time as a family to work on things. But he says everyone else goes out more and it is no big deal. He has been asking me not to argue with him but I can't seem to stop myself. I am so scared and so unsure of really where he is the relationship. He says he wants to try but doesn't do anything...he just keeps going out, keeps talking to whomever whenever and just ignores me. He says he isn't because he comes home everyday. I can't help but get so angry and and start to yell at him.

2007-05-01 01:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by superwmn315 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that lady was start love wth me after her marriage,she did't inform me before later i know it ,but we both loving so much,what can i do?pls solwe it

2007-05-01 01:51:36 · 3 answers · asked by sri 1 in Friends

this guy I am dating always says to me " I will keep in touch with you and see how your schedule is" "and don't be afraid to call me too" seems like I am chasing him and calling him most often and I don't like that. How can I change this?

2007-05-01 01:50:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was a teen I made mistakes and they were harsh and cruel. I apologized sincerely, but for 6 months I was punished and though I pleaded for their trust and forgiveness they were extremely cruel and didn't give. Now I'm 23, a biologist, doing well in my life, the girl they wanted. But since my teen years I've been so resentful that I avoid them and haven't seen them for more than 4 years. For 3 months they've kept callng me every day, want to fix our relatioship, say they love me, all that crap. This is getting on my nerves. They are part of a past I want to forget forever,want to delete this bad file. Told them to leave me alone and that I want them out of my life, but they keep insisting.

2007-05-01 01:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Lynda 1 in Family

He has been flirting with me and i think he has been working the nerve up to ask me out on a date he has revealed some serious things to me and is not what most men don't tell just any women. He is nice i really dig him and i like him. Is there too much of a age difference between the two of us for this to work, i'm really looking for a husband. The forseen problems in this relationship will be that i haven't had sex in 12 years and will not intil i'm married and i cann't have children so there are things that i deal with on everyday basis it doesn't bother me. But it may bother him because he is 21 years old he is very manly for age and responsible. So what should i do

2007-05-01 01:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

After so many unsuccessful relationships, i really wonder if true love still exists?

2007-05-01 01:44:16 · 17 answers · asked by Ken C 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my best mate that i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy and on the week end she went over his house and slept with him and she keeps braggin about it!!! what should i do and i've tryed tellin her, i told the guy that i liked him, she went back to him and said a bunch of things are not true last night i had a text sayin " can u please leave me alone??" just out of the blue i don't no what to do i like him so much!!!!??? HELP!!!

2007-05-01 01:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Friends

on the computer. wat should we talk bout on the phone?? we have been "going out" for a month as of today and today is going to be his first time ever calling me. any ideas as 2 wat we should talk about?

2007-05-01 01:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by sassysammy92 2 in Singles & Dating

If you read my latest posting you will see that I am having some troubles....Do guys go to bridal showers? Like ages 9,11,14, and the groom??? or no?? Please!! Help!!

2007-05-01 01:42:42 · 20 answers · asked by Brown-Eyed-Beauty 3 in Weddings

i often see that i get angry tooo often even in simplest matters, specially with my boy friend,if he gets a little angry with me in any matter I start blackmailing him that i'll kill my self if he doesnt talk with me politely, I always want everthing to be done in my way,.....plz help me what should I do to keep myself kool

2007-05-01 01:39:23 · 19 answers · asked by stylish 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I probably wont get one in High School because I didn't in Middle School. I don't want people to start saying I am a lesbian because I am NOT. Did this happen to you? If not, do you know if this happened to someone? When did you start dating and having boyfriends and girlfriends?

2007-05-01 01:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been trying to contact this guy for years. i asked a few people in his grade but no one seems to know what he's doing. he doesn't have myspace or facebook. i don't think he has a screen name. i saw his last name in the phone book and also in the yahoo people search. shall i try to call him one day and ask for his name? my mom once found her friends number after she didn't see her for many years?

2007-05-01 01:38:02 · 7 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

We got married after living together for 2 mo. I came to know of his true nature but still I married because he has spent on me quite a lot and with the idea that he would change for the better in future.He is paranoid abt me because he is a womaniser and on the very day of marriage he was doubtful abt the marriage vows he made, like he said "God I do not know how far I'll keep up the vows I made today.Help me".He would never allow me to lift his mobile nor take me out.He never left any decision making to me.Right now I am not living with him.He asks me to confess my past while he totally lies abt his past despite I read so many mails in his inbox asking girls to come on a date with him.I found this behaviour disgusting and I want to part with him.He has been lying to me abt everything right from the start like he said applying for license itself is a marriage,that he doesnt smoke or drink etc. please advice as to what I should do.

2007-05-01 01:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

By who? What happened?

2007-05-01 01:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband called me last night. He has sole physical and legal custody of our 15 year old daughter. He lived in another state and moved due to job reasons. The child is stil in the original state and her grandmother is helping to take care of her.

My ex-husband is having trouble at his job because he is worried about our child. They have given him 30 to 60 days to solve his personal issues and improve his performance. He just started in February 2007.

He is proposing that I come and stay with our child until she finishes school which is 2009. I would stay in his house unless it sells.

I asked him to send our child to me and he said that you always want things your way. I then suggested that I live in the same state as the child, but separately. He said I would be wasting money.

I want to do what is best for everyone, but I am confused.............

I tried to stay in the house for 3 weeks and then came back to where I live. I could not adjust.

2007-05-01 01:36:01 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

~this is a repost of a previous questiuon. it was reposted as i closed it too soon~
I have a friend that considers me his bestfriend i am a little gun shy about it due to other"best friends". should i let my guard down or give it more time like i am inclined to do. i've only known him for 9 months

2007-05-01 01:35:39 · 19 answers · asked by ~ much jade love ~ 1 in Friends

Hes a ford mechantic and has been for 5 years now hes 22 years old in feb 2008 , He's got to the point where he just hates anything to do with mechantics now. What do you think he could do now...he said he doesn't mind training to do something else. I've only asked this question as he rang me on his lunch break in such a bad mood and said he wants something different but he doesn't know what! and he think's working as a mechantic is making him lose his hair!!

2007-05-01 01:35:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have been together for 7 years, and for that 7 years he has had this friend that treats women like crap and has never had a long term relationship. He is 30 and lives with his twin brother. We have never really gotten along because he thinks that I "tie my fiance" down. I think he is either jealous or does not understand what it takes to be with someone long term. My fiance wanted him to be in the wedding party, and I was not happy about that. His friend has made negative comments about our relationship and us getting married from the beginning. He has had more of an attitude lately and has been flaky to my fiance so I told my fiance that I would not be happy with him in the wedding. So my fiance told him he was no longer invited and that he was sorry. This basically ended their friendship. My girlfriends say it was a good thing because my fiance had to choose, and he chose right. Others say that you never x a groomsmen. Am I wrong in this picture?

2007-05-01 01:32:51 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth R 1 in Weddings

Ok I am a 22yr old college student trying to become financially independant and when my mom found out how much money I've been spending on this last month(less than 300 bucks) She is calling me a harlot and stuff(even though I don't sleep around!).

I spent around 90 bucks of booze three bottles, one was very pretty. And I bought money on some stupid games. I bought stuff on Amazon including Libido enhancer because my body was running low on hormones.

I don't want to tell her everything and confess what I've been buying. I'm sick of this and she took away my account I let her co-sign to inorder for her to put money in!

Also I don't want her to know that I've been sexually active because I got sick of being naive and being haunted by past traumas that has to do with sexual assault(Don't worry I'm fully healed and stuff). I've only been with one guy the whole entire time.

Help and what to do???

2007-05-01 01:32:03 · 20 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family

i'm 19 she is still a minor i told her i'd wait cuz i do love her and she is my high school sweet heart and i cant live without her. i cant imagine myself without her. she has the same feelings for me.

2007-05-01 01:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am English...my husband from whom i am separated almost 3 years is Irish...we got married in Ireland and are legally separated within Irish law...i am now living in England and he has also moved to England to live with his girlfriend...I have a son from a previous marriage...and a daughter from my marriage to him...My daughter was born in England before we were married but holds an Irish passport and we moved there when she was a month old...

what i want to know in a nutshell is whether i can divorce him here in England when we got married in Ireland...and how complicated this could be...would our legal separation agreement count for anything or would we have to start again with everything...if anyone can offer me any advise it would be appreciated...

of course i will see a solicitor...but i just want to know if this can be done from here...Irish divorce is pretty complicated...thank you...;0)

2007-05-01 01:30:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce