i told my best mate that i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy and on the week end she went over his house and slept with him and she keeps braggin about it!!! what should i do and i've tryed tellin her, i told the guy that i liked him, she went back to him and said a bunch of things are not true last night i had a text sayin " can u please leave me alone??" just out of the blue i don't no what to do i like him so much!!!!??? HELP!!!
2007-05-01 01:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
task number 1 = ditch your so called best friend
task number 2 = go out and get yourself another man!
2007-05-01 01:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Keira 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would dump your best mate right quick. You really don't know one way or another if what she did over the weekend was true. But if it is, then dump her.
Right now let things cool down as your friend is probably continuing seeing this guy. You have to be the stronger person here and just go forward in life. Eventually this guy just may see through this girls actions and drop her realizing what she is like.
Don't sit and wait for this to happen as you would be only wasting precious time and energy. There are plenty of young men out there that are looking for someone with values in life.
2007-05-01 08:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly give him space.
If your 'friend' has fed him stuff about you that's not true DO NOT TRY AND CALL OR TEXT HIM NOW. You will come across as a weird and desperate person.
Your only chance is to try and get him to see through your friends lies. That will take time. Her poison has really messed this one up for you.
You will have to build up a friendly relationship with the guy which eventually allows you to ask him what she said. Then you can defend yourself. THAT WONT BE EASY.
If you know one of his friends then it may be a bit easier to get to him via them.
Sorry but the short term answer in this case is to do the above but also look for other options.
I dont know what you did to your friend but for a girl to use sex as a weapon it must have been bad. If it wasn't get rid of your friend.
Good luck xxx
2007-05-01 08:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by GMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a good mate to do a thing like that DROP her as a mate. She probably said she slept with him and he did not give her the time of the day. Go to him and tell him that you like him and your friend had to test drive the s**t out of him first. good luck
2007-05-01 08:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Neal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is get rid of that so called best friend, cause if she really was a friend she would help you get with him instead of having sex with him. With friends like that who needs enemies. Then tell the guy that you like him and what ever your friend said is a lie. But you should also think is he worth it, especially as he is so stupid to believe everything that comes out of that b****'s mouth.
2007-05-01 09:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by NJAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch your so called best mate, she obviously isn't a true friend at all. He musn't be much of a guy he is sleeps with a girl that just turns up at his house.
Find a new best mate & fella hon........you don't need people like that in your life
2007-05-01 09:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by cavviecath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this so called friend, and if the bloke is sleeping with some1 like her he obviously has no taste what so ever or is just a shaggr. Which ever he is - surely you've had a lucky excape - get out there and focus you attention on someone who deserves you x
2007-05-01 08:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by xje55iex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ditch that friend of yours. no offense to her, but she's a bi***. you told her you REALLY liked a guy and she went and slept with him. she must be jealous. the next time she tries to pull a stunt like that, slap her hard on her face b/c she deserves it for being such a bad friend. damn this makes me so mad and i dont even know who you or your friend are! OMG. she needs to totally get a life. you should sleep with him and then shove it in her face.
2007-05-01 11:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by i_blow_kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth it just move on cuz if your friend knew u liked him and they end up sleeping together then she aint no true friend
there are many fish and the sea
2007-05-01 08:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Momma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered the fact that he might not like you - you have to think about it.
Maybe that is why he slept with her.
Move on - ignore them both and find someone else
2007-05-01 08:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋