I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I probably wont get one in High School because I didn't in Middle School. I don't want people to start saying I am a lesbian because I am NOT. Did this happen to you? If not, do you know if this happened to someone? When did you start dating and having boyfriends and girlfriends?
2007-05-01 01:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plenty of time yet, wait at least until u r 16, it will just happen ! dont worry
2007-05-01 01:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 14 and in 9th (long story) Anyways, it doesn't matter if you don't get a boyfriend in Middle School, because there guys are still very immature and stuff like that. You may find a nice guy in High School since there is a better selection and they've grown up some more. I got my first boyfriend in 7th but that doesn't mean everyone's the same. My friend got her first boyfriend this year and she's 16! ^^ It's different for everyone.
2007-05-01 08:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie Weasley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school is not a precurder for high school. Its a totally different thing and you in high school will be more grown then anyway...you will see what people thought were "relationships" in middle school was just utter nonsence. at 14 nobodys hould be having a b/f or g/f you are too young for all that drama, enjoy your life the way it is with your family and friends. Do worry about it just tell [eople you are too busy for all that b/s it has nothing to do with you being a lesbian
2007-05-01 08:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have a boyfriend until my last year in high school, no one thought i was a lesbian. You know what you like so don't be paranoid. If you do get paranoid then people might start to think. So just go about your life don't worry about being a lesbian. I know many girls who don't have boyfriends or haven't had boyfriends they have had friends who are boys.
2007-05-01 08:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by therearetwosidestoeveryquestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my son when he was 14. He was afraid he was gay because he didn't have a girlfriend. He's 22 now and just married the hottest girl that I've ever seen. Your too young to worry. If your gay your gay. It has nothing to do with whether you have a date or not.
2007-05-01 08:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pervtor of Pervatia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will get over it. You're 14. YOu got time. Flirt with guys and have fun. I don't get the pressure to have a boyfriend.
2007-05-01 08:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt have a bf until a junior in high school if you would stop thinking about it and consentrate on your school work I can bet you that he will come right around the corner
2007-05-01 08:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date just because you don't want people to think you're a lesbian. Only go out with someone if you truly like him and stuff...
2007-05-01 08:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lolly ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your not dating doesn't make you a lesbian. You'd have to be a real dolt to think this. Be happy.Do what you want.
2007-05-01 08:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it didnt cuz i know how to work my stuff. and im not a total geezer like you.
2007-05-01 08:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋