He has been flirting with me and i think he has been working the nerve up to ask me out on a date he has revealed some serious things to me and is not what most men don't tell just any women. He is nice i really dig him and i like him. Is there too much of a age difference between the two of us for this to work, i'm really looking for a husband. The forseen problems in this relationship will be that i haven't had sex in 12 years and will not intil i'm married and i cann't have children so there are things that i deal with on everyday basis it doesn't bother me. But it may bother him because he is 21 years old he is very manly for age and responsible. So what should i do
2007-05-01 01:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. that's a huge age difference.
I think that your biggest factor won't be the age, but the maturity levels. At 21, he's yet to experience alot of the things you already have.
2007-05-01 01:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by samoan_chica 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Haven't had sex in 12 years, and won't until I am married" ......You and this 21 year old can be friends, but he will probably not hang around if you don't want to have a serious physical relationship also....
You only get to go on this trip called life once. I for one don't plan on wasting the trip!!!
2007-05-01 01:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 21 yo is marriage material. Don't start something you can't finish...he definately is into you but he also will want sexual contact. He' s 21 for crying out loud...in the sexual prime of his life. Also, you are 38...so why the hang up about "no sex". Sure, you don't need to have sex with everything that moves, but 12 YEARS?
2007-05-01 02:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by mzadamz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 38 and getting along with a 21 yr old, seek counseling. just to get some sex, sure, more power to ya. to even think relationship, husband? you are showing some serious signs of being unstable. being honest here.
I was in similar boat bout 8 yrs ago, got involved with one 10 yrs my senior. You are just trying to re-live over again what you have already lived. Don't... focus on today, the future. Find one near your age if not older.
2007-05-01 01:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Altho there is a sexual attraction between you two,you are in different places in time.21 is young,and really long term you are setting yourself up for pain.
2007-05-01 01:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
you go girl...
if you can attract a younger guy, then i say congrats.
he is only 21 tho, i don't know guys that age who would want to commit to that at such an early age. but goodluck!
2007-05-01 01:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ashton kutcher and demi moore and still together and they got married, and almost had a kid. i would talk to him, and as long as he knows your 38, then if he doesnt care i dont see why you should...
2007-05-01 01:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like all you want is a Fu*k buddy.
2007-05-01 02:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by prettylady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking so much and have a good time.
2007-05-01 01:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont hold back go for it girl. have a couple of dates with the guy ,then if you think it can become more ,tell him everything dont hold back ............ever heard the saying ..dont look a gift horse in the mouth.....................happy times
2007-05-01 01:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋