i feel very bad for what i did,i confessed to my husband(my best friend)he is very upset!i feel am a bad person, did the act with affection!am too embaressed to meet any body,am also too afraid to talk to any body now!am so ashamed.
2007-05-01 02:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by lady h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lady, number one, you had the guts to tell your husband, you are an honest person.
It is normal you feel ashamed, we tend to do things under the influence of alcohol that generally we would never do, some people get crazier than others. Therefore best thing to do is not to drink so much....but, it is done. You can't change what happened and you are taking responsibility.
You are NOT a bad person, we all do shameful and bad choices during our life, no one is perfect. What you are doing is the right thing, telling your husband and taking responsibility.
Don't be so harsh on yourself.
2007-05-01 02:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Flyinghorse 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you still love your husband? ........ If so .... you've got some "making it right" to do and it's going to take a long time. You've got to build up some new trust between you .... if that is your goal.
Drinking is not the reason you did what you did. It only broke down the fence that allowed you to go where you already wanted to go.
As for feeling ashamed, ..... well, perhaps you should feel ashamed. You did something to several people that you now feel guilty for doing. You cheated on your husband (your best friend). You shamed the woman that you had relations with. You also shamed yourself.
Still, all of us have done stupid things and we get over it. It will just take time and a real effort to make it right. You can do it and you will do it ..... of that I'm sure.
Hob
2007-05-01 04:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hobgoblin Kev 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes. Don't beat your self up. Other people will be only to happy to do it for you. I bet they have made a mistake or two in their life. Talk to a priest, rabbi, or minister. Don't be embarrassed. They have heard it all. I only hope your husband can forgive you. Next time you drink, make sure your husband is with you.
2007-05-01 02:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by starflower 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OOPS! yeah definitely a reason not to drink!!! but you live and learn, I hope you and your husband can work things out.
2007-05-01 02:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by prettylady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be ashamed ! maybe u are confused about life or the relationship u r in now! do some soul searching with urself! we all have things we have done that make us feel like crap!!! u ever wanna talk just email me k!!!
2007-05-01 02:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by reba 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I agree
Alcohol can make ya do crazy things.
2007-05-01 02:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by lami_by_design 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
number one reason to NOT drink!
2007-05-01 02:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH well you should be...... i hope your husband kicks your sorry ***.. and never looks back. also just coz u were intoxicated means nothing........ u should know better and not only was it one person but 2 and of both sexes......... dont use the alcophol as your excuse for bieng a filthy @#$%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
2007-05-01 02:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋