Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

Me: What do you think of me?
Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate?
Me: What am i to you?
Him: You are a friend of mine, we hang out every so often.. but before i say more tell me what is on your mind and why it is bothering you? You can talk to me anytime.
Me: It jut seemed like i was the side girl. Give her a bit of attention to keep her there, call her once in a blue moon just for sex, then leave until you need her again. I just didn't want you to see me like that.
Him: I never call you for sex you are always the one that calls me... you cant get angry at me for that, i never call you because of the age thing i know that if you call me then that is your choice. and when you do i figure its partly sexualy related and you know it is, i could be sleazy but i like to thik im a gentleman... i remember i picked you and your friends up in the middle of town in the middle of the night to make sure you got home safely, i do look out for you... the slight age thing is strange, but whenever you called me i always treated you with the respect you deserved and enjoy your company and conversation and i hope im the same..
Him: Are you going to message back
Me: Im not angry i only wanted to know where i stood with you. i call you because you make me happy not because i want sex, i know you look out for me and im greatful... the age thing is a bump in the road but thousands of people can look past that and yes i enjoy talking to you.
Me: Are you going to message me back
Him: Goodnight, dont stress :-)
Me: Goodnight

2007-05-01 07:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's the situation, I am moving out of state with my son who is 6 his father has not been in the picture since he was 1. I petitioned the court but have not gotten a response. I am a little worried that I will not get an answer from the court before we move, which will be on May 26th. Either way I am gonna leave, but I am a little worried about the after effects. I know that the chances of him pulling his head out of his *** are slim to none to become a father to his son. But I also know that if he wants to be a dick and I was denied the permission I could get charged with kidnapping. What should I do?

2007-05-01 07:50:48 · 7 answers · asked by ann_kalani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I only have one friend and need to go out and meet new people is it possible at 23 to still make friends as im pretty lonely at the mo. Also if you have been successful in meeting/making friends where is the best places to go/join

2007-05-01 07:50:13 · 15 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A month ago, I had an argument with my gf just for one day. On that day, she went to work in a massage parlor in Hong Kong and slept with 5 guys just to get back at me. Anyway, I was able to forgive her but even now, I still can't get over her mistake.

I love her but I am still disgusted by her action. How should I get over it or should I have dumped her??

2007-05-01 07:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

There is this cute girl that is on my co ed recreational soccer team that i play at. We have said hey whats up when we see each other. I really do like to get to know her, what is the best way to go about this? What should i do or say to show that I am interested in her? Thanks
G

2007-05-01 07:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello Planet:

I need your advise once again, My boyfriend is 49 yrs. old and I am 36 yrs. old he has very old school ways for instance he thinks I should have a meal prepare, cooked and served to him when he has finished a long hard days work. Granted we don't even live or share any financial responsibilities together.

I've tried to make him understand that I work 11hours days and raising a 13 yr. old daughter alone is very draining. I try to catch up with some yard work before nightfall and talk with my daughter about her day when I get home from work.

He thinks I'm a very selfish person for putting other things ahead of him. I really do care for him as a partner. He has very high goals and morals. I can depend on him most of the time.

I think he's very jealous of my dog also he calls him a son of a B**** on a regular basis.

What can I do to balance this ongoing situation?

2007-05-01 07:37:45 · 11 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Singles & Dating

A close friend that works with me is getting married. I have only known them for a short period of time. They have been like an extended family to us. I would like to get something special they both can appreciate. If this helps they are a young power couple.

Thanks in advance!

2007-05-01 07:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by rod yahoo pimp! 1 in Weddings

How can I find the perfect guy to cheat with, I have been with this guy for 7yrs. In the 7yrs he has hugged me probably 3times kiss me probably once a year. Should I feel guilty for wanting to do this. I am totally confused. I really love him i talk to him, he just brushes it off like it ain't nothing, I would like for us to work out but I believe that us women need affection and men just need sex. I am quite fed up right now I am good to him in every way a person could imagine. What if I dump him and I get with someone else and he just to damn affectionate hovering over me or something.

2007-05-01 07:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by shashauhhhgalore 2 in Singles & Dating

there are these two boys at my school that keep making really sexual comments && stuff to me...i've been yelling at them to stop but they wont....i've even punched them....but they wont leave me alone...what do i do??

2007-05-01 07:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by shes~in~pieces~now~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is spending at least 80% of his spare time with his sister and me, rarely me alone as he is really close to his sister and she is single and always expects him to do things with her. Would you tolerate this and if so, why, if not why not pleas? Thanks guys :)

2007-05-01 07:28:46 · 21 answers · asked by Leeza 3 in Singles & Dating

to take it to the next level which is a relationship or should it be longer, and how soon is to soon to say you want to be in a relationship. I asked her has she ever thought about taking what we have there, she then looked at me in this confused state and said where is there. I frozed, and said something else that I didn't really mean because I don't know if she is on the same page as me. I think she is, but I hate rejection.

2007-05-01 07:28:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive known this guy for about 2 years. and we talk every day on the comp... and he rings me up somtimes. im falling for him.... infact i already have. :(... he helps me through my problems.. but its sooo wierd its like ive known him my whole life. and ive neva met him... so should i keep talking 2 him?
he lives in miami and i live in the u.k
help me please
xxx

2007-05-01 07:28:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want responses from people saying, to move on and I could do better then this. I would like responses from people that may have had the same problem and solved it, or someon that could help me understand why a man would love someone, and yet need sex from others. I have been in a relationship for a while with a man that has stollen my heart completely. I love him more then I have ever loved a man in my life. He has so many good qualities I couldn't list them here. But he says he needs sex from others once in a while. He said he loves me and I can tell he does. I've herd of open relationships and things. But I don't know how to cope with the idea of some other woman spending time and being with with the man I love. He said it wouldn't mean anything to him other then just sex. My man and I have seperated for now, his choice, due to the fighting we have done which was over this extra sex thing. How would I cope or deal with this? I want my man back, I am miserable with out him.!

2007-05-01 07:27:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have had a crush on her for about 2 years now

2007-05-01 07:27:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I want to live together. But we do not want to do that or have sex together unless there is love and commitment between us. Because it means nothing without that. We want our commitment to be a spiritual commitment. We have already discussed what would happen if I became pregnant, and how we are going to handle finances. Is there anything wrong with this? The Bible does not define marriage as a legal document.

2007-05-01 07:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by pocketful_of_sunshine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i think my partner of some time is planning something as he has been hinting stuff alot

2007-05-01 07:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been seeing a man for 2 months. I know he is with someone else, I don't know the details, but according to him they aren't serious anymore, they just have a business together. He told me to wait for him until things are settled. Should I wait and keep going the way things are or should I just take things slowly and wait until things are done before I get too serious? Please help me it's a wild roller coaster ride.

2007-05-01 07:17:41 · 30 answers · asked by deathsangel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 07:15:56 · 10 answers · asked by cubspride78 1 in Weddings

My daughter is my best friend. Is this wrong. I am a woman. This is my friends account.

2007-05-01 07:11:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-01 07:09:04 · 17 answers · asked by blake b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just gotten a 14K engagement ring from Wal-Mart....it is a very pretty ring, not very expensive like $250. But I just looked and my finger is turning! I have had numerous gold rings and have never had a problem... what could it be? I hate to tell my fiancee!!!!

2007-05-01 07:08:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-01 07:07:57 · 2 answers · asked by Rose B 1 in Friends

Or do you discuss this with you partner?

I have noticed that many of the questions posted here never state that both people agreed. Is it just assumed?

2007-05-01 07:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and my dad will let me if i go and live w/him but i wanna live w/my mom and i wanna get my tongue and lip pierced so how do i convince her that its ok

2007-05-01 07:04:19 · 32 answers · asked by shaelrcrk 3 in Family

or would u just laugh and put your clothes back on. a lot of women say its not the size its how you work it that matters but what if both guys were equally skilled in bed but one has a bigger member than dose it matter?

2007-05-01 07:01:43 · 24 answers · asked by owell 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin's husband takes care of his parents. They live about 10 miles away from them. She also helps take care of them.

Her husband has a twin sister. She lives about 2000 miles away in Florida. She does come and visit her parents 3 to 4 times per year. She does not do much to take care of them. She treats it more as a vacation.

Her daughter is graduating from High School next month and she wants her parents to come for the graduation. She wants them to stay for 2 weeks with her in Florida. My cousin's husband will accompany them on the plane journey since the parents are old and need assistance traveling.

My cousin told her husband that if he went and stayed at his sister's house with his parents, she would divorce him and change the locks on the house when he was gone. She says that he never spends time with her. Yet, he has time for his parents.

Wasn't her reaction too strong?

2007-05-01 06:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I love wearing it when he's not around.

2007-05-01 06:54:42 · 2 answers · asked by sleepingliv 7 in Singles & Dating

Most men I know say they like the affection and snuglling and the foreplay. More that they actual act of sex.Do you think thats correct .

2007-05-01 06:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by Robertus911 3 in Singles & Dating

He has a job interview in 10 minutes. Please pray that if this is what God has instore for our family that it will all work out! He has been out of work for just under a month now!! Thanks so much!

2007-05-01 06:50:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please post

I mean we rarely find 'perfect' and when we do, we realize that we didn't or don't want perfect, cause for some reason perfect becomes too perfect - and the I love you's or the you're the one - Just don't cut it, and we don't end up with this perfect person - But rather find the search again and look for something different


Why is that?? What did we do wrong?? Whats going wrong??

Why isnt perfect 'IT'?? Whats happening??

please post

2007-05-01 06:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce