How can I find the perfect guy to cheat with, I have been with this guy for 7yrs. In the 7yrs he has hugged me probably 3times kiss me probably once a year. Should I feel guilty for wanting to do this. I am totally confused. I really love him i talk to him, he just brushes it off like it ain't nothing, I would like for us to work out but I believe that us women need affection and men just need sex. I am quite fed up right now I am good to him in every way a person could imagine. What if I dump him and I get with someone else and he just to damn affectionate hovering over me or something.
2007-05-01 07:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by shashauhhhgalore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what do you want..an affectionate guy or not? You say that your boyfriend is not affectionate but that you don't want a guy that is too affectionate. There are guys that fall in the middle of what you are looking for somewhere. First of all dump your boyfriend but don't cheat on him. That is not fair to him. If you are so unhappy with him then get rid of him. Maybe if you do break up with him it will show him that he doesn't want to be without you and he will start being more affectionate towards you. If not just look around until you find what you are looking for. By all means, don't settle for someone you don't want or that doesn't make you happy. BUT DON'T CHEAT ON HIM
2007-05-01 07:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling all to well. I got touched only if I touched first, and so many other parts are involved. It's a control thing their doing to you. It all backfires when they are forced to find it somewhere else. Sounds like you've helped them screw themselves up beyond repair. If you can get affection the way I show affection, then go for it. He needs mental and emotional help, you need loveing.
2007-05-01 14:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by josh03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you wasted 7 months, much less 7 years, End it and move on. Don't use someone else to make up for your own bad choices. Just move on.
2007-05-01 14:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, My stepfather was like that with my mom. Please you don"t have to live like that. Life is too precious to get by unfulfilled.So you need to search your heart and pray to Jesus for the awnser. There are many men who desire intimacy just as much as women."Even though most won"t admit it ! Kenny M.
2007-05-01 14:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's love is pure < as what they say. :) but talk it out with him or u can initiate the situation :) then we'll see how he'd react.. i hope he's not gay.
2007-05-01 14:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋