ive known this guy for about 2 years. and we talk every day on the comp... and he rings me up somtimes. im falling for him.... infact i already have. :(... he helps me through my problems.. but its sooo wierd its like ive known him my whole life. and ive neva met him... so should i keep talking 2 him?
he lives in miami and i live in the u.k
help me please
xxx
2007-05-01 07:28:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he has said he has loved me back. i kno hes not a bad person, like hes gna kill me... i kno who he is.....
2007-05-01 07:40:41 · update #1
Enjoy the fantasy.
Don't spoil it by meeting him
.
2007-05-01 07:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa girl. Trust me this ain't love, don't get love n lust mixed up, my mistake when I was your age as well. Okay I'm guessing this your first thing close to a relationship right? Well what you'll find out when you get a lil older,,,I'm only 19 btw but if he doesn't put enough effort onto trying to see you as you him, move on, your too young to be goin after that. N if your feelings are really that strong bout him, keep it at a friendship level, ain't nothing wrong with that, n than see where it leads you. Cuz if its "true love" like any 15 yr old girl wants to believe, starting off at just friends can only lead to better things. Lol damn this is long
2016-05-18 01:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with him--you have a very warm and special e-correspondence. You don't know whether you're in love with someone unless you meet in person and work out the details of a personal relationship.
All relationships are different. Long distance doesn't work for me. But I really dig British girls, so in that case I might be able to give it a go. Unless you guys decide to meet, though, I would be careful.
This is exactly the sort of thing that, like "84 Charing Cross Road" was built on.
2007-05-01 07:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i can understand why you have fallen for this guy but is it really feasible for you guys to have a proper relationship with you two living so far apart? I mean you should ask yourself some question, does he feel the same way about you? And if he does then what would you do then?
If i were you i would tell him how you felt so that you could find out his feelings, then at least you would know wither to keep talking to him or not.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-05-01 07:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem I guess, except mine is only 8 miles away.. aslong as you know he is who he says he is and isn't someone else, go for it, making new friends isn't doing any harm, even if there are a million miles away. But meeting someone like this can spoil things, sometimes you can talk for hours on end over the phone but in person its usually quite awkward, so if you're planning on meeting, make sure your both ready :) goodluck!x
2015-06-05 12:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship like this will drive you crazy. It's like being in love with a movie star in a magazine. It isn't real. It's pure fantasy. See this for what it is, an internet fantasy date, and turn off your computer. I went through this and it took me months to get over it. It turned out to be all lies and I was ashamed of being so gullible.
2007-05-01 07:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by rdavis61 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be careful. i had this guy i used to talk to all the time. started talking to him aged 16, and he was from egypt and i thought wow exotic place and we became e-buddies, and just got to know each other through emailing each other, then we became msn pals, and then when i was around 18 I gave him my number cos by this point he knew so much about me and he was so easy to talk to and provided such great advice.
Anyway, last year I went on holiday to Egypt and thought it would be great to meet up, but he didn't show. and when i got back home he told me that he was actually from my city, and not from egypt. he saw me, got all obsessed and got my email address somehow and started emailing me. The scary thing was he knew stuff about me I hadnt told him like my address and stuff. I had told him about my crush at college and my best friends etc etc. and he had stalked us all and it was so scary thinking that he could have done something to me, my friends, my crush and this was someone i thought i knew.
moral of story, just be careful. im sure your mate is really who he says he is, but just remember he could be different to he he said he was in real life.
2007-05-01 07:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by DesertRose 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i been through this so many times.... i been talking to a guy for as long as i can remember he was there for me during the time i was seeing my long term bf and was also there when i found out he was cheating on me. he dont live that far from me , but weve never met and alos have never spoke on the phone...
i think what you have to ask is are either of you attached to any one, would it work out.. could you live a long term relationship, would either of you be willing to move.. but obviously the main question of all...
does he feel the same, as it takes two to tango...
good luck...
ps i know what your going through
2007-05-01 07:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by amethyst2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why dont u guys arrange like during the holidays to hook up. Maybe for a week or two. Dont make it long for like a month incase y'all both get fed up of rach other. But i guess a week is cool.
2007-05-01 07:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Salam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. if it feels so good, see where it goes, love is more than looking at someone all day. i dont date men i just meet, i always vet them on the pc for a while, as i think that what a person is all about is what they have to say... i wish you both well, and hope he feels the same x
2007-05-01 07:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by rachealuk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep talking and follow your heart but keep your guard up
im a 20 year old male in the UK and this happened to me 2 years ago and I will never forget her
I dont know how old you are but keep talking and follow your heart =)
2007-05-01 07:48:12 · answer #11 · answered by Music fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋