is 5 inches x 4 inches around big enough to please?

Question

or would u just laugh and put your clothes back on. a lot of women say its not the size its how you work it that matters but what if both guys were equally skilled in bed but one has a bigger member than dose it matter?

Answer 1

Its smaller then average, but in the normal range.

You should have no trouble - based on size - in satisfying 90% or more of women.

Most of the vagina's nerves are in the first 2 inches, and most women orgasm as much from clitoral stimulation, which comes from either your fingers or your pubic bone. In fact, I recently read about a guy who was really long who satisfied women less - he couldn't get all the way in, so there was no grinding from the base to her clit.

A small subset of women care, and you just won't end up with one of those.

Most women it won't matter.

As for your final scenario, its pointless. Nobody is perfect, and everyone can say 'well if someone was identical to me except slightly smarter/richer/taller/funnier/blah blah blah would that matter?'. Yeah, sure. whatever. People are not equal in all other ways. Your penis is going to be fine for most women. Worry about the other stuff.

If any girl tells you its small, you should just smile and say 'thank goodness, I was worried you'd think it wouldn't fit in your a*s'.

Answer 2

If she loves you, then trust me - it won't matter. When you're in love with someone -having sex becomes making love and making love is connecting on a higher level.

However if its a one night stand and the clothes come off.... then size may be a problem. Most people that sleep around or do one nighters are looking for the thrill, excitement, size, girth ect....

But its my opinion that size does not matter in either situation. Its all about skill and technique. :D

But to answer your question size has nothing to do with pleasure. It depends on the skill of the guy. Some guys can be hung like a gorilla and not know what to do with it. While some smaller guys can work what the got pretty well. And I read somewhere that most of the 'pleasureable spots' in a woman's VaJJ are in the first 1.5" inches. See this website:

http://members.tripod.com/s_education/sexfaq.htm

Answer 3

It ultimately comes down to who is the better person.

Skill is always more important than size. Also, well endowed men often rely too heavily on that fact and don't actually acquire very good skills.

It's sort of like women who are Extremely beautiful (or who think they are) who focus too much on the superficial. In the end they might as well be ugly, because that's how they come across.

Answer 4

It matters, but foreplay has a lot to do with you being pleased, but everyone knows the bigger the better in all things.

Woman that say they are small have you ever admitted that they are large, they are far and few between. Who tells you are small any man that wants to have sex with you again.
Would you have sex someone again if they told," You sure are big down there, aren't you".WOW!!!

Answer 5

Yes it is just fine. Size doesn't matter to women unless they are super large down there, or in my case really small.

It just depends, besides, average size is 5-6 inches.

Answer 6

5 inches around? that sounds quite big. its how you work it that matters? who told you that? of course its the size. if both were equally skilled in bed and one was bigger id choose the bigger one.

im a woman and any woman on here that says size dosent matter has a problem. Please take all those little dic*ed men away so they dont come to me anymore. Take them and marry them and leave only the thickies for me. You want a man who you can barely feel inside you or has a tiny lil willy than feel free to take him. Men have good reason to be insecure about their size.

Not only does a man with a large penis emulate and personify masculinity and sexuality but it feels better when he hurts you a little bit then you can feel that massive thing inside you and thats a real man. A man who can make any woman scream with pleasure.

Whats sexier than a man in tight underwear where you can see his large package underneath? Whats sexier than a man with a big package taking you and really giving it to you? and what the hell is sexy about a man with a little penis?

Final point, im one of many women and you see some of these women here claim 'size dosent matter' so maybe they would have you and there wouldnt be a problem, but if it was me, your penis size wouldnt effect my opinion of you and i wouldnt laugh at you , i just might pity you and not be able to have sex with you. Dont mind my opinion and dont let it stop you from having sex , as you can see these ladies would be happy to have you despite your small penis. Good luck.


PS. Dont worry about the length as much worry about the thickness. 5 inch length might just cut it. But as far as the width make sure its big as can be.

Answer 7

that really isnt that bad i mean its more common than if it where smaller and yeah its about knowing what your doing with it, and to answer the second part of the question yeah it kinda does matter then but most wemon dont base there relationships on whos slightly better in bed

Answer 8

All women are different, just like guys like different things, so you can't generalize but it really isn't just the size that matters. It's all kinds of things put together, foreplay, clitoral stimulation, penetration, everything. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 9

They say size matters. But they don't tell you what size...

Length or width?

I'd say that you are around average in length but above average in width.

And it's not the size, it's how you use it. Be passonate and take it slow. Warm 'em up until they are burning hot and they won't care what size it is...

A~

Answer 10

5-6 inches is average size, I see nothing wrong with it. Some women may be shallow and want it to be huge, but those are what we call sluts.

You shouldn't have a problem.