Or do you discuss this with you partner?
I have noticed that many of the questions posted here never state that both people agreed. Is it just assumed?
2007-05-01 07:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't sleep with someone until you know you're exclusive. Then you sleep with them. Till then, off limits.
2007-05-01 07:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Aiden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never assumed that sleeping with someone makes us exclusive. That is something that both parties must discuss and agree, which is different from agreeing to sleep with each other.
2007-05-01 14:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Svetlana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would all depend on the situation. One night stands, I don't think so. If you are dating someone, you should be only sleeping with one person at a time. This should be discussed amongst the two in question. Communication is important and I don't think it should mean you will be together forever, but there should be some respect between the two, that establishes they only sleep with one or the other. If that can't be fulfilled, then they shouldn't be together...
2007-05-01 14:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but with the people I have spoken with about this, it's never exclusive unless you agree to it at least before you do it. Most of the time it's a one night stand on either of their parts, unless like I said, you have deeper feelings and express them and talk about being exclusive. And I do agree that women find themselves feeling more exclusive than men...
2007-05-01 14:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it should mean that but not every one got that memo..I think that you shouldn't sleep with someone until you are in a relationship where you have already talked about being monogamous and are seriously involved however talking about it doesn't always make it so ..people have such different perspective of "serious relationships" ..Some close friends sometimes have one nightstands..or "it just happened" sex... if you want sex to mean that then you should obviously tell your partner before it gets hot and heated...
2007-05-01 14:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realistically, not until you have know them for months, had several dates & discussed having an exclusive relationship. But not all follow this by far. Communication is key!!
2007-05-01 14:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by COblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never assume exclusivity, even if sleeping with someone. Even if you ask, it's not guaranteed you'll get an honest answer.
2007-05-02 09:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God no, never assume that you are exclusive just because you have slept with them. That way you wont feel let down when you realise they are sleeping with someone else as well you.
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2007-05-01 14:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually assumed by women, but not by men.
That's why you have to talk it over and come to an agreement about it.
Although for what it's worth, I wouldn't sleep with anyone until we were already exclusive, but not everyone shares this standard.
2007-05-01 14:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I assume nothing. If I want exclusivity, I'll talk to my guy about it first.
2007-05-01 14:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋