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I mean we rarely find 'perfect' and when we do, we realize that we didn't or don't want perfect, cause for some reason perfect becomes too perfect - and the I love you's or the you're the one - Just don't cut it, and we don't end up with this perfect person - But rather find the search again and look for something different
Why is that?? What did we do wrong?? Whats going wrong??
Why isnt perfect 'IT'?? Whats happening??
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2007-05-01 06:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No its not perfect, but everything and the person is what ud want hiom to be, until u realize that this version of everything you want and this perfect, is too perfect and too much for you
so u run away
why is that?
2007-05-01 06:59:45 · update #1
I understand exactly what you are talking about and its like you see things differently when you are trying to obtain them but once you have gotton what you want its like you feel like now what. But the thing is to not have your expectations so high because when you do that you leave room for disappointment to occur. No one is all what you thought they were cracked up to be once you really get to know them. But if you know what you need and want out of a relationship and you find someone that gives you that then yeah once the chase is gone you know why that person is still standing in the end and you except that person for those reasons and you know that there is grass on the other side but that doesn't mean that its going to be greener which it usually never is.
2007-05-01 09:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because even though you think it is perfect at that time , you'll start seeing things that aren't so perfect as you thought. There no marriage that is perfect, you will always find something you don't like, We look for the perfect partner, no one on this earth is perfect, no one has perfect marriage. That is the reason for so many divorcing, love is blind until you are together then you see all the little faults that let love blind you to. You never really know someone until you live with them , that is why living together before is the way to see all their traits you don't like, then make up your mind if can live with these faults..
2007-05-01 14:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, there's -0- as perfect when you are talking about human beings. Everyone has flaws. There are people that appear to be "perfect for each other" because maybe their flaws compliment each other. You are just confused to what you are looking for. Try not looking so hard and see who finds you. Ya know the saying..."you never find it when you are looking....it always finds you when you are not"....I haven't found my "mr. perfect for me and my preferences" yet, but who knows......He may have already found me and I just don't know how serious he is.....or exactly where he is.
2007-05-01 13:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfect is what you make it. Obviously, they're not perfect if you keep looking for something else. In my case, my wife imperfectness makes her perfect for me. Because if she was perfect she wouldn't need me. Maybe we keep looking to feel needed and when we finally feel needed that's perfect!!!
2007-05-01 14:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ebony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, It may be because you"re human or you just are not ready to for a one on one !
2007-05-01 14:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect person.
2007-05-01 13:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no pefect relationship because no one is perfect.
we all know what we want but when we are dealing with another person, u never know what and/who ur going to get.
2007-05-01 13:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People aren't happy with themselves and blame the other for not fixing their 'problem'.
2007-05-01 13:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋