Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

I was very serious about a guy when we were teenagers. And
nothing became of our relationship. We went our seperate ways. Now after 17 years he found me. He tells me that he is
in love with me and he always has been. I really don't know if
he is being real or is he just playing around. He keeps saying
that he wants to come out here and see me. But he has been
saying that since October of 06'. And the other day he told me
again that he is in love with me. But this time I did not answer
him. I don't want to be hurt by him again. I'm just confused.
What should I do?

2007-05-01 06:47:11 · 13 answers · asked by allisterfiendll 1 in Singles & Dating

My inlaws live in Florida in the winter and New York in the summer. They are financially well off. They usually come by to visit us in South Carolina on their way home. My daughter's graduation is coming up, and they sent me an email saying they will not be coming. They could have arranged their schedules differently to be here for the graduation in May, but they are leaving the week before. I just feel like they could have made the effort. Any advice?

2007-05-01 06:45:34 · 20 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Family

Most people thing we want too much! I dont think we do, once a day i should tell us we are pretty and That Would Be GOOD enough for at least me! so do u think we want too much???

2007-05-01 06:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by Lacie 1 in Singles & Dating

1. A really good-looking guy
2. A guy with a great body
3. A guy with a big ____
4. A guy with a great job
5. A guy with alot of money
6. A really cool guy

2007-05-01 06:31:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 06:27:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm thinking about becoming a Christian but I'm worried loving Jesus may lead me down the path of manly love. Should I be concerned about this?

2007-05-01 06:25:38 · 16 answers · asked by 2 5 in Singles & Dating

One time my dad saw me doing that but I told him I was scratching myself. He believed in me. Other time my older brother saw me masturbating and I told him that I was doing exercises. Then he said: "that is weird". So I said: "I don't care, I'm doing exercises and I don't wanna know what you think about that. "
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What a shame! hahahha

2007-05-01 06:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by Shalom 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 06:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by jackbootedthugs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 days ago I found out that my bf was still with his ex-gf for the first half of our relationship. (We’ve been together a year and a half.) I found e-mails and confronted him. He lied at first, but then confessed eventually, after I told him I had proof. He stated that he was stupid and thought that the relationship was oven when we got together, but in fact they had some things to work out. He didn’t tell me that he needed some time, or he needed a break, because he didn’t want to loose me. I believe he’s sincerely sorry. He did not beg for forgiveness, or try to convince me to stay… he knew he was wrong. And admits that he wouldn’t stay with me if the roles were reversed. I believe that he’s willing to do what it takes to do right, no matter if it’s a life sentence. But, I just don’t know. Can people really change. Is it possible to from this day forward make things right? Start over? I believe in second chances…. but that’s it. Am I wasting my time? Anyone ever been with, or is, a recovering cheater?

2007-05-01 06:19:55 · 20 answers · asked by KMAB 3 in Singles & Dating

I have an 8 month old baby boy. My boyfriend is currently listed as my son's father on the birth certificate, but we took a paternity test (I was with one other man during my child's conception), and my boyfriend is not the biological father. However, since we were not a 'couple' when I got pregnant, our current situation has not completely devastated our relationship. He does want my son's biological father to step up financially though. He doesn't mind being listed as the father on his birth certficate, but we will change the paperwork if necessary. How do I go about getting all of this started?

Serious responses only please.
Thank you all.

2007-05-01 06:18:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My grandpa has been treating us grandkids bad over these last years. My cousin, who is only 5, gets really scared around him when he's mad and so do I. What do I do to make this better?

2007-05-01 06:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am getting married and my pastor wants me to write down some ways I value my girlfriend .

2007-05-01 06:16:25 · 8 answers · asked by kingcroquet 1 in Weddings

my ex has been locked up for 3 years now n keeps telling his younger brother to tell me to come visit, but i dont know which one he is in n his broyher wont tell me.

2007-05-01 06:14:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am taking advice and redefining the way I look at a woman. Any suggestions that are good will be appreciated.

2007-05-01 06:14:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Marriage in the state's eyes is basically a merger of assets. So how does gays getting married in the eyes of the STATE ruin the sanctity of HOLY MATRIMONY or what it is to be married in the eyes of GOD? They're two completely different things.

2007-05-01 06:11:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I discussed my personal issues with family members (cousin, aunt and parents). I have stopped recently because I don't want to keep complaining. I have heard that complaining just gets you attention from people.

Does anyone agree?

Also, how much should I listen to my parents and other's advice? I know its my life, but I sometimes give their words too much importance.

I have to be strong and think with my own mind.

2007-05-01 06:11:10 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

i live wit my inlaws...their always looking for me not my husband...
i take care of my 3 kids all day long, i dont even go out MY HUSBAND dosent even bother taking me out on a date...hes to busy doing watever he wants to do...but its ok to my inlaws..they always assume that ill do everything and clean the house. im so tired and stressed....always yelling at everybody and everybody thinks im crazy....im so stressed out, i look like poop, i mean this is crazy,....i tried explaining to my husband, and he acts like he knows what im saying...but i know he dosent...i mean we're saving money to move out, but until then i have to deal with them, i mean im thankful that their helping us, without them i dont think we could've survived, but honestly their getting on my nerves and i dont know what to do...

2007-05-01 06:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by BaBeJeNN 1 in Family

ive known him for two months, we are aquantances and i dont know much about him but he talks to me a lot for no reason, whenever he sees me he goes out his way to say something, he smiles and says hi all the time, looks me straight in the eye and stares a lot. i asked him for his email and he gave it to me, also he messaged me on myspace, does he like me? should i look for more signs? i like him a lot so what do i do?

2007-05-01 06:08:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dated a woman for 14 mos.-Were friends for yrs-Older brother s3xually abused her during childhood. She’s 45 & lives at home (where the abuse took place) with her mom-in same room she had when she was 9. She’s attractive, had abusive relationships, but no friends. She has plenty of $ & could easily move out. As we dated, she would get weird—accusing me of saying things that are s3xually inappropriate. I never tried to do this, & we NEVER HAD S3X. I actually liked her. I was sensitive about the abuse, but she called me names, hit me & been emotionally abusive. After 14 mos., I decided to bring this up. When I tried, she lost it & accused me of s3xually inappropriate behavior 0VER 1 YR AGO. She also said I was s3xually inappropriate around her niece-24 & with a meth addict. Only been around niece 2X. Anyway, she stopped talking in Jan.-crossed paths with her 2X. She was uncomfortable-acting like she would like to talk. I sent her note expressing no animosity-wishing her well. Was this OK?

2007-05-01 06:07:37 · 11 answers · asked by dantiuspalaptine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom had this dream that one day this girl in my math class called her and said that I had been hurt badly and that my mom needed to hurry on down to the hospital because the doctors would not tell the girl any thing what does this dream mean for me and those who are around me all of the time

2007-05-01 06:07:11 · 3 answers · asked by David M 1 in Friends

She refuses to cook, clean or do anything of significance around the house. I even offered to stay home and take care of the kid's and the house if she wanted to work. All 3 kid's go to school full time. I almost at the point to tell her to pack her bag's and get out! What do I do?

2007-05-01 06:05:03 · 26 answers · asked by wanted 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is not true i meeting my gay friend for dinner my husband just logged off i been reading what he wrote by checking my email im not a cheater im just hurt that he would rather spend his time with his co-worker it happen because i told him to take care of himself better cause he has health problem but he rather listen to his co-worker than me that why im leaving him

2007-05-01 06:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 06:01:46 · 45 answers · asked by Suspect 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 22 years old and been married for 3 years with somebody I have nothing in common with we figt alot we make each other feel like crap. Is time to go but I have no job nothing everything but this computer belongs to him we have 2 kids, 2 and 4 I dont want to leave them with him because he dont take care of them. What do I do somebody any Ideas?

2007-05-01 05:59:25 · 22 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I will catch a lot of flak for this. Let me start by saying that I am a smart, (usually) confident woman. I say that because I tend to think of women who give cheaters another chance as having low self-esteem. My self-esteem has sunk recently but I have a lot to be proud of - graduate degree, great family, wonderful talents and future opportunities. My boyfriend and I are very different - he is foreign and uneducated, but none of that ever mattered to me, because I loved him unconditionally, completely. I've been busy lately; I think he's felt neglected. He's very needy. He cheated on me and (god, I feel like an idiot even writing this), now he tells me he's moved in with the other woman. I feel heartbroken, but for some reason not strong enough to say I'm finished with him. I feel like I'm starting to obsess over the situation. He actually has the nerve to say he still loves me. I want to move on but feel unable to get past the hurt or give him up to her. What is wrong with me?

2007-05-01 05:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by luckypeach 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey there, i have been together now with my Boyfriend for about 3 months, im wondering what you guys think about when it comes to paying the dinner out bill, do you think Dutch is the way to go or One day he pays the other i pay, we get a little agravated when we have no idea who should pay. Any help would be great.

2007-05-01 05:57:03 · 25 answers · asked by kal_el_kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 05:53:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she still has feelings for her ex....i give her everything, treat her good & her ex treats her like *hit..he doesn't work & asks her to buy him clothes, stresses her out...what do i do??

start looking for somebody else??

2007-05-01 05:53:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where I live there is arranged marriage. Originally my daughter was meant to marry a man named Sirtaj but I dont know. He is very mean to women and abuses his mother. Yesterday a generous man gave me a pack of gum and asked if he could marry my daughter. I didnt know what to say. He looked nicer than Sirtaj but he was really ugly and had a large tumor on his neck. She cant decide for herself because women dont have opinions here but I need someones help helping me decide for her

2007-05-01 05:53:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am looking for people who have cheated or been cheated on, and have a successful relationship with the person that did the cheating or was cheated on. Did you/they confess? What strain did it put on the relationship? If you were the one who did the cheating why did you regret it and want to continue your current relationship?


yes i have asked this numerous times, just to get more stories, but after it leaves the first page hardly anyone answers, so i get more answers reposting, lol

2007-05-01 05:51:12 · 21 answers · asked by bluenaketat 4 in Marriage & Divorce