she still has feelings for her ex....i give her everything, treat her good & her ex treats her like *hit..he doesn't work & asks her to buy him clothes, stresses her out...what do i do??
start looking for somebody else??
2007-05-01 05:53:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should start dating me instead.
2007-05-01 05:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a loser from loserville man, give it up. I know you don't want to but when a woman makes up her mind there is no changing it unless she is the type who realizes she made a mistake and honestly wants to fix it. In this case it sounds like she is young and dumb. I hate to say this because I have been through this myself and when a female wants something she'll make it happen or she'll find someone else. Just don't dwell on it too much man, a woman can bring you down and you not even know it. Keep your head up and don't keep asking yourself what you did wrong, it is her.
2007-05-01 12:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down with you, look at her seriously and tell her exactly how you feel about her. That you think she's a princess/queen and should be treated as one. That you'll love her, respect her, do anything for her. Al she needs to do is trust you. Make her feel secure that you'll never ever hurt her in any way. She's just probably scared but won't admit it. No girl likes to be treated like dirt.
2007-05-01 13:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely start looking for someone else. Why torture yourself..or better yet, why continue to let her make a fool out of you? It doesnt matter how he treats her, just that she obviously doesnt mind, so move on dude. Sounds like she wants to have you waiting in the wings as a back up. Can you allow yourself to be subjected to such devious behavior?
2007-05-01 12:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you surprised? you did everything wrong and he did everything right and you are even aware of it. this is how it played out, you kiss her *** and what does that say about the dynamics between you and her? that she is above you, better than you and you should be licking her boots. he treats her like **** and demands so much of her and therefore gives the message that he is better than her and she should be subserviant to him. she is looking for an equal or someone to look up to. she wants someone better than her. you may very well be better than this guy but that is not the message that you are conveying. what to do next? dump her *** quick and when she comes crawling back to you on hands and knees, make her suck your dick and come all over her face whithout even givng her the satisfaction of a kiss. then tell her to get loss. she will stick around for sureafter that. treat her like dirt, she will stick to you like mud.
2007-05-01 13:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think whether or not you are getting what you need and what you want from the relationship. Make sure it is give and take and you are not the only one giving. She will realize in time that she made a mistake, but it's what she learns from the mistake that is important. She may come back, but by then you may have decided what you really want, and it may not be her. But then again, she may not come back, and... that will be her loss. Good luck.
2007-05-01 13:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got several choices dude.....
Start treatin her like s..hit and ask her to buy u stuff. That might make her more attracted to u.
Or u could just go find a gf that's more into the type of guy u are.
Or u could become gay and not have to worry about it at all anymore.
So....take your pick man.
2007-05-01 13:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend thanks for the memory and start looking for someone else.
If she wants to be with her ex for the reasons you described she is a lost cause as far as you are concerned. As a word of advice. She will stay with him a while and split up again. Don't take her back because she will go right back to him.
2007-05-01 13:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. She doesn't appreciate what you do for her maybe she needs to feel needed by someone like her ex. Or maybe she is using him as an excuse not to be with you. Either way, she doesn't deserve you so you should start looking for someone who does. Good luck.
2007-05-01 12:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by red_s0cks_suck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She isn't appreciating you. and if she wants to be with someone who treats her like garbage, that's her perogative. Just don't take her back when she comes crawling...because I guarantee she probably will once she gets sick of his crap. Move on and find someone who will appreciate you. There are a lot of women looking for guys to treat them half as good as you treated her.
2007-05-01 12:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by VivienLeigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is "Good Bye". You are "toast", "history", and if you continue to be so silly, you will continue to look pretty pathetic. Move-on, grow-up, get a life. Read a book, go to school, attend church, volunteer some of your time.
Ricky
2007-05-01 13:00:57 · answer #11 · answered by RICKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋