I am getting married and my pastor wants me to write down some ways I value my girlfriend .
2007-05-01 06:16:25 · 8 answers · asked by kingcroquet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you have to come online and ask strangers why you value your fiance, I would say that you don't value her very much...
2007-05-01 08:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? This should be from YOU, not a bunch of strangers on the internet who don't know either you or your fiancee.
If you're stuck, start writing down those qualities she has that you admire. WHY do you love her? WHY do you want to be with her? WHY is she the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, and not the last girlfriend you had? I think that's what the pastor is wanting you to think about here.
2007-05-01 06:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about her friendship, her companionship, her ability to make you smile, her caring and nurturing ways. Her maternal instincts. Her sense of humor. Her sense of responsibility. Her sense of financial responsibility.
Look back over the last week and think of good times that you two have had and write down what she did that make the time with her special or nice.
Good luck and God Bless your marriage.
2007-05-01 06:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of everything good she's done for you and with you... why do you love her? what does she do that makes you love her? why is she special? why do you want to marry her? It's deeper than her long beautiful blonde hair, outside beauty fades, why is she beautiful to you on her insides? Why did you ask her to marry you? Why is she the one woman you are going to spend the rest of forever with? Answer those questions, and there you go. CONGRATS! Love her everyday as if you won't see her tomorrow...she deserves it.
2007-05-01 07:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Thankful for so much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you value her support, encouragement, understanding, strength, faith, presence, energy, ability to light up a room or brighten your day?
If not, maybe you can just tell him you dont value your fiance...but you do value her vagina and its a package deal.
2007-05-01 06:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were sick, did she take care of you? Have you ever taken her to a sporting event and she didn't complain?
It doesn't have to be serious, just real.
2007-05-01 06:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, that's a personal question. if you don't know the answers I don't think you should be getting married...
2007-05-01 06:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by AMS 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you don't know then why are you getting married to her?
2007-05-01 06:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋