2007-05-01 06:01:46 · 45 answers · asked by Suspect 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. She is just sorry that she lost out on a good thing. If you go back you are showing that you are weak for her and she will just disprespect you again. I think you should make her wait at least 1/2 the time you dated and if she still wants you back and you are available, then I would give it a shot.
2007-05-01 06:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't give anyone who cheats a second chance. It is not worth the risk of getting hurt again. Not to mention, the fact that if you take her back she is going to loose respect for you in the relationship. She may think that she has the upper hand and take advantage of it.
It is your choice. Can you trust her again? Will it be a healthy and productive relationship even if you work through those issues? What was your relationship like before?
These are questions you have to ask. Make a list of PROS and CONS and see what outweighs the other. If the good stuff will outweight the bad then consider it. If not, move on.
Chances are if she cheated, the realtionship was lacking something to begin with. There is no excuse to cheat if your are truly into someone. You are worth more than that treatment and there are plenty of other girls out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve! :)
2007-05-01 06:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally say no. This is because I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and I went back out with him and he just kept cheating on me. It was hurt that I just didn't need. I am not saying that this girl will cheat on you again, but just for the fact that she cheated on you when you two were together shows distrust and I just believe that you can find better girls out there for you who will treat you right. And she should hurt because what she did to you was unexeptable
But you will make the right decision for you
Good luck man!
2007-05-01 06:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you think you can TRUST her.
Look, people make mistakes, and can change. However, in my opinion there are SO many other people out there that can give you the same she offers, but that have NOT cheated on you.
Why would you sign up for that? Because it's easy?
Ask her what she will do differently. What can she tell you that would make you trust her? What is she willing to do? how far will SHE go to get you back?
Good luck...
2007-05-01 06:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Scott D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But then again it depends, how long did you guys date the first time? Were you in love? How long has it been since you;ve broken up? As they say, "once a cheat always a cheat" but I do think that people can change IF they want to. Why does she want to get back with you? What are her reasons?
2007-05-01 06:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ans is YES
I ever cheated on my bf K 5 yrs ago. At that time I had another bf T but I started with him (K). Finally I chose that guy (T) instead of him (K). finally I got back with him half a yr ago and we are doing fine! we are crazily in love. It really depends on the situation. Like 5 yrs ago, I think I have reasons to do that. Coz I was having a LD r/ship with T, and at that time I alr lost feelings towards him, so I chose K. but then at that time K was immature and I felt more comfortable with T, so I chose him. and 6 mths ago finally we were both single, then we could start off perfectly. So you have to see what was happening the last time she cheated on you. Also, feelings can change. Maybe she's serious this time?
2007-05-01 06:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the best answer to that is.... "Do what YOU feel is right!" No one else can really make that choice for you. People cheat for different reasons...But with that said let me flip it and say that women and men have a way to turn on the tears when they find out that what they thought was a good idea ends up being someone elses way of playing them for a fool.
2007-05-01 06:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by lil_dixie_girls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat ever it is dumb wheather she cheated on you or not....no you need to tell her she screwed up and it is too late now....then go and find a girl that will be faithful to you and not cheat there are plenty of girls like that most of them have been cheated on and knows how it feels to know that you weren't good enough...I would never do that and I hope no other girls would but it happens.....you can't fix the past just create the future....
2007-05-01 06:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
Honestly, if things were meant to be, and it was worth it, she never would have cheated. Sorry to be brutal. Find someone else. When you are truely in love with someone, you could never imagine being with anyonelse, you wouldn't even be able to cheat. I honestly believe when you truely love someone, and you know it's forever, that's it.... other people are attractive, and you might think someone is hot, but in your heart you know that no one will ever amount to the person you are in love with. Be with someone who loves you, and treats you how you deserve. It will prevent you from further heart break. Good luck... I am sure you will have not problem!! = ) just keep a positive outlook... have fun, and let things happen... good things do come to those who wait.. I promise!
2007-05-01 06:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by berrybleuize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you go back out with her or not is your decision but please don't do it just cuz she's CRYING. Girls will use tears to get what they wantbecause they know that a lot of guys will feel sorry for them and then give them what they want. Look at the whole picture. She betrayed you and needs to reearn your trust. She's gotta work for it, not cry for it.
2007-05-01 06:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by chewtheredpill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋