My cousin's husband takes care of his parents. They live about 10 miles away from them. She also helps take care of them.
Her husband has a twin sister. She lives about 2000 miles away in Florida. She does come and visit her parents 3 to 4 times per year. She does not do much to take care of them. She treats it more as a vacation.
Her daughter is graduating from High School next month and she wants her parents to come for the graduation. She wants them to stay for 2 weeks with her in Florida. My cousin's husband will accompany them on the plane journey since the parents are old and need assistance traveling.
My cousin told her husband that if he went and stayed at his sister's house with his parents, she would divorce him and change the locks on the house when he was gone. She says that he never spends time with her. Yet, he has time for his parents.
Wasn't her reaction too strong?
2007-05-01 06:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A bit too strong.. This case can be interpreted in two ways either...she is too lovable and possessive for her husband or she likes to dominate him.. But when it comes to who is more important to a husband...??? Then the answer is surely......."wife" should be the final stand for him... so it's nothing wrong in this reaction of your cousin.. This is just a spark of misunderstanding between them......................................................................!!!!
2007-05-01 07:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is more going on in that marriage that you know about. You're only seeing or hearing part of a much bigger picture. It sounds to me as if he's not being a good husband to her on a day-to-day basis.
2007-05-01 14:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋