my boyfriend and i recently broke up, my parents just got divorced, we're moving out of ouy house because w/out our dad we can't afford to keep it(the life-support doesn't pay enough to keep it ). We're gonna have to sell our car too and i'm just really stressed out with school and life and everything! someone help!!
2007-05-01 01:59:24 · 19 answers · asked by Lolly ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i know right... life sucks... more often than not... The thing is you need to surround yourself with friends... even if they seemingly "ignore" you... i promise that they really arent trying to... talk to your friends... open up... trust me it helps... you got God i suppose... thats good keep trusting in him... and look if you ever wanna talk youve now got my email and my aim is the same... keep pushing... itll get better
2007-05-01 13:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about such bad luck. But what you have to do in this situation is realze that if these things did not happin as they did the outcome could have been worse in the future. You have to understand that things happin for a reason and some things are just out of your control. Now about you and your EX Thats just experience. Now you have seen a man thats is not good for you. So you say. Well now you heal and get back on your feet. Things take time and alot of patients. I am sure with the right attitude you will be fine in no time. Not to mention your mother should do the same thing. I believe that a hard life is better then an easy life cause without workign for anything you have no idea what its like to live. Your struggle will pay off in the end and you will WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN. Be well and feel better and none of this was your fault.
2007-05-01 02:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Gubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie - I'm not sure how old you are, but I promise you this - life will get better. God doesn't give you more than you can handle and one day you will look back at the trials & tribulations and see that they were preparing you for something later in life.
I went through a period in my life where I kept losing jobs - after 2 years of being under-employed or un-employed, almost losing my home, I found a great job. It took me a while to deal with all the negative stuff from the previous 2 years, but today I'm a stronger person for having lived through it. There is a saying - "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger." You are a strong young woman - you can handle anything that life throws at you.
Keep your mind focused on your school work - don't let what's happening with the adults side track that - and boys will come and boys will go - but you will always have to live with yourself. Make sure you like yourself, and others will flock to you.
God speed!
2007-05-01 02:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by CDM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are going through such a hard time right now. Since I don't know the details of your parents divorce., and I don't know if you are close to both parents, it is difficult to give you specific advice. However, if you are close to both your parents, lean on them for support. Emotional support. And they will appreciate you leaning on them, because due to the divorce, they are both probably feeling very inadequate. So to know that you need them will make things better. You can't take on all this stress alone. You need an outlet- such as writing in a journal, drawing, or a sport or exercise. Things are going to get better. Try to keep your chin up and stay positive. You are young and resilient and have your whole life ahead of you. Stay focused on your studies, so that your grades stay up. I don't know if you have a faith or believe in God. If you do, lean on him and members in your church that you are close to. They can give you so much encouragement.
2007-05-01 02:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by hollyanna25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to go at the very bottom of your life before you can start rising again. I know for now it doesn't help but time will give you the answer.
I used to be where you are (lost girlfriend, mother died from cancer and so on) but this gave me a lot of strenght, you know, kind of "I won't give up to life". Although this "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" may sometimes sound stupid, it's not always wrong. Keep faith,you will go through it!!!
2007-05-01 02:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in very stressful situation do to parents splitting and not having a stable life.... maybe you can talk to your mom and maybe you can stay somewhere until things settle down so you can focus on school. may another family members house or a friends house... try not to focus on your parents problem... even though its also your life its still their problem... keep your focus in school as much as possible. i know its not the easiest thing to do but that's all you can do... oh and remember its going to settle down very soon... its not always going to be stressful
2007-05-01 02:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by lu2o4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and tell them that you are stressed/depressed. Maybe you can get some help. Im sure things will start looking up again soon. You will find a new guy in no time.
2007-05-01 02:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could really benefit from some counseling. If you can't afford therapy, try talking with your school counselors or, if you attend church, your pastor/priest. That's what they're there for and they are trained to help you.
Remember, when things look bad they can only get better. This too shall pass.
2007-05-01 02:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by retropink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Journal to releave some of the stress. Get involved helping your mom pack. Doing an activity helps with stress. Talk with your mom.
2007-05-01 02:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things can only get better from here. Your about to start a new and hopefully better chapter in your life. Good luck dear!
2007-05-01 02:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Miki S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋