2007-05-01 03:35:06 · 18 answers · asked by shyguytwin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, girls are not hardwired to be attracted to guys with a lack of confidence. Ask yourself: why is she gonna reject me? If you have a good answer, find another girl. One you are not afraid of.
2007-05-01 03:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is to go into the bathroom and lift up your member. Check underneath. Are there some balls there? Yes? Did you want to ever use them?
Rather then finding a neato way to get girls attention when you're shy, why not try not being shy. Guess what, you can do it.
2007-05-01 03:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start by becoming aquainted with her by saying Hi and smiling, asking her how she is. try complimenting her or saying something like "hey, did you change your hair?" find out what she likes and if you have anything in common try bringing it up in conversation. she will only notice you if you take notice of her and initiate contact.
i know this is all easier said than done...i am a shy girl. i kind of "practice" by talking to guys i'm not really attracted to...it's made it easier to talk to the guys i am attracted to. but if there is a guy that makes me really nervous, i will just try to smile at him, be near him, be within his view so that maybe he will initiate conversation.
2007-05-01 03:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by KellyKapowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note!
Girls like notes.
We get nervous and shy too so just state that in the letter.
2007-05-01 03:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by ohhxkatie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just imagine you're talking to a regular friend. be natural, free and spontaneous. practice at home and list topics you can talk about easily and comfortably. don't push it or try too hard. be yourself ...just treat her like a regular brother or friend so the conversation will go smoothly. even if it was a bit awkward, if she likes you, she'll continue it . good luck!
2007-05-01 03:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur obviously not TOO shy u just told ALL of america and who ever else wants to read this ur penis size in ur last question......(which by the way is NOT immpressive) and i told u in my answer that u had nothing to worry about to make u feel better! hahahaa
2007-05-01 05:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at some point, you're just going to have to get over the shyness. There's nothing worse on a date than complete silence...
2007-05-01 03:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by misterinsignificance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact works a treat.
2007-05-01 22:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by jamie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her first have one of your friends that knows her introduce you to her, then try to talk to her or just tag along with your friend and tell him to start off the conversation so you can just jump in when you know exactly what to say.
2007-05-01 03:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i wish you good luck for that. but try to be yourself that is, know what you want,how do you want it to be! and trust you instincts, find your best choice and ask her if you can take her out one night. feel the responds and how she responds. try chating with her when you meet her and observe her responses.
2007-05-01 03:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by MAN-P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋