We've only been together for less than a month but yet i've fallen so deeply for him. Last night i was with him and things got so heated up between the two of us but i wasn't ready to give in to it just yet. He asked me what was wrong and i explained that i do no want to get hurt by involving my emotions and he understood, but 'til when.The chemistry between us is so strong and whenever we get close to each other we can't resist each other, it's the best feeling in the world. I like him so much but i doubt that once we do it he'll still feel the same way about me. PLEASE HELP!
2007-05-01 02:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by MsKuewt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you have already assessed, once you "Do It" his feeling will change; depending on the fella he will totally ignore your after that as he has met his "goal", be moody up and down emotional because he is not sure how he feels, or develops an obsession and feels he cannot live without you, in most cases. You, hopefully, know your guy and how he will react..if not, then you are not ready.
2007-05-01 02:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl... trust me one month is not long enough to fall for someone, well unless you two were friends before, but you most likely do love him which is not as intense as in love.
the whole heated up every time you two are together is not chemistry... it is called attraction... lust
you sound like you are in your mid early teens. wait and hold off as long as possible. your virginity is very valuable... treat it as that. I made the mistake and lost mine when i was 17
now i am 22 w/ 2 kids.. about to be married to the father of my second. being a single mom is not easy nor fun. and don't say that you will use protection cause it doesn't always work, i have 2 proofs of that.
wait till you are completely and utterly ready with no doubt in your mind (and not just to keep him)... if you want to keep from doing it, don't be alone together.
2007-05-01 02:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by lu2o4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, the things between you two will change, no matter if you have sex or not.
Such strong chemistry cannot last for a long time. It is simply unnatural. So, please, do not think, that the wonderful feeling will be decreased by sex. No way!
I do not know how old you are. I can imagine that your physicus is not ready yet, if you are 15 or 16 years old.
If you are more then 18...then I do not know what to say.
If you are a virgin, then talk to him and he will help you to overpass your crisis, but if you're just calculating and trying to prolong that chemistry...you're doing wrong. Believe me, such a strong feeling you can have just once in your life. Pls, go for it and enjoy it till its maximum.
2007-05-01 02:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see, ms. cutesmile. you're right about one thing. once you give it to him, the chemistry between you two may vanish just like that. you need to know what kind of guy he is. is he the f*cking around type? if he is, then you should know better than to get involved with him and expect something good outta it.
if he isnt, then you just gotta risk doing it and find out for yourself if the chemistry's for real or just plastic. but you gotta prep yourself for the hurt if things don't work out after you slept with each other.
bottomline, when you lie naked on the bed waiting for him to enter your threshold, make sure you know you're not going to regret this. if you're still resisting the idea of sleeping together too soon, how about just some intense foreplay?
good luck, really.
2007-05-01 02:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by NCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your "young" so, I'd say hold off for at least a couple of months. If he is interested in you only for sex, you'll know that in a month or two. And if he doesn't get it he'll leave, and you will be more the wiser. If he hangs around, there may be more to him that words and wild hormones. Then you will be in a better position to make an intelligent choice.
2007-05-01 02:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have ur virginity, KEEP IT!!! It sounds like you are in lust instead of in love. You need to really get to know ur bf before you even consider taking that big step. Do some activities outside of an enclosed house- out in public. He might just be one of those guys that get what they want from you for a little while and act like he loves you, but when some other opportunity comes his way, he will say "Itz been fun, but we're done"
2007-05-01 02:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bargain-Sheek Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is a really short time. Wait some more time before going to that step of your relationship. You first need to get to know each other
2007-05-01 02:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by darthdawson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One month?
You don't even really know each other yet.
You may have "chemistry" and if that is what you want to build your relationship on, that is up to you.
If you want more, and don't feel ready, then you are not ready and that is what matters.
2007-05-01 02:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, if you're not ready you'll regret it and if he can't understand you need to wait until you're ready then he's not worth it and wouldn't of felt the same about you afterwards.
2007-05-01 02:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by i_ate_sponge_bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is nothing!!! Not to get to know someone. The feeling your are experiencing when you get close to each other is called HORMONES. Think with your head not your pelvis'.
Goodluck...
2007-05-01 02:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋