Is it wrong for me to ask her out to get to know her more? Should I even bother since she works there and I might just end up making it uncomfortable for her?
2007-05-01 02:41:22 · 14 answers · asked by jermz408 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not trying to steal her away from her current bf I would like to get to know her better if it goes somewhere else so be it that's great if not oh well atleast I met a great woman
2007-05-01 03:10:30 · update #1
well i think you should try it out only because if you like her you should get to know her more and if she gets to know you then i think she will end up likeing you lol take it from me you should always go after something you like only because if you dont then you would lose it and you would never get it back ever again believe me lol and you should talk to her and say i just want to go out as friends and you would be able to get to know her more even now lol will get back to me so i know what happen lol her e-mail me at alishabessette@yahoo.com
2007-05-01 02:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more 'NO' answers than 'YES' . So I hope you listen to the word of the wise and not otherwise .
It is not cool to steal her away from another and if she goes out with you , would you really regard her as worthy of your attention. You sound like a nice guy . Suppress that urge to move in on another man . Just be friendly when you meet, talk to her when you can and she is not busy . Bide your time and promote yourself as a friend. That's all. She'll get the drift . If she and bf break up she will cry on your shoulder .
So, do yourself a favor and be a gentleman .
2007-05-01 10:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a true gentleman, I do not believe it is in your best judgment to ask her out since she will feel awkward with you when you meet her the next time around. The best advice to give: you can always treat her as a good friend and in this way, you can never tell what may happen next especially if her relationship with her boyfriend falls apart. Just be there for her as a friend and everything will be fine.
2007-05-01 09:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by pisces67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't ask her out. I'm not against stealing her from another just, I'm just saying that she will probably say no since she has another boyfriend--that is, unless you know she REALLY likes you.
I have an email from a dating guru that you would be able to use perfectly just about your question!
I'm going to send it to you
Good Luck
2007-05-01 09:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by J&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What don't you get about "SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND"???
No I don't think you should ask her out based on the simple fact she is already in a relationship.
Go find someone who is not involved with someone else.
be cool...
2007-05-01 09:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my whats now fiance and i were in the same situation as you and her.... what he did which made me respect him all the more, was he became my friend and when i broke up with my ex and was ready to date he made his move, he let me know that he liked me all this time and new i wasn't ready to go out with someone else....
also if she brakes up with her bf to go out with you what makes you think she wont do the same to you
2007-05-01 09:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by lu2o4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, she has a boyfriend. Other than this, professional theropist will not go out with their "patient" don't ask me why though.
2007-05-01 09:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hOW MUCH OF A BOYFRIEND? cASUAL DATING OR BEEN TOGETHER FOR YEARS? Pretend like you dont know about him then do some probing. If she says no thank you, drop it and leave.
2007-05-01 09:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll only embarress yourself. Have some respect. Look but dont touch.
2007-05-01 09:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is spoken for. Why would you have absolutely no regard for that? It's way selfish. And trashy.
2007-05-01 09:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋