Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

I haven't talked to my ex since she broke up with me a month ago. She wanted to be friends, but I told her that I could not do that because I needed time to get over her. I think she expects me to have called her by now because while we were together I was a really caring person. I times I think how happy and stable I was with myself upset her because she is very unhappy with her life and its gotten so bad she has decided to see a therapist. I think that me being so happy around her all the time made her upset cause she felt bad most of the time I think. I also really resembled her father, who passed away 4 months ago. We had the same personality and traditional values. Anyway when she dumped me she said that I did nothing wrong and that we had good potential but everything sucked because of her. So I guess what do you think? Does this sound reasonable and would it be okay to wish her a happy thanksgiving or something

2006-11-03 04:06:42 · 38 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Singles & Dating

how long before the man thinks about going out for sex with someone else

2006-11-03 04:06:33 · 91 answers · asked by mmmm n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ias seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months?

2006-11-03 04:05:45 · 27 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 04:05:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I live together in the USA. He has a 5yr old daughter with his ex-wife, and they live in Aruba.
-She would call his phone once (sometime twice) per week, asking for money for all kinds of random expenses. My husband would send money because she told him she was not working. Unfortunately, just a few months ago we found out that she has been working for years, and earning a tidy sum…even tidier when you add all the money that my husband sent. When he did not have the money to send, she would refuse to let him speak to the child.
-And when he did speak with the child, she would take the phone and tell the child what to say.

2006-11-03 04:05:38 · 35 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man and a woman who have never met before find themselves in the same sleeping carriage of a train.
After the initial embarrassment they both go to sleep, the woman on the top bunk, the man on the lower.

In the middle of the night the woman leans over, wakes the man and says, "I''m sorry to bother you, but I''m awfully cold and I was wondering if you could possibly get me another blanket."

The man leans out and, with a glint in his eye, says, "I''ve got a better idea... just for tonight, let''s pretend we''re married."

The woman thinks for a moment. "Why not," she giggles.

"Great," he replies, "Get your own damn blanket!"

2006-11-03 04:05:15 · 33 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Friends

iam was in a relationship for 12 years been split for 8 months or so and met a guy been seeing him for 3 months now i ahve met another guy who is great and i was sure the other was what i wanted why does this have to be so confusing the new guy knows about the other and we have not done anything sexual i just love how he makes me laugh and smile the other guy does too i just am so confused because id ont want to hurt anyne but i hurt inside not knowing what i should do please help me i need you answers

2006-11-03 04:04:53 · 14 answers · asked by vomissie 2 in Singles & Dating

The reasons to why i 'thought' he liked me. @school. 1~ When i was looking at the back of a DVD someone brought in, He asked me from afar what DVD it was...out of the blue. 2~ I was watching movie with my friends (guy friend too) on the tv, after a while he plonked his chair right in middle of where me and my guy friend sat. jealously maybe? or what? 3~ I wanted to test him, so while we wer watching the movie, i suddenly made a movement to get my jacket across the room, he turned his head to see where i was going. 4~My friends have told me that he was looking at me on several occasions. 5~He took a lollipop out of my hands when i was offering people a lollipop saying he wanted it. 6th: I caught him lookin at me alot.
The thing is..whenever we have the chance to talk he acts as though he doesnt like me. If he likes me he doesnt show it, ive liked him for ages now, the sitaution now between both of us is awkward, we are passed the stage where we can talk normally.
Any thoughts people?

2006-11-03 04:04:37 · 38 answers · asked by piscean_wave69 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 04:03:32 · 24 answers · asked by mom 3 1 in Family

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for the past three years and we just found out that he has no sperm. The only thing they can do is a testicular biobsy to find out the cause and maybe retreive some sperm. Our only other option is a sperm donor. Has anyone ever been through this?

2006-11-03 04:03:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex. broke up and she asks me if its possible to love 2 peeps(i dont think it is) then she tell me that she loves her ex. in a diff. way. than she loves me. I get this feeling that she was never over her ex. Ladies what do u think this mean that she was never over that guy. She still wants me to tell her that i love her but after i heard that i just want to cut off all contact, Ladies what do u think?

2006-11-03 04:00:23 · 2 answers · asked by dunebugger 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 03:58:34 · 1 answers · asked by Helen H. Heels 1 in Singles & Dating

I am always burning supper due to the fact that I think I am SuperWoman. I have to multi-task all the time. So I'm cooking, doing laundry, checking homework, listening to my teenagers ramble on and on and on about their day, checking e-mails, yelling at kids to get chores and homework done, watching commercials, talking on the phone, and thinking about work all in the same half hour. You know, pretty typical mom stuff. I'm single, so I don't have to deal with the extra baggae of trying to make my man happy at the same time I'm trying to get other stuff done, lucky me.

my question is....which child should I flush down the toilet first? The one who is always whining because he'll die of broccoli poisoning, or the one who makes it her goal in life to point out EVERY time I burn the dang rice?

2006-11-03 03:57:44 · 2 answers · asked by Just Gone 5 in Family

Hi,
I had get the shocking news that one of my cousin is pregnant and her boyfriend is beating her up and i realized that she's 17 and i'm 15 i was so suprised witha such a thing and my cousin want to run away from her BF and her BF finds her and want to kill her but how i suppose to help my cousin to run away cuz i care about her!!!!!!!! I just don't want her to run for her death i just want her to live and we tried to call the police and her BF lied how should we help her to have him revolve the truth!!!!!! Help if you have a suggests

2006-11-03 03:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK SO WHERE DO I START WELL MY GIRLFRIEND OF 2 YRS TOLD ME YESTERDAY THAT SHE MAY NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE SHE SAYS SHE IS CONFUSED AND DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO DO, SHE CHEATED ON ME 2 WKS AGO WITH SOME RANDOM GUY BUT THEN BEGGED ME FOR FORGIVENESS WE HAVE A DAUGHTER TOGETHER AND I LOVE THEM BOTH MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD SHE NEVER HAS CHEATED ON ME BEFORE SO I GAVE HER A CHANCE OUR RELATIONSHIP YOU'ST TO BE PERFECT UNTIL I CHEATED ON HER WHEN SHE GOT PREGNANT WE BROKE UP FOR 4 MONTHS AND THEN GOT BACK TOGETHER AFTER I FINALLY REALIZED THAT I REALLY LOVED HER AND THAT SHE IS THE ONLY GIRL I HAVE EVER LOVED SHE DATED SOME GUY DURING THAT TIME AND THEN LEFT HIM FOR ME AGAIN AFTER 2 MONTHS OF BEGGING HER BACK THE FIRST COUPLE OF MONTHS AFTER WE GOT BACK TOGETHER WERE GREAT AND THEN SHE FOUND OUT SHE WAS PREGNANT AGAIN SHE SAYS ITS ALL MY FAULT AND THEN SHE CHEATED ON ME I KNOW GIRLS GO CRAZY WHEN THEY ARE PREGNANT AND SHE DIDNT WANT TO GET PREGNANT AGAIN BECAUSE SHE IS SCARED ILL CHEAT ON HER

2006-11-03 03:53:29 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is a mature girl.Almost 13 is she old enoght to go on a date?

2006-11-03 03:52:36 · 86 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

damn gun, how to explain to the fiance?

2006-11-03 03:52:36 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with someone, and am in the middle of healing and get used to not hearing from him. I went out and partied but it only makes me feel mroe empty and everything looks so silly. Would I be able to go back to normal state of mind? I seem to think about my ex so much, although we are not going back together. What is the best thing to do?

2006-11-03 03:51:31 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my b/f cheeted on me b4. but he told me bout it. this time i moved away and he did it again. should i bump him or let it go again?? i need u guyzes help

2006-11-03 03:51:20 · 49 answers · asked by Alisa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 03:50:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 03:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been talking- and he wants me to have an experience with a woman sometime.. Obviously as a turn on to him, but I really think I'd like it too. I've never even kissed a woman. We are planning a vacation soon somewhere far away from where we live and for sake of rumors and such, we I am thinking about finding someone to have the experience with while we're away from home. One- am I crazy for even considering this?! Two- how do I just go find some girl to do that with?! Three- are there really that many womeon out there who are willing like me? Please keep in mind- my husband will not be in the room. It'll just be me and the girl. Help!

2006-11-03 03:49:15 · 70 answers · asked by KC 2 in Singles & Dating

i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian and beautiful its not puppy love!

2006-11-03 03:49:04 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

Damn it. I learned one thing though, if you don't love somebody don't feel sorry for them.

2006-11-03 03:48:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to get my boyfriend a practical gift for christmas. i need to know ahead of time in case i have to special order it. when christmas rolls around we will have been together for almost 4 months. so nothing tooooo personal. something manly like from sears or lowes or something. no sexual gift ideas i'm quite capable of coming up with those myself. and i'm on a budget i have alot of people to buy for so nothing over $100 United states dollars. he like power tools and he is a builder so they will come in handy. no gift cards they are too impersonal.

2006-11-03 03:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

I want to look my best. My weight is 135 pounds and my height is 5 3. Need to lose 10 pounds quickly. Also any suggestions would be great.

2006-11-03 03:47:09 · 22 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i just got back together yesterday. He was talking about coming downtown to pick up a cd from the music store. I was like well if you do that then we should have lunch. He was like oh ok. Well I didn't talk to him last night to firm up plans because he was asleep. I called him this morning and he said he would call me back because he was talking to his friend and his dad. He still hasn't called but I don't wanna call again because the whole reason we broke up the first time was I got too anxious. So what do I do? Do I call him to see if hes coming for lunch or just forget it and let him call me when he has time?

2006-11-03 03:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

We would be in the middle of a hot make out session and then suddenly he rushes to the washroom. Happens at least a couple times, why? Does a guys erection make him have to go often? Or is he about to ejaculate? BTW, I'm a virgin.

2006-11-03 03:45:55 · 25 answers · asked by califonialove 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 children from a previous relationship. We both currently reside in the same state , he gets the children every other weekend as of now. I will be getting re-married and he resideds out of state due to med school. My question is, after filing a notice of relocation with the courts ( have to due to the divorce.child support), will i have much trouble getting the kids out of the state after we are married?

2006-11-03 03:45:50 · 27 answers · asked by svnyrbtch26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 03:44:54 · 59 answers · asked by bewildered 2 in Other - Family & Relationships