Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

i was with a guy for 8 months and we talked about gettin married and i lived with him he then changed his mind and continued to mess with me after the breakup. i asked him if we could date ever again and to ans. with a yes or no. he didnt. now he is with a girl and i hear she is the one....like i was the one...how in the heck do i move on and start living for me?

2006-11-03 00:13:22 · 19 answers · asked by cert_pharm_tech21 1 in Singles & Dating

and the weather was crappy all the way to and from................Whats the weather like in your area ?

2006-11-03 00:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm well over 340. She says I should lose weight. But she is a stick and anorexic. I like her that way and encourage her to stay thin because she turns me on at 85 lbs and I don't want her to gain any weight. She got down to that weight for me from 91lbs.

I support her to stay home so she don't have to work and stress eat like I do.
Is she being to hard on me?

2006-11-03 00:11:20 · 11 answers · asked by bigfatfrank1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 00:10:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he starts whining that i'm bothering him.He treats me bad, my ex.(biological father)is an *** he's only available sundays,not even a phone call on week days.My son tells me he's depressed and sad sometimes.He even tells me that he thinks God is not real,(sniff).
My ex.won't call because he thinks i'll pick up the phone, I told his mom to tell him , i was not picking up the phone,so he can call everyday his 2 boys.But he never does,only sunday morning to pick them up.Besides counseling,what can i do with my son,sort of like a therapy, or hobby,to cheer him up ?He's only happy,when we go shopping for him (not fair).My son was angry at me,even when my ex was living here, my ex would get mad at my son for a reason and my son would take it on me.I want to talk to my husband about our son,but he won't listen to me or tell my son directly exactly what i say.Knowing my son,he'll be embarrassed
and deny everything to his dad.So what should i do ? HELP ! I want to save my son.

2006-11-03 00:10:01 · 9 answers · asked by rssy r 1 in Family

Please help me solve my family's Xmas nightmare. I'm the youngest of 3 girls, and we're all married, and my eldest two sisters both have kids and they all live near my parents. We usually all go to sister 2 house for Xmas. Problem: sister 1 no longer wants to spend Xmas day at sister 2 house, as sister 2 husband is an unreasonable pig. Parents always go to sister 2 house as their house is too small. Sister 1 has suggested that as the sisters don't get on, maybe the parents should alternate venues and spend one Xmas with sister 1, then the following year with sister 2, etc. Parents would still see grandchildren at some point on Xmas day as all live locally, but would just not stop for Xmas lunch. Sister 2 has gone balistic. She claims sister 1 has "stolen" her kids' grandparents from her. Everyone fallen out. No one speaking. Parents now having Xmas on own rather than have to choose. I'm trying to keep out of it. Solutions anyone????

2006-11-03 00:09:37 · 29 answers · asked by youngest sister 1 in Family

2006-11-03 00:09:12 · 18 answers · asked by *BURNY* 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is jealous because I asked this boy out the other day and she's been acting funny lately what should I do?

2006-11-03 00:08:53 · 20 answers · asked by Breeona L 1 in Friends

Please help me solve my family's Xmas nightmare. I'm the youngest of 3 girls, and we're all married, and my eldest two sisters both have kids and they all live near my parents. We usually all go to sister 2 house for Xmas. Problem: sister 1 no longer wants to spend Xmas day at sister 2 house, as sister 2 husband is an unreasonable pig. Parents always go to sister 2 house as their house is too small. Sister 1 has suggested that as the sisters don't get on, maybe the parents should alternate venues and spend one Xmas with sister 1, then the following year with sister 2, etc. Parents would still see grandchildren at some point on Xmas day as all live locally, but would just not stop for Xmas lunch. Sister 2 has gone balistic. She claims sister 1 has "stolen" her kids' grandparents from her. Everyone fallen out. No one speaking. Parents now having Xmas on own rather than have to choose. I'm trying to keep out of it. Solutions anyone????

2006-11-03 00:08:32 · 11 answers · asked by youngest sister 1 in Family

Too Difficult to explain - and I made a promise - a long time ago ! Anyone else have a good story or single and looking ?

2006-11-03 00:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by Kamey 1 in Singles & Dating

Anybody there gal to dance with me tonight in chennai disc?
I luv to dance, need a pair in disc to dance with tonight...Interestd mail me we will fix it up...

2006-11-03 00:08:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy said he was your crushes friend and he said your crush said bad things about you even though your crush loves to talk to you? do you think the crushes friend likes you?

2006-11-03 00:07:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married /Experienced Women only!! Does size matter?
This has come up several times, but its usually answered by teens. As a married woman with experience with multiple size partners. Doeas size really matter? Have you had big and small or eaither?

2006-11-03 00:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by Y.K.W.I.A. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 00:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Singles & Dating

or what will you do if you know your boyfriend keeping his ex photos?

2006-11-03 00:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by hayahitobo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 00:03:51 · 8 answers · asked by joangelina 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been married for over 30 years and I've always thought that they had a good relationship. Suddenly, last week my dad told my mum that he has been having an affair with a family friend for the past 5 years.

He does not want a divorce and said that he would never leave my mum but had told her out of guilt. He said that he cannot leave the other woman and expects my mum to accept it and everyone to live happily ever after.

My mum is heartbroken, she cries every day for the past week and I cry with her. I'm so upset that my dad could do this to our family and I have lost all respect for him. Everytime I think about him and that woman and what they've done to my mum my heart aches. I know my pain is nothing compared to my mum. I don't know how to deal with this. How can I help my mum, I don't know what advise to give her.

2006-11-03 00:03:36 · 26 answers · asked by sadgal888 2 in Family

My husband used my credit card to have a free trial of the internet and then the free trial turned to a full on membership and wasted 40.00 on porno! I had to make a stop payment on a check because of this. He knows how I feel about this and it hurt my feelings a lot, he has other problems too and always turns them around on me and makes me feel guilty when it's him how should feel guilty. I don't care if he is a grown damn man , well if he is so grown up why didn't he think about maturity and the check I sent out? I want only serious information only. What should I do? This happened last night and he won't talk to me, it should be the other way around!

2006-11-03 00:02:20 · 24 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have brought up the issue about us not being a couple yet, and he says he is not ready for a serious relationship. I truely love him and would love for things to work out. We get along well and go on dates every week, he brings me around his family too.

2006-11-03 00:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend cheated on my about 3 weeks ago, and it absolutely broke my heart. I was so in love w/ him, and he said he was in love w/ me to, and still is. He has been saying sorry to me and telling me how stupid he was and how he still loves me and wants me back everyday since then. He has promised not to talk to the girl and that he would never do it again because it made him feel so horrible to hurt me like that. I really want us to be together, but then I'll have other thoughts or see the girl he cheated on me with in the hallway and i quickly change my mind. Also, my parents told me that they do NOT want me around, talking, or with him. I am so confused, I don't know what to do! Please Help!!!

2006-11-03 00:01:03 · 4 answers · asked by crzyhottie 3 in Singles & Dating