Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

I hate when my husband kisses me, even if it's just a quick hello or goodbye kiss. Even when we first started dating many years ago, I didn't ever really enjoy a good snog with him. We do make love but not very often and if we never made love again I don't think we'd ever really care. Are we missing out on true love? Are people who are happily married romantically in love with one another?

2006-11-04 23:59:23 · 14 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 23:56:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help, I'm stuck, and it's two lots of birthdays too!!!

2006-11-04 23:55:47 · 21 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family

i found out, while my bf and i were fighting that he IMed some random girl on yahoo, and jerked off to her doing only God knows what on her web cam. he claims its not a big deal b/c we were fighting and i wasnt there. although we spoke on the phone everyday. i feel like he cheated on me. i mean he might as well have brought this slut home and f*ed her. i am so confused. i am so torn/ b/c i dont know if i can forgive, and i dont know if i really am just over reacting. i found porn on his computer b4 and told how that hurt my feelings. i can understand (not like but understand) his watchin porn, but he told this slut she was beautiful, how hard she was making him, and how sexy she was and so on. is it just me or is this cheating? i wonder how he would feel if some stranger was jerking off to me naked on a web cam. that would make a whore, so how come it doesnt make him one? how come b/c i wasnt there to "satisfy" him, its ok? PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINION! thanks.

2006-11-04 23:54:56 · 17 answers · asked by so confused 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you have an ex by one day whom you care for very much and love a lot still, but you just found out when he is angry he beats people up, and ended up in jail last night for ( taking aguy`s head off), he is a boucer, always swears, smokes weed, and you so desperately want to improve his life style by teaching him things but bang your head on a wall, now you I am pregnant he does not want to know and does not care as he said call it a day and will not even remain friends, and I am constantly apologising for hurting him before by lying of my 3 year old`s dad living in london and keeping contact, because I was afraid he would not understand and when I say this he f`s and b`s I am 25 he 41

2006-11-04 23:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by FLAVIA D 2 in Singles & Dating

I have split up with my other half after 4 amazing years together because of his MOTHER! she cannot seem to let him go and has laid the whole 'emotional blackmail' thing on him and he feels an obligation to take care of her (she is a widow) so I'm in a no win situation here. I cannot understand how she expects him to live like this tied to her freakn' apron!! Have any of you been in a similar situation. What did you do about it?

2006-11-04 23:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by chocaholic246 1 in Singles & Dating

a good boy??? or a bad boy???? or a little bit of both... and why

2006-11-04 23:52:20 · 15 answers · asked by naturalherb_101 1 in Singles & Dating

what i mean by that is that i mean that you can look into somebodys eyes for the first time and know their your destiny

2006-11-04 23:50:38 · 4 answers · asked by passionateloverman2 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the only gurl in an class at my school.. and the rest of em are all boyz :S and they kinda juvenile so no point talkin to em
The Q is.. how could i handle it best like when they all loudly and stuff..

2006-11-04 23:50:33 · 3 answers · asked by selenabrixton 1 in Friends

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/11/03/national/main2152597.shtml

2006-11-04 23:49:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A good place for women to have casual, special relationships with other local women around south king county in Washington State?

2006-11-04 23:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you were allowed only one word to get your mate back what would it be?

2006-11-04 23:48:51 · 11 answers · asked by R C 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 23:47:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want the divorce. He is going to fight me. I
d rather die than torture myself living with him.

If all else fail, have thoughts of ending your life ever come to you? If it does, how did you manage those thoughts so that you wont do it?

Serious answers pls. I need help.

2006-11-04 23:44:53 · 25 answers · asked by HeartBroken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What can we do to seek justice and support, child services only makes him pay $13 per week, but doesn't, harrassment phone calls and messages. I went over there to talk it out and was assulted, am in process of putting an assult charge on him, my partner and i just want to get on with our life, but i know he has to be invoved in his childs life, but he is going the wrong way about it, i don't want him too suffer but i do in a way, to prove to him to back off and get involved the right way or suffer the correct punishment for the crime. what else can my partner and i do to get it through to him?? we are both very stressed and it is damaging our relationship gradually

2006-11-04 23:44:45 · 18 answers · asked by j.errington 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm very lonelyand I think it's time to move on with my life. What do you think I should do.

2006-11-04 23:42:30 · 29 answers · asked by wildman365 1 in Marriage & Divorce

once i conveyed to her somehow that i am her brother... after that she is not talking to me.. not a single word!!!!... did she love me?????????????

2006-11-04 23:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does she really mean it? or does she think i will get her a xmas present. she did say that all she wants is me in her arms.

2006-11-04 23:39:18 · 37 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has stopped eating because she thinks she is fat, but she really isn't! She hasnt eaten anything over the past week, and its really begging to worry me!

She said that she feels faint and tired all the time, and i was just speaking to her and i was telling her what she was doing to her body was wrong and she shouted at me and told me that she hates me and that she hates the fact that I always bug her all the time over the fact that she isnt eating.

She also that i dont need to worry because she will eat again, after she has gone to meet her "love of her life" i.e- see some man preform in a gig
I really worried and i dont want her to get seriously hurt.
What can i say to make her feel better about the way she is. I've tried most things already, but they haven'y worked.
Also she cuts herself and has terrible scars on her arm.....

PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-11-04 23:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by Wonder Why? 2 in Friends

I dated few of those & nothing but trouble & bars/nightclubs are full of them,but i learned my lesson the hard way, lucky unharmed(pregnant,beaten or non like that). Now i date a nice gentle guy, whom i met grocery shopping.
To girls who like bad boys, i would say, " u deserve what u asked for" & hope u learned ur lesson as i did.

2006-11-04 23:37:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 23:36:26 · 15 answers · asked by Huguenot 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my gf is at my house the other day/ she said her stomach had been bothering her. so later she runs to the bathroom and stays in there for like half an hour. she must've had diarrhea because she stunk up the entire apartment..i had to open up all the windows. i was so grossed out i told her to leave. she started crying, and then i dumped her. that is just no way to act like a lady. i did the right thing, didn't i?

2006-11-04 23:35:30 · 27 answers · asked by Mr. Nice 2 in Singles & Dating

I beleive it is really good to stay in limit with all the relationships even friends[the opp. sex].and i think it is very bad to flirt and love and cheat .How many of you feel the same way how i do?
Thanks for all the guys who answered me and have choosen me the best.

2006-11-04 23:32:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 23:32:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i get extremely jealous over my husband's x.I start comparing myself with her + i hear many nice things bout her.I felt i could never be better than her.I know thats the past,they've broke up and he told me shes already a dead body to him.I tried to not think about it,its very foolish and hurting myself for no reason.I cried earlier after my husband told me some things bout her n he is sick of my attitude and told me to forget him.That it would be best for me.I love him more than my life.everytime i hear him talking bout her i wish it didnt happened between them n with me instead.I feel very sorry for making so much trouble for him.How should i start accepting she was a nice person n no point thinking so much nonsense.I would do anything to change myself.

2006-11-04 23:30:31 · 12 answers · asked by ver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question a couple days before, this is sort of a follow up. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvZ0zMROyRq2woK_Eyqxldvsy6IX?qid=20061029054842AAbtY1N.
Let's call the first guy Jerry and the second Raul. Well Raul asked me out to see a movie, we had tons of fun... even ended up kssing a bit. After the movie, we were holding hands walking when we ran into Jerry... who was very pissed. I felt so guilty... although we never went out... I communicated to him that I had feelings for him. I feel like horrible.... but I still do honestly really like Raul...and I could see myself being with him, especially since I have no little voices telling me to stay away. -sigh-... is there something wrong with me? am I a bad person?...should I just leave them both alone? how do I not ruin my friendship with Jerry... and what to do about Raul?

2006-11-04 23:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 23:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a BBW, newly divorced, 44, 2 very young children and I would like to meet some men, late 30's- mid 40's to go out with...be it coffee,dinner,movie,bar....whatever. I need to get out once in a while. I am very down to earth,love to laugh,take care of myself and have a job that I love.

2006-11-04 23:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by DvorC44 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 23:29:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im goin on a date with my boyfriend 2night and i havnt seen him in a month because iv been on holiday and 1 day after i came back he went on holiday.so i want to look georgous .. what should i wear . what kind of outfit is sxc?

2006-11-04 23:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating