Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

i'm a young black woman and my preference in men are blacks and hispanics, and i don't see anything wrong with any other race, why do people get so uptight when people date other then their own nationality? Be honest

2006-11-04 18:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by musikluver83 2 in Singles & Dating

My mum does more things for my brother and sister, and even my boyfriend.

She treats me more like im an outsider than her daughter, she always cancels things that we plan, but never with anyone else. I have told her that she treats me different but she doesnt listen.

No-one will tell her that im right, and it makes me feel worse cos i feel like everyone is on her side and not mine.

This has always been going on. I feel more empty and lonely and I dont know what to do anymore..

I feel like standing infront of a train but i know suicide doesnt solve anything.

I feel alone, and scared, I feel lost and I dont know why im even bothering with this..

Sorry im just bit c h ing now..

I feel unimportant even with my bf and I know he treats me like a princess

2006-11-04 18:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Family

I havebeen with a man for 4 yrs and the sex is great ! but he has issues in how to treat me and my kids out of the bed. We never go any where do anything and I can't even laugh and have fun with him.I think I should dump him and be with someone that I can laugh with even if the sex inst that great. What is your openion

2006-11-04 18:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by southernchick340 1 in Singles & Dating

He's only 19 and the doctors say he'll die within the next 10 years

2006-11-04 18:28:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been seeing a guy for a few months now and I have developed very intense feelings for him.When we are together on the phone or the computer with cam (which is a lot) things are just wonderful the problem is He was in a longterm relationsip b4 that went very bad Bad enough that he had to be medicated for depression and he told me when we began this that He did not ever want to feel that kind of pain again there are other underlying issues that he has as well He had a very rough childhood with a alcoholic mother who married many many times and apparently the step dads were not so nice to the kids. My problem everytime things start to go into the right direction he runs away I can tell he cares alot for me from the way he acts treats and looks at me! But he wont verbaly tell me.He let my freind know recently that he is afraid not the first time Hes said this so what do I do I love this man hes the most wonderful person ive ever known and I know it can be good if he allows it to be.

2006-11-04 18:27:19 · 1 answers · asked by witchy 2 in Singles & Dating

This isn't actually me writing this, but my trusted friend. I was wondering if my sight will come back, after i lost it after seeing my parents having hot, passionate sex.

2006-11-04 18:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a yes or no answer plz and why???

2006-11-04 18:26:25 · 16 answers · asked by sweetbecz143 1 in Friends

Would you dress up like this guy, wear the clothes on a daily basis if this kind of clothes are in again?

http://www.bijoucollectables.com/musicphotos/jones.JPG

2006-11-04 18:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by Tiny 2 in Singles & Dating

i haven't seen him in a year and i REALLY started to like him and him as well...he would tell his cousin that he liked me but then after 6 months i find out he's getting married...i was heartbroken...and i tried to forget about him and now i saw him 2 months ago and i don't know what i felt for him. ....should i try to talk to him to see what i feel for him?

2006-11-04 18:24:43 · 5 answers · asked by jackie babe 1 in Singles & Dating

holidays are just around the corner,and already the mall have the christmas trees up , along with the garland , and wrapped boxes.
what happened to thanksgiving???

2006-11-04 18:22:16 · 15 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

2006-11-04 18:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by babydoll803 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:21:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he said he loved me. we were going great. we were going to be togther. but it fell through. 2 years later... he ecompasses my every thought, even though he's living 3 hours away and in love with a new girl. ive got to get him back. well, i never actually had him. ive just got to though. we're soulmates. i think of him when i pass houses for sale, when i hear songs, he haunts my dreams.. i want him, i need him, i love him... how can i make it work

2006-11-04 18:21:27 · 12 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my friend told me my girlfriend wants to break up with me but that she would do it in a month or so. I haven't confronted my girlfriend about it but i do feel like my friend might be right. I was hanging out with her and we had a blast with no sign like she didn't like me anymore or found me annoying. So i feel all confuse now because i don't know what to do or believe! My friend lies alot but I trust him. My girlfriend is awesome and i don't want to lose her so the question is do I break up with her before she does it or stay with her and let her do it if its true? If I confront her what do I say? Please help!

2006-11-04 18:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you like to say to people that make you mad?

2006-11-04 18:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by ♥LostHeart♥ 4 in Family

my boyfriend left me after 3 years. he told me he wanted to be able to goto clubs and do whatever he wanted without having to worry about me finding out. i am still very much in love with him, i don't even know what i was doing wrong and i don't know how to be single again.

2006-11-04 18:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by hotboy_from_la 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this beautiful girl about a year back during my senior year of high school. We were just friends then, but towards the end of the year we both admitted we both like each other. And we started going out. But neither of our parents liked the other. Her parents didn’t like me because I was Indian and mine didn’t like her because she was Puerto Rican. But we went out anyway. Even when I was about 300 miles away, I only got to see her once a month. But we were still together. We were together for about 4 months and now we broke up. I really love her. And I miss her as each day goes by the feeling gets worse and worse. I really believe I’ll get her back one day. I am really hopeful. But then a tiny part of me says I won’t. And I don’t want to believe that. I want to remain hopeful because I really love her. What should I do? Should I stay and wait for her or should I move on? Would I get her back?

2006-11-04 18:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Avatar 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by priya5343 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"If I got locked up and sentenced to a quarter century,
how would you be there to support me mentally??" P.s. he really is locked up & in jail ;[

2006-11-04 18:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guess not. What about for £1 million?

2006-11-04 18:15:03 · 34 answers · asked by MCP 3 in Singles & Dating

did you ever think that you would become the person that you are ,or are you still hopeing to become that person that you want to be ???? I hope that you don't have any regrets??? well as for me I am happy with what I have accomplished so far life is getting better each day,,,,

2006-11-04 18:14:50 · 4 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Friends

It drives me nuts because she sends me so much forwared email that I'm getting repeated crap now. Its not even funny stuff, its like weird religious guilt trip stuff. I can't put her on my spam list because once in a while she sends me a real email. I delete her crap, but sometimes its a whole slew of garbage at a time.
The worst was when she sent me a really scary chain email and I politely asked her not to send those anymore, and she still does!
I know this situation isn't a huge deal, but it really annoys me for some reason. Does anyone have similar mother in law problems or a polite solution? Thanks!!!

2006-11-04 18:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like him and only we talk but he says that he likes me but he does not even talk to me

2006-11-04 18:11:57 · 8 answers · asked by BigRed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the low-down.I have been unemployed for about a year, and within this year i HAVE been looking for jobs extensively, but nothing came through. So I decided that I would go to school to get my GED. I'm promised a good paying job when im done. My "boyfriend" has been at the same job for 4 years, and steady. No kids. We live with his mother, (he was here when I moved in, and he lied about it), and we've never had OUR OWN place. Really he has never, I always did. Now here comes the problem. We want to move, well I do anyways. He feels that i should work AND go to school, so WE can save money to move, while hes just working. Mind u he spends alot of money on scratch-offs and lottery tickets instead of saving it for us to move. I feel he's not wanting to step up and be the "man of the relationship", and putting ALL the hard work in my lap, so he can sit behind it and enjoy the "free" ride. He feels like i should do 1&2 and he just does 1. What should happen? I really need help!

2006-11-04 18:11:43 · 5 answers · asked by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 in Singles & Dating

"If I got locked up and sentenced to a quarter century,
how would you be there to support me mentally??" P.s. he really is locked up & in jail ;[

2006-11-04 18:11:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:10:19 · 9 answers · asked by carle j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I neeed advice!!!
I really like this girl but I dont think she likes me.She knows im alive but she just doesnt like me.It was one of those "Love at First Sight" kind of things.If somebody wil please just give me some advice of what i could do or something. And dont be rude, I really mean it i need help.

2006-11-04 18:10:04 · 5 answers · asked by Brandon H 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help, im 16 year old guy, and want a girlfriend, im sort of shy to girls when it comes to flirting im not very good, what should I do to get a girlfriend, what kind of things do girls like when guys do. How can i be more outgoing toward them?

2006-11-04 18:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by trey 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my girl because she kept hanging out with her friends and she wouldnt pay any attention im not the handcuffing type its just that it go too far it i hadnt talked to her for 2weeks I kept calling her cell but she wouldnt pick up.

2006-11-04 18:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by Nephew 1 in Singles & Dating

When I kiss her on the first "date" (its not really a date, but hanging out) does she understand that thats all it is,--- a kiss?! nothing more? or does she start expecting that weve got something going? What if you had a bit to drink and you just felt like it? I dont know, i always end up going home with "her" on the first date... knowing well ahead that I just want to get to know her.. and take some time before doing anything. Can you date, and just kiss or touch? and worry about being a couple later? What do you think? thanks....

2006-11-04 18:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by Dustin m 1 in Singles & Dating