Ok so my friend told me my girlfriend wants to break up with me but that she would do it in a month or so. I haven't confronted my girlfriend about it but i do feel like my friend might be right. I was hanging out with her and we had a blast with no sign like she didn't like me anymore or found me annoying. So i feel all confuse now because i don't know what to do or believe! My friend lies alot but I trust him. My girlfriend is awesome and i don't want to lose her so the question is do I break up with her before she does it or stay with her and let her do it if its true? If I confront her what do I say? Please help!
2006-11-04 18:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would confront her right away, your friend might be lying, waiting a month doesnt sound right, i would give her the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-04 18:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by iMaTwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok there is a contradiction if I have ever heard one that you made. And it is this, you said, "My friend lies alot but I trust him." How can you trust a liar? It sounds like your friend is jealous of your relationship. Don't trust liar's they don't have your best interests at heart. Talk to your gf and tell her what your friend said. Get it out in the open. Then you would find out the truth. Don't' let your friend dictate what you should be doing. Don't confront, just talk.
2006-11-04 18:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what your friend said, like your buddy was being really lame or something, and then watch her reaction. After you mention it, then you can even ask her.
But if you think she is awesome and nothing is going wrong, then just enjoy the time you have. You probably don't have any thing to worry about. And even if she does break up with you in a month, you'll have another month of good times.
2006-11-04 18:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't confront her. I would ask her politely and unemotional the question of what you heard. Give her an opportunity to express her feelings and bite the bullet if the rumor is true. Your calm and collectives will impress her. Regardless, why would you want her if the depth of her caring is surface only. Just remain friends and cry a little. Have your mother's arms around you when you let it go!
2006-11-04 18:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your friend isn't being much of a friend. In this situation it's best if he minds his own business and let's life take it's course. If you break up and he wasn't telling the truth, then you ruin two people's happiness. If trust exists between your girlfriend and you then you probably have nothing to worry about. It never hurts to ask the one you love if they are happy and what you could do to add to that because they matter so much to you. Best Wishes.
2006-11-04 18:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
. for one your friend seems like they are just saying that to 1 eather just to get at you or 2 get your girl, talk to her and say hey my buddy has been saying some thing like... (telling her what he said) ..and se what she has to say.....tell her you love her and would do anything not to lose her!!! but this conversation will make you feel so much better to hear it from her lips then to go on hear say from other people after she tells her side of the situation then believe her onless there is proof she has done other wise but trust you insticts on this because after it is all said and done if the rumer keep happening then always trust you girl untill she proves her self guilty and dont waste you time with the small stuff life is short live each day like it was your last
2006-11-04 18:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your friend lies a lot, but YOU TRUST HIM??????
Take your friend out of the equation, & what have you got?
This is between you & your Gf. I have to wonder though, does anybody have the capacity to be honest here?
It's time for you to step up & be the hero, & bring some honesty into your relationship. Tell your GF what your dufous friend has been saying, & see what she say's.
Has your friend been lying to you, or has it been your Gf?
Out of the three of you someone has to pick up the torch & start being honest.
2006-11-04 18:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are great to have but ask yourself a question "Is my friend really looking out for me or is he having a problem with my relationship he might be alot jealous but just to be safe about the situation just asl your girlfriend COMMUICATION AND UNDERSTANDING RULES THE WORLD
2006-11-04 18:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend maybe jealous of you. So you have to know the truth. You should ask her if it's true that she really wants to break up with you because you heard it from your friend.
2006-11-04 18:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i`d wonder why she told your friend and not you, then i`d keep a close eye on that friend. In the meantime have your fun with her, then if she leaves dont sit around and mope, find another girl.
2006-11-04 18:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by fisherking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋