How do I make him know I wont hurt him or is it even possible?

Question

I have been seeing a guy for a few months now and I have developed very intense feelings for him.When we are together on the phone or the computer with cam (which is a lot) things are just wonderful the problem is He was in a longterm relationsip b4 that went very bad Bad enough that he had to be medicated for depression and he told me when we began this that He did not ever want to feel that kind of pain again there are other underlying issues that he has as well He had a very rough childhood with a alcoholic mother who married many many times and apparently the step dads were not so nice to the kids. My problem everytime things start to go into the right direction he runs away I can tell he cares alot for me from the way he acts treats and looks at me! But he wont verbaly tell me.He let my freind know recently that he is afraid not the first time Hes said this so what do I do I love this man hes the most wonderful person ive ever known and I know it can be good if he allows it to be.

Answer 1

I think that it is all about trust

He has to trust you frist