Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

...as being an adulterous affair or in a way which paints you in a negative light? If so, what did you do, or how did you react?

2006-11-04 19:02:14 · 3 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in high school and there is this girl that I have had my eye on for some time now. I have never spoken a word to her and vise versa. We are on the cross country team and I really like her, but I am too shy and nervous to even make a prolonged eye contact with her. I know that I have to do something before it's too late(meaning before she gets a bf) but what?

2006-11-04 19:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by running08 1 in Singles & Dating

i am usualy willing to listen to what people have to say but when they ask me what i think i always turn them away. its not cause i want to be rude, it just i normaly dont have an opinion or i have an opinion that will make them feel worse.

eaxmple; a lass i know cheated on her boy friend whal he was at basic trainning and she came to me and explaned the whole thing and i found out she had slept with 7 other men in 3 months. she asked me what i thought and she was really ashamed and i told her the truth that if it was me she had cheated on i would cut ther throat.

example; my friend comes to talk to me about his father ie and when he asks me to say some think i just told him that i could not. i had nothing to say.

as you can see its much nicer if i turn them away.

2006-11-04 19:00:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i am from phil and my american bf just visited me we had the engagement party.But after the party i found some negative things about him.I know i love him but now i dont know coz of my canadian online friend who is trying to influenced my felling to my bf.Well i like him also honestly but i dont know i guess somethingis wrong.Or just myself...

2006-11-04 18:57:03 · 10 answers · asked by msjoemc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We were thinking of having a 3sum - my girlfriends idea, with another girl. Both doing stuff, making it equal. Do you think I would lose respect for her and begin to cheat on her?

2006-11-04 18:54:39 · 15 answers · asked by hello! 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out my Ex was cheating on me like 2days after we broke up. But I loved her soooo much I kept it a secret and I was kind of confused but where still close friends (not romantically).But the more I talked to her the more she kept acting funnier and funnier. So I said *** IT I’m just wasting my time talking to her. Im a let her know how dirty she is for throwing a hotel party and not telling me about it(when we was going out like 3weeks before we broke up)and leave her alone. now I feel kind of sad and glad for doing it…was this right way thing to do ?

2006-11-04 18:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:53:50 · 2 answers · asked by Richard o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am extremely in need of sex but I am in a position where I cant get any and I am not willing to buy a PRO. I can walk down the road and I will get filled with rage because I see couples all over the place and I just get pissed. so how can I temporally kill my sex drive for about 6 months? Really seeing couples really pisses me off.

2006-11-04 18:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step daughter is a good girl most of the time but this weekend she has said something that is now making my blood boil. I understand it is not her fault but the situation is bad & as a result i am starting to resent her.

I treat her like i would treat my own daughter, very well. i put a lot of effort into her bonding & maintaning our relationship but her mother is clearly not happy with this. apparently it would suit her better if i treated her daughter like rubbish.

What happened was last night my step daughter & i were cleaning our teeth & she was spitting out her tooth paste. i held her hair back from her face to stop her from spitting on her hair & when i did this she said" my mum says that you make me look stupid when you do my hair".

my husband & i spoke with her but she is only six & she is just stuck in the middle.

What makes me angry is tonight my husband went to drop her off & said nothing to his ex. Do you think he should deal with her? What would you think?

2006-11-04 18:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by alilovespete 2 in Family

Hello All,

I am a communication studies major and am doing a presentation on the topic of co-habitation prior to being married.

I want to give an unbiased presentation and just give the pro's and con's of the issue... but am having a very hard time finding and sites or organizations supporting co-habitation before marriage.

Does anyone know of any sites or research that do support it?? What are your thoughts and what not?

Thanks for your help!

2006-11-04 18:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by akaagassi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I told you you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?

2006-11-04 18:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by jess g 3 in Singles & Dating

I am just engaged to an american guy.And i found out some negative things about him.Then i got a friend from canada and i dont know i feel different about my feelings to him.I dont know if i like him or not.But i a was trying to compare him to my american bf he is stable and more matured.He told me he likes me also.I dont know what to think if he was just trying to test my feelings both for him and for my american bf.can pls anybody tell me what is wrong!!!thanks...

2006-11-04 18:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by msjoemc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's single,and i don't really think he'll take me seriously...

2006-11-04 18:44:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i accidentally told my guy friend that i liked him and he got mad at me and ignored me totally then after a while he approached me as if nothing happened and then when i tried talking to him again he doest want to coz by that time there was another guy who want to date me.but he just said that he wont talk to me coz that person might get mad at him.

i let that incident passed and after a year he started talking to me again but when i treated him as my friend he got mad again.it has been a cycle and its been 4 years of that happening.him getting mad then ok then gets mad again.he even says things about me behind my back to our friends.

i already tried asking him to fix this but he doesnt want to.even if i just want to know why is he mad at me i havent done anything wrong with him.i just want our friendship back...

please help me what should i do?

2006-11-04 18:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by angel_sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

Since the divorce it looks as though she is still using my last name, when the divorce decree said she was to take her maiden name. She has had phones set up in that same last name since then etc... What should I do?

2006-11-04 18:41:03 · 18 answers · asked by bchgoer03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so its been like 5 months, since me and my es-bf broke up, and i still have feelings for him, but i don't know if he has feelings for me. all of my friends, noticed that when we were going out that i was so happy, no matter what happend i was always happy. but ever since we broke up, have been misarbale. i really want to tell him how i feel about him, but don't know how to do it. should i write him a letter, should go over to his house, and talk to him, or should i give him a call? what should i do?

2006-11-04 18:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by Janha S 2 in Singles & Dating

Do they still use "Will you go out with me?" Or is it just assumed if they have been make-out buddies for awhile?

2006-11-04 18:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My exBF knocked me around twice, kept an ad up on match.com for 5 yrs while we dated, constantly was critical of my weight (125lbs @ 5'5 was fat to him), verbally insulted me and then called me emotional when i told him not to call me swear words and was jealous and when we broke up & threatened to kill anyone he saw me dating.
Plus when we stopped dating he expected me to keep being his maid and errand runner like when we dated.
Finally I told him I could be his friend but not his gopher.
Since I wont help him the friendship if over for him. Sad that thats all he wanted me for. LOL
He keeps writing me long sad letters saying I abandoned him and he was my savIor and was nicer to me than anyone else could be ever.
My ex isnt all bad, but the stuff I mentioned above it pretty damn disgusting.
I dont even hate him, i just think hes out of touch for thinking he is wonderful and im the meanie here !
Do bad men not know theyre bad ? My ex honestly thinks he was wonderful to me.

2006-11-04 18:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

He was my best friend for a couple years, then he asked me out so we went out and now we basically broke up cause he told his parents about us and they said that it was the wrong time, and i know he respects his parents so we talked about it, he was asking me what we should do, so just for the sake of it i said i guess we shouldn't do this ne more cause even if were dating secretly, he would probably actually tell them the truth. yes obviously i find it kinda annoying that he has to tell them the truth everytime cause me and my family are not close in that way at all. but i respect his respect for them. he said how he doesn't want to either but we ended it. now i just feel really like it won't be the same and it feels worse than just breaking up with your boyfriend cause he used to be your best friend. i sort of want either things to be the way it used to be, he says the same but when we talk its just different. how and what should i do to make things better between us?

2006-11-04 18:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 and hate to leave the house. id rather stay home.. i hate eating out and going shopping. its not that im lazy cuz i love being outside if im in the yard. to hang out with friends they come over. the last time i slept over at a friends i was in 5th grade. a friend sleeps over every weekend. is this bad?

2006-11-04 18:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by Sammie 1 in Family

I just recently found out that my father whom has been married to my mother for 20+ years likes my best friend in more than a friend way i read somethings he had writtin to her...And it kinda of came as a surprise to me...Im just wondering if I should confront him about it or leave it alone../I dont want it to ruin my friendship with ("Ellie") weve been best friends for 9 years now tho she is older than me weve always been friends and i dont wanna loose our friendship ove seomthing like this????

Thanks Alot!

2006-11-04 18:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family

2006-11-04 18:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by hot carmel 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy likes me and i like him back and we're friends and everything, but we're both shy. We're both not sure how to flirt. He glances at me and I look away, I glance at him..he looks away. So my question is: How can I flirt with him without being too flirtacous?? Thanks for your help peoples.

~Anonymous~

2006-11-04 18:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell someone, but I cant tell my best friend, she wouldnt care, but she'd tell everyone because she has a HUGE mouth.

Should I just keep it to myself?

2006-11-04 18:34:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So there is this guy from my church that my parents are friends with. He raps, and basically just does things that young people do. He flirts/talks to me all the time. At first I thought It was weird. And I still kind of do. But I cant help but kind of like it. I'm not the type of girl that likes a lot of attention, or is a whore, but I'm just wondering...

why do I like it when he does that? And is it wrong?

2006-11-04 18:32:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you married to someone who you soon became so bored with you've actually thought of cheating because they weren't satisfying you?

2006-11-04 18:32:56 · 13 answers · asked by LM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I honestly do not believe in marriage. I believe that it is an unnatural thing to stay with someone "forever". But, I do believe that you can love someone for as long as you live, but I do not believe that getting married is really necessary.

2006-11-04 18:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Teehee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been studying Graphology lately--it's the science of Handwriting Analysis--and he knows this. I would like him to write me a letter so that I can analize it. He won't agree to it, so I need to find a clever way to get a sample from him.
I'm not going to put too much stock into it, however, I think it's normal to want to analyze some real handwriting samples of people whom I know, now that I've gained this skill.
I love him very much and he's a good guy, but he definitely has a very SECRETIVE nature. He chalks this up to his zodiac sign, but I don't know if that's the entire reason. We are very serious about each other & I'd like to get a more "in depth" look at who I am about to marry. We're from opposite sides of the country, so naturally, our knowledge about each other's lives before we met is a bit limited (we met in college).How can I get him to write a letter to me (or to someone else)? The sample MUST be written TO someone & preferably in cursive (he always prints).

2006-11-04 18:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 18:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my ex and I broke up he has fallen into drugs, drinking and chewing tobacco. Even though we are broken up and he has done a lot of things to hurt me, I am still concerned for his health.
I was thinking about writing an anonymous letter for his mother and putting somewhere I know she will get it.
Is this a good idea?

I don't want him to be purposely in trouble and I don't want this to be a way to just get back at him, I just want it stopped because I think it's stupid what he's doing. I tried talking to him about it, but he won't listen. Help!

2006-11-04 18:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships