what to do if you told your guy friend you like him and he gets mad at you?

Question

i accidentally told my guy friend that i liked him and he got mad at me and ignored me totally then after a while he approached me as if nothing happened and then when i tried talking to him again he doest want to coz by that time there was another guy who want to date me.but he just said that he wont talk to me coz that person might get mad at him.

i let that incident passed and after a year he started talking to me again but when i treated him as my friend he got mad again.it has been a cycle and its been 4 years of that happening.him getting mad then ok then gets mad again.he even says things about me behind my back to our friends.

i already tried asking him to fix this but he doesnt want to.even if i just want to know why is he mad at me i havent done anything wrong with him.i just want our friendship back...

please help me what should i do?

Answer 1

Just let it go. Why have you wasted 4 years thinking about some guy who's being childish about something so simple. A real man would have talked to you. All he had to do was tell you that he either just wanted to be friends or if he felt the same as you did. Instead, he decided to be immature. I think the real reason he's mad is because you moved on with someone else and instead of giving you an answer, he realized he blew his chance. Let him fester in his own misery. You don't need friends that immature. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

Move on that is to much drama going on for to long!

Answer 3

Just let him alone and move on, simple

Answer 4

Move on.

Answer 5

wow, what a jerk. just tell him you want to be friends. he sounds like he's enjoying the drama

Answer 6

Drop him.