boring marriage?

Question

are you married to someone who you soon became so bored with you've actually thought of cheating because they weren't satisfying you?

by the way i'm not married but i do have a cousin whose experiencing this, just to clear that up.

I-M N-O-T M-A-R-R-I-E-D!

Answer 1

This is my first and only marriage and sometimes we both get bored, but that is the challenge. We keep mixing it up. Nothing kinky but we rediscover each other. Where there is no challenge, there is no marriage.

Answer 2

This happens more than you think in early marriages these days. Now before I give my advice ask yourself a question: Do you truly love your husband? Would you do anything for him? Would you die for him? The answer should be yes, since you married him. But anyway to get to the point is you shouldn't be too worried. A boring marriage can easily occur but can easily be fixed, unless you get too violent, etc. All you need to do is spend time together. Go out for a movie and dinner, just like a date. Go do something you both enjoy. If you have the money, go on a vacation together. And ways to lure him into bed are pretty easy..just to be your feminine self giving him long, light pecks and whispering softly in his ear, whatever turns him on.

I wish the best of luck,
Anonymous

Answer 3

The question is, are you bored with him...or bored with yourself? Are you seeking something that is missing in your life? Sometimes we project personal issues onto our relationships. Are you just bored in life right now, therefore you are seeking new "excitement" to take away that awful feeling? Boredom is can be a devestating human emotion. Before you decide to have an affair, ask yourself what's really lacking in your life. Why do you feel a need to seek an elicit affair for the thrill of it? It's possible that you're not really in love with your husband. If that's the case, end it if there are no children involved yet. Also, don't expect your husband or any man to provide you with personal fullfillment- it's something we have to seek out for ourselves- otherwise, you'll never be satisfied, and you'll end up hurting people, including yourself in the process. You need to do some soul searching. Is there something you feel that you should do with your life that you're not doing?

Answer 4

Oh honey...all or most marriages get boring at some point. What you need to do is fall back in love with your MAN. He loves you too, and you two need kinkier sex, or a vacation from the kids, or whoop it up at a club downtown, or all of the above. There's not any other man out there whose going to be that much more exciting out there after years of marriage, so why risk screwing up your life? TELL HIM that what you need is more romance, and explain to him what turns you on. Guys are kind of dumb sometimes when it comes to this, and you have to nudge it out of him. It won't happen overnight, but its certainly better than having a sleazy affair, which won't solve any problems. Stand up for your marriage and fight for it! Don't be just another divorce statistic.
Go here if you want...some of it is cheesey, but some of it offers advice, too.
http://www.romancebetweenthelines.com/

Answer 5

Does the other have on how you feel about your marriage? and if so Have even try to fix it. before you start on to someone else. In a marriage people change because they forget why they fell in love with that person. Because you do the same thing every day. and that is when you get bored. then it get to that point you're so bored you don't really care if the other care if you leave because you're not getting what you need at home. But maybe if you look back a why you fell in love with that person and maybe try to talk to that person about what is going on maybe you could fix it before it to late. Your happiness is not just there person to give you. you have to do some of that yourself to .

Answer 6

Think of something you've had in the past that you absolutly loved! After time, you get bored of it, even though its great. You know everything there is to know about it. Relationships are the same. After time, you need a change. Don't get married.

Answer 7

If you feel this way you should sit down with you husband and be honest with him. Tell him that this is how i feel and tell him why you feel this way, because if you do something like cheating on him you could be throwing away your marriage. just remember that marriage is all about give and take. and sometime we think things about our partner that are wrong, or we think they feel this way or that way but they don't, we forget that they can not read our minds , they really don't know what we are thinking
what i am trying to say please don't chuck your marriage away with out talking about how you feel with your partner.

may God bless you both

Answer 8

No. If thats the case I wouldnt cheat just get a divorce. If you cheat you are garbage. If theyre bored, maybe they are bored with you or cheating on you and arent interested in you.

Answer 9

yes,

it's not really boring, but we only have it on maybe 1-2 a week!!
and most of the time we only go down on each other, than have the actual intercourse and that 's that!!

i met this woman on one of our friends parties. i'm sure she showed me (accidental offcourse) that she wasn 't wearing any undies.

i 'll go after HER!

good luck to u !
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Answer 10

Its you not him.. restore your love. pray. Do Not Cheat, you will regret it the remainder of your life if you do.