My exBF knocked me around twice, kept an ad up on match.com for 5 yrs while we dated, constantly was critical of my weight (125lbs @ 5'5 was fat to him), verbally insulted me and then called me emotional when i told him not to call me swear words and was jealous and when we broke up & threatened to kill anyone he saw me dating.
Plus when we stopped dating he expected me to keep being his maid and errand runner like when we dated.
Finally I told him I could be his friend but not his gopher.
Since I wont help him the friendship if over for him. Sad that thats all he wanted me for. LOL
He keeps writing me long sad letters saying I abandoned him and he was my savIor and was nicer to me than anyone else could be ever.
My ex isnt all bad, but the stuff I mentioned above it pretty damn disgusting.
I dont even hate him, i just think hes out of touch for thinking he is wonderful and im the meanie here !
Do bad men not know theyre bad ? My ex honestly thinks he was wonderful to me.
2006-11-04 18:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ha ha sounds like my ex he cheated on me and because he got caught he was the victim get a clue! Guys really think they are wonderful even when they are being the biggest assholes ever the thing is alot of woman think they are wonderful and don't realize the things they do as well. I'm not taking up for him or saying that your wrong at all I'm just saying there is always two sides to every story He may have been expecting you to do for him with no thanks at all because he was probably use to you doing things for him without it being a problem.Did you ever tell him that doing things for him made you feel like his gopher or did you say I enjoy doing things for you because I love you? You cant fault him because you allowed him to treat you that way.Yes it was wrong none the less but us woman do have to take some of the responsibility when it comes to matters like this. Most likely hes a jerk most men are they take us for granted **** on us and treat us badly but the question is do we allow them to do this with no complaints until we are at the point where we don't want them anymore if you never complained he could not have known he was being a bad guy and he has no reason to think otherwise
2006-11-04 18:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by witchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many bad men probably think they are good men because it seems that the ladies flock to them and put up with their BS. They want to be Machevellian towards women, yet feel like they are being Cassanova towards them. If ladies like yourself quit seeking out the bad guys, then maybe the bad guys will reform themselves.
2006-11-05 02:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask that question, yes. But it begs another question. Why the heck did you stay with him if you knew all this? He doesn't have any pretenses, he's bad to the bone and he knows it. You however knew he was bad and stayed around, this puts you in the running for a gullible award. Don't ask why he did it, ask why you stayed and took it.
2006-11-05 02:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok babe. You ask and I have to say. This boy who thinks he is so fricken wonderful......is only that in his own eyes. Little girl.Get as far away from him and dont EVER let him near you again. I could only hope to hurt this boy. Respect yourself....and walk away!
2006-11-05 02:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bad men don't know they're bad because they are too ignorant to see themselves for what they really are. sad but true.
2006-11-05 02:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should write a book on it, ******* men!
2006-11-05 02:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋