I am just engaged to an american guy.And i found out some negative things about him.Then i got a friend from canada and i dont know i feel different about my feelings to him.I dont know if i like him or not.But i a was trying to compare him to my american bf he is stable and more matured.He told me he likes me also.I dont know what to think if he was just trying to test my feelings both for him and for my american bf.can pls anybody tell me what is wrong!!!thanks...
2006-11-04 18:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by msjoemc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is wrong here is that u are confused. U don't seem to know what u really want. If u are engaged to your bf, I say hold off on the wedding until u can learn how to make up your mind.
2006-11-04 18:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay- you need to hold on a sec here. You are throwing yourself into situations before even considering the repurcussions! I think it would be really cruel of you to continue to remain engaged to this american boy if you aren't really attracted to him, but rather some other guy. However, the other guy doesn't sound like such a nice guy if he's so willing to ruin other people's relationships- i would say ditch them both. Good Luck
2006-11-04 18:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you engaged just for the hell of it or is your heart really into it? Remember divorces are costly and you dont want to look and sound stupid when you have to tell people YOU ARE NO LONGER ENGAGED!
2006-11-04 18:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only be engaged if you are in love and commited to spending the rest of your life with this guy! It's not a game. You sound very young. If you're not ready and committed please don't do it.
2006-11-04 19:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So where is the love?I don't think you love your fiance.Put everything on hold.Get to know everybody.Just be sure of your feelings.
2006-11-04 18:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun, you need to break off your engagement cuz you dont know what you want..
and you cant compare guys.. it dont work that way
only marry some one if you truly love them
2006-11-04 18:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are just confused (my opinion). I mean u are not even sure if u like or not, what do u want us say? U want us to tell if u like him or not?
2006-11-04 18:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any doubt. Don't do it!!!! Any confusion is not a good thing. You need to be 100% sure.
2006-11-04 18:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by DragonRyda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to get cold feet when things get serious. how about talking about your mixed feelings to your boyfriend and perhaps go for marital counsling?
2006-11-04 18:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh I would not be engaged then if anything is negative.
if in doubt
pull out
2006-11-04 18:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋